# Tit for tit and tat for tat ... meaning of

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**Created:** [April 18, 2013, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999 "2013-04-18T02:46:33Z")\
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**Author:** ![Mr\_Quatro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/bc8723/32.png) [@Mr\_Quatro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Quatro)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2013, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/1 "2013-04-18T02:46:33Z")

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Tit for tit and tat for tat is a 500ad greek poem

“I Am Echo”

I am echo if you say that  
then I’ll say that

Tit for tit and tat for tat  
If you’ll be silent then I must

Tit for tit and tat for tat  
now who could have a tongue more just

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LINK TO COLUMN: [http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/924/whats-the-origin-of-tit-for-tat](http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/924/whats-the-origin-of-tit-for-tat)

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2013, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/2 "2013-04-18T03:11:46Z")

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Presumably a poem from AD 500 wasn’t in English. Were “Tit” and “Tat” the words used in the original Greek, or a modern translation? And if a translation, was the translation before or after the origin of the English expression?

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2013, 12:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/3 "2013-04-18T12:12:44Z")

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Welcome to the Straight Dope Message Boards, **Mr Quatro** , we’re glad to have you with us. For future ref, it’s helpful to other readers to provide a link to the column under consideration. Saves search time and helps keep us on the same page. Yes, “tit for tat” is currently on the home page, but will soon sink into the Archives. Anyhow, no big deal, I’ve added the link at the bottom of your post.

We also like folks to provide some cites that verify their (otherwise unsupported) statement. We’re a suspicious lot here, and (especially with word and phrase origins), we’ve seen lots of interesting ex post facto “origins” that have no basis in fact. So, indicating where you learned about this ancient Greek poem would be helpful.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2013, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/4 "2013-04-18T13:07:04Z")

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There was a young woman named Pat  
Who had triplets named Rat, Bat, and Tat.  
They were fun in the breeding  
But hell in the feeding  
When she found there was no …

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2013, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/5 "2013-04-18T13:46:31Z")

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Strange that this poem appears no where else on the internet except this thread.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2013, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/6 "2013-04-18T23:10:42Z")

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Not so. I found it (similarly unattributed, but dated to 500BC, rather than 500AD) in an entry on another forum dated 2007.

However, the Greek language simply doesn’t allow it. “Τιτ [for] τιτ και τατ [for] τατ” isn’t possible in Greek, even if there are such words as τιτ and τατ (and I don’t believe there are), no matter what word is used to translate “for”, because the words would have to be in different cases. And, of course, Ancient Greek doesn’t employ rhyme to begin with.

It is possible that there is an old Greek poetic fragment of which this English is a decent translation all the same, but it is no good citing the English version as a source.

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**Post date:** [April 20, 2013, 11:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/7 "2013-04-20T23:15:10Z")

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Thank you for adding the link …

Yes, now I remember reading it in a small library in El Cajon, California 1984 I think it was.

It was with a lot of other old poems and it was 500bc I never could remember if it was ad or bc  
till now and it was attributed to a Greek poet. (his name I have forgotten)

but I never forgot the message of echo, almost like going up and down the steps  
of a temple

How the greek language came up with a ryhme using tit for tat this I do not know

> [@](#):
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> I am echo who can hold my tongue
> 
> if you say this then I will say that
> 
> tit for tit and tat for tat
> 
> if you be silent then I must
> 
> tit for tit and tat for tat
> 
> now who could have a tongue more just

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**Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/8 "2013-04-21T20:18:12Z")

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Why would a Greek poem rhyme when translated to English?

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**Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 8:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/9 "2013-04-21T20:47:20Z")

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Because a translator worked to make it so. There are such things as rhyming translations of foreign language works, you know.

This particular example is most likely arrant nonsense, but simply rhyming isn’t evidence of that. Kennedy’s comment about case seems to me to be one of the more salient points.

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**Post date:** [April 26, 2013, 1:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tit-for-tit-and-tat-for-tat-meaning-of/655999/10 "2013-04-26T13:30:43Z")

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> [@Mr\_Quatro](#):
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> Tit for tit and tat for tat is a 500ad greek poem
> 
> “I Am Echo”
> 
> I am echo if you say that  
> then I’ll say that
> 
> Tit for tit and tat for tat  
> If you’ll be silent then I must
> 
> Tit for tit and tat for tat  
> now who could have a tongue more just

This may be the same poem as quoted in “The Greek Anthology: The Garland of Philip, and Some Contemporary Epigrams”

> **[Amazon.com: The Greek Anthology: The Garland of Philip, and Some Contemporary...](https://www.amazon.com/Greek-Anthology-Garland-Contemporary-Epigrams/dp/0521058740)**
>
> Amazon.com: The Greek Anthology: The Garland of Philip, and Some Contemporary Epigrams (2 Volume Set): 9780521058742: A.S.F. Gow, D.L. Page: Books

(Which would date it in the period from 90 BC to 40 AD)

It is not the same translation, but it seems very similar.

> **[The Greek Anthology](https://books.google.se/books?id=-E88AAAAIAAJ&pg=PA417&lpg=PA417&dq=%22i%2Bam%2Becho%22%2Bgreek&source=bl&ots=pDwWuL4hzY&sig=WMEgfkoz59-_s7m0GaW0nZpga9k&hl=en&sa=X&ei=NHt6UfaFDsaJ4ATR-YC4AQ&sqi=2&redir_esc=y#v=onepage&q=%22i%20am%20echo%22%20greek&f=false)**
