# TMI: What is the appeal of ass-to-mouth sex? TMI **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 2, 2004, 4:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917 "2004-04-02T16:55:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![SPOOFE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c5a1d2/32.png) [@SPOOFE](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SPOOFE)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2004, 10:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/21 "2004-04-02T22:36:54Z")
> [@](#): > > Not my cup of o-cha, but what other consenting adults do with each other is none of my business, words that the OP and his busybody ilk should write upon their hearts in letters of gold. It IS his business if he’s buying a product of pleasure that contains material that ruins his boner. Maybe you shouldn’t be such a busybody yourself, Gobear. Or are we not allowed to have opinions on what we don’t like? ---
**Author:** ![UselessGit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/74df32/32.png) [@UselessGit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UselessGit)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2004, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/22 "2004-04-02T23:05:04Z")
> [@jastu](#): > > I believe the girls performing in the porn videos have had enemas a couple of hours before and have been thoroughly cleaned so it is probably not quite as unhygienic as one might think at first glance. And that’s before being sodomised and ejaculated upon? …what a way to make a living. ☹ Beats being a telemarketer though, I guess. ---
**Author:** ![myrnajean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c57346/32.png) [@myrnajean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/myrnajean)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2004, 11:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/23 "2004-04-02T23:14:08Z")
Not making any judgements here, but has everyone forgotten this thread? [Pinworms](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=233980) I think that turned me off any booty action for quite some time… ---
**Author:** ![norinew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eb9ed0/32.png) [@norinew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/norinew)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 12:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/24 "2004-04-03T00:02:47Z")
> [@](#): > > _Originally posted by hapaXL_ > Ass-to-mouth means taking your member from the first and immediately placing it in the second without the benefit of a wash. No, I wouldn’t do it. Just too much e coli floatin’ around down there for my (ahem) taste. When hubby and I engage in anal, he always wears a condom, just so we can engage in oral later without having to worry about it. ---
**Author:** ![Low\_Key\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ed655f/32.png) [@Low\_Key\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Low_Key_1)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 1:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/25 "2004-04-03T01:35:33Z")
I saw this act for the forst time a few months back when my mate put on a porno and the pornstar chick said in her ‘sexy’ voice “straight from my \*ass \* to my _mouth_” to the camera. We all thought it was quite funny. Personally, I really can’t see the attraction of this for a girl. But, hey, if she enjoys it, great. I would be genuinely interested to hear from a girl who does enjoy this and hear exactly what the turn on is for her. It would seem strange if she answered “because its a taboo,” but who knows…? ---
**Author:** ![Saracen\_Pig\_Spartan\_Dog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f19dbf/32.png) [@Saracen\_Pig\_Spartan\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saracen_Pig_Spartan_Dog)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/26 "2004-04-03T02:23:56Z")
[QUOTE=Otto] Second response: Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. [QUOTE] OK. When do you have a couple hours free so I can come over and ram my dick up your ass and pound away and then pull it out of your ass and shove it in your mouth. _Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it._ Right. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: ---
**Author:** ![Low\_Key\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ed655f/32.png) [@Low\_Key\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Low_Key_1)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/27 "2004-04-03T02:29:50Z")
> [@](#): > > When do you have a couple hours free so I can come over and ram my dick up your ass and pound away and then pull it out of your ass and shove it in your mouth. What a great last post for me to read before heading off to bed… something about that made me laugh…although I suppose it will meet its share of heated counter posts… Hoping for good dreams tonight … 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 2:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/28 "2004-04-03T02:57:50Z")
> [@Finagle](#): > > This reaction is annoying to me, because it seems to imply that open-mindedness is a one-way street. No matter what your fetish might happen to be, we’re supposed to be OK with it. But we’re not allowed to say “Ewwww?” > > ``` > Otto, I think you could maybe stretch your imagination a bit, and try to accept that some people think a mouthful of fecal bacteria is pretty icky. > > ``` I’m fascinated that you think I should be more open-minded by allowing people to be closed-minded. Did you miss the bit about fighting ignorance when you popped onto the boards? I’m all on board with someone going “ew” at this. When I realized the OP was talking about this as opposed to rimming, I even went “ew” myself. There is a bit of a difference between “ew” and “vile, degenerate pervert” and I hope you are open-minded enough to recognize it. > [@sarcen spartan something something](#): > > When do you have a couple hours free so I can come over and ram my dick up your ass and pound away and then pull it out of your ass and shove it in your mouth. I appreciate the offer, but I already have a steady sex partner and I did mention that I wasn’t particularly into this. Good luck finding someone, though! ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/29 "2004-04-03T03:25:48Z")
[QUOTE=Saracen Pig! Spartan Dog!] [QUOTE=Otto] Second response: Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. > [@](#): > > OK. > > When do you have a couple hours free so I can come over and ram my dick up your ass and pound away and then pull it out of your ass and shove it in your mouth. > > _Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it._ > > Right. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Not appropriate in IMHO. If you have a problem with another poster, take it to the BBQ Pit. ---
**Author:** ![pravnik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8edcca/32.png) [@pravnik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pravnik)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/30 "2004-04-03T03:26:21Z")
> [@Saracen Pig! Spartan Dog!](#): > > When do you have a couple hours free so I can come over and ram my dick up your ass and pound away and then pull it out of your ass and shove it in your mouth. Dinner first! ---
**Author:** ![pokey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ebca7d/32.png) [@pokey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pokey)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/31 "2004-04-03T03:59:12Z")
Well, I’m what you’d call a pretty big porn consumer. By average joe standards I guess. I dunno. It’s not really that ass to mouth is anything new, it’s more that suddenly every other video has it and this big deal is made that there is no edit. It’s not so much that seeing him wash his dick was a problem, it’s that somehow someone had the idea that it was hotter if she did it when it wasn’t washed and at that point having a cut between the anal and the oral bothered people because he could have washed his dick in that time. So there’s this huge fuss made that there is no cut. I remember back in the old days of 2003 when I first started to see it, I did kind of like it, but it’s dark. The point is that it’s degrading. It’s like forced deep throat and deep throat with vomiting which I see a lot. It’s degrading. There’s no way around it. The appeal is that the sex is bad and shameful and the girl is dirty and if anyone thinks that’s not the appeal, that’s just nutty. Even if you watched gay porn, if you saw guys choked with dicks or specifically told to suck a dick that was just in someone’s ass without wiping it off first, you’d still know that it was a dark thing about sex being dirty and bad. There’s no way around it. I totally agree with what **plnnr** is saying. Porn is so absolutely that way. The thing is that I think novelty wears off faster in porn than in any other form of entertainment. I think the appeal is different for everyone. Some guys really don’t like women, let’s face it. Or they like women, but not the women in porn. They’re mad at the women in porn because it bugs them that they masturbated to videos of women they don’t respect or like or think they should like. They think they should be above it. So it is jolly times for them to see those women degraded. It’s a pretty standard idea about degrading porn. But there are other ways it can appeal. For me, and I sincerely hope for most people, it’s just that it’s really wrong to be mean to someone and it’s kind of a thrill to do some shameful but essentially harmless thing like jerk off to someone being mean to someone else. On the other hand, I think it’s really naive if anyone thinks women like to suck a dick that’s just been in their ass. It’s a job. Pornstars get intestinal parasites like anyone else. Annie Sprinkle did! She mentioned it in one of her shows. But that’s why pornstars get paid. In non scat circles I think most regular people do draw the line at analingus. Analingus is about pleasure. Ass to mouth is about being mean and dirty. ---
**Author:** ![pokey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ebca7d/32.png) [@pokey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pokey)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 4:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/32 "2004-04-03T04:09:25Z")
Oh uh… by the way when I say I see a lot of this or that I mean I see it is there, I don’t mean I watch it a lot. I don’t like to see people degraded, especially since I’m female and I prefer to think of men as people who are essentially nice and not all secretly just wishing they could be like these porno guys who choke and slap girls in videos. I understand why people like them, but like I say, it’s dark. I don’t mind if people are dark as long as they’re not stupid too. I always remember in American Psycho Patrick Bateman has that overdue video with the ass to mouth scene in it. ---
**Author:** ![Saracen\_Pig\_Spartan\_Dog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f19dbf/32.png) [@Saracen\_Pig\_Spartan\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Saracen_Pig_Spartan_Dog)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 4:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/33 "2004-04-03T04:12:10Z")
> [@pokey](#): > > Well, I’m what you’d call a pretty big porn consumer. By average joe standards I guess. I dunno. > > It’s not really that ass to mouth is anything new, it’s more that suddenly every other video has it and this big deal is made that there is no edit. It’s not so much that seeing him wash his dick was a problem, it’s that somehow someone had the idea that it was hotter if she did it when it wasn’t washed and at that point having a cut between the anal and the oral bothered people because he could have washed his dick in that time. So there’s this huge fuss made that there is no cut. I remember back in the old days of 2003 when I first started to see it, I did kind of like it, but it’s dark. The point is that it’s degrading. It’s like forced deep throat and deep throat with vomiting which I see a lot. It’s degrading. There’s no way around it. The appeal is that the sex is bad and shameful and the girl is dirty and if anyone thinks that’s not the appeal, that’s just nutty. Even if you watched gay porn, if you saw guys choked with dicks or specifically told to suck a dick that was just in someone’s ass without wiping it off first, you’d still know that it was a dark thing about sex being dirty and bad. There’s no way around it. > > I totally agree with what **plnnr** is saying. Porn is so absolutely that way. The thing is that I think novelty wears off faster in porn than in any other form of entertainment. > > I think the appeal is different for everyone. Some guys really don’t like women, let’s face it. Or they like women, but not the women in porn. They’re mad at the women in porn because it bugs them that they masturbated to videos of women they don’t respect or like or think they should like. They think they should be above it. So it is jolly times for them to see those women degraded. It’s a pretty standard idea about degrading porn. But there are other ways it can appeal. For me, and I sincerely hope for most people, it’s just that it’s really wrong to be mean to someone and it’s kind of a thrill to do some shameful but essentially harmless thing like jerk off to someone being mean to someone else. > > On the other hand, I think it’s really naive if anyone thinks women like to suck a dick that’s just been in their ass. It’s a job. Pornstars get intestinal parasites like anyone else. Annie Sprinkle did! She mentioned it in one of her shows. But that’s why pornstars get paid. In non scat circles I think most regular people do draw the line at analingus. Analingus is about pleasure. Ass to mouth is about being mean and dirty. You got at the heart of what I was trying to say in my OP. It’s degrading. ---
**Author:** ![nitroglycerine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c5a1d2/32.png) [@nitroglycerine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nitroglycerine)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/34 "2004-04-03T05:03:00Z")
> [@UselessGit](#): > > And that’s before being sodomised and ejaculated upon? > > …what a way to make a living. ☹ > > Beats being a telemarketer though, I guess. Awww, man…I start a telemarketing job on Monday. Lets hope its not THAT bad.\ ---
**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/35 "2004-04-03T05:31:47Z")
> [@pokey](#): > > Even if you watched gay porn, if you saw guys choked with dicks or specifically told to suck a dick that was just in someone’s ass without wiping it off first, you’d still know that it was a dark thing about sex being dirty and bad. There’s no way around it. Not that I have an encyclopedic knowledge of gay porn, but I’ve never seen this. Probably because 99% of gay porn made “professionally” in the last 20+ years wouldn’t have anal without condoms and I gather that wearing a condom rather defeats the purpose of this little exercise. ---
**Author:** ![Lynn\_Bodoni](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Lynn\_Bodoni](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lynn_Bodoni)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2004, 5:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tmi-what-is-the-appeal-of-ass-to-mouth-sex-tmi/237917/36 "2004-04-03T05:43:17Z")
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