# To everyone-I'm sorry!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [June 27, 2000, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671 "2000-06-27T02:19:38Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Nacho4Sara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Nacho4Sara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nacho4Sara)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/1 "2000-06-27T02:19:38Z")

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Hey all, it’s me again.

I just checked my e-mail and read one of the sweetest letters ever from a poster here. It really touched me, and influenced me to write this post.

I really lost it in my Pit thread. What else can I say? I was pissed. I was angry and I generalized. I expected a few people to say fuck you and that it would die. But a lot of people responded, and quite a few took the piss out of me. I became very angry that people thought I was some sort of stupid idiot because I was pissed (and the whole Wally thing, and I had PMS and was sick all week…It was an emotional week for all of us). One person specifically attacked me right away and I hit him right back (which I do not regret AT ALL). But then I became overly sensitive and attacked everyone, which was stupid and immature. Many people tried to offer me advice, which I took as an attack, when it really wasn’t (accept for one person who did attack me). I blew up and then blew up some more. Then I looked back and realized what an idiot I was. So I became embarrassed and decided to stop posting, period. I did recieve that promotion and I will need to cut back on the time I spend here, but my face was red and I foolishly decided to quit cold-turkey. I thought, “it’s just a message board.” But I had today off (I start my new position tomorrow) and I realized that I **did** want to post here. I didn’t want to quit cold-turkey. In reality, I will be sad if I can’t spend an hour here after work laughing my ass off and relaxing.

I was childish and immature and mistreated people who sincerely attempted to help me out. The recent outpouring of kindness has truly made me realize that I was a fuckhead and I should be begging forgiveness to all the people here whom I admire and care about.

\*doing _NSYNC dance_ I am down on my knees…I can’t take it anymore…

I’m sorry, guys. Really truly sorry.

PS Quicksilver is still an asshole and I am not sorry about flaming him 🙂

(You didn’t expect me to throw the whole hog in, did ya?)

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**Author:** ![CanadianSue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/71e660/32.png) [@CanadianSue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CanadianSue)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/2 "2000-06-27T02:23:34Z")

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So get back to posting! Welcome back

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**Author:** ![FreakFreely](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/48db29/32.png) [@FreakFreely](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FreakFreely)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/3 "2000-06-27T02:24:36Z")

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Welcome back Nacho4Sara, 'twouldn’t have been the same without you.

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**Author:** ![Silver\_Fire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a88e4f/32.png) [@Silver\_Fire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Fire)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/4 "2000-06-27T02:26:23Z")

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What you’ve done here is very mature of you. I’m sure I speak for everyone when I say, glad you changed your mind. You’ve done a lot for this board and the people who post here. Welcome back.

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**Author:** ![xenophon41](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xenophon41/32/253_2.png) [@xenophon41](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xenophon41)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/5 "2000-06-27T02:27:41Z")

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I _never_ do this. But hell - - - {{{{{ **Nacho4Sara** }}}}}

Now, get back to posting, dammit.

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**Author:** ![ChiefScott](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58f4c7/32.png) [@ChiefScott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ChiefScott)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/6 "2000-06-27T02:28:07Z")

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So, basically, you’re telling me I wasted a perfectly good “So long, keep lurking” post in your good-bye thread?

Well there’s 15 seconds of my life right down the shitter.

Putz.

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**Author:** ![HomeSlice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/9d8465/32.png) [@HomeSlice](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HomeSlice)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/7 "2000-06-27T02:38:10Z")

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I likes you Sara. Too bad you’re a Nole and a Yank, but nobodies perfect. 😉

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**Author:** ![Mauve\_Dog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ad7895/32.png) [@Mauve\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mauve_Dog)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/8 "2000-06-27T02:48:03Z")

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While I didn’t take part in the Pit Follies you speak of, I did read them, and many other things you’ve written. I am but a lowly newbie, but I must join in with the others in saying you would be missed if you left. ☹  
But, you didn’t, and that makes me happy 🙂 ← see?

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**Author:** ![Monster104](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Monster104](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monster104)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/9 "2000-06-27T02:53:05Z")

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Glad to hear you’re back Sara (Or do you prefer Nacho? Or the whole name? :D). I’ve read your posts, and I enjoy them. You did not appear foolish at all to me. And when someone personally attacks you, you have every right to hit them back, twice as hard.

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/10 "2000-06-27T03:15:21Z")

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Welcome back - er, yeah. Now I won’t be alone at the kiddie table at the next DC-area dopefest 🙂

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**Author:** ![Sue\_Duhnym](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@Sue\_Duhnym](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sue_Duhnym)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/11 "2000-06-27T03:21:06Z")

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YAY!!!

(BTW, and don’t spread it around, I actually like that song by \*NSYNC…ByeByeBye…It’s infectuous!)

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**Author:** ![Nacho4Sara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Nacho4Sara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nacho4Sara)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/12 "2000-06-27T03:27:27Z")

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Sue, I am going to their concert in two weeks. Nothing could top my embarrassment…🙂

ChiefScott - to be called a putz by you is an honor like no other. I will always cherish that post.

_he called me a putz!_

Thanks guys. I can be a moody bitch (who would have thought!?) and sometimes (ahem) I wig out.

Can you feel the love tonight? It is where we are…

$10 to the posters who DON’T tease me about going to an \*NSYNC concert or singing the words to an Elton John song.🙂

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**Author:** ![Mauve\_Dog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ad7895/32.png) [@Mauve\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mauve_Dog)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/13 "2000-06-27T03:32:44Z")

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Allow me to be the first to not tease you 🙂

Now…pay up!

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**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 3:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/14 "2000-06-27T03:37:32Z")

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Quit apologizing.

Welcome back.

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**Author:** ![dpr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8797f3/32.png) [@dpr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dpr)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 4:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/15 "2000-06-27T04:13:47Z")

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Welcome back Sarah!

But please: no more NSync dancing…  
(do I get $5 for not teasing you about Elton)

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**Author:** ![Silo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ac91a4/32.png) [@Silo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silo)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 5:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/16 "2000-06-27T05:24:27Z")

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Welcome back.

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**Author:** ![purrplebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90ced4/32.png) [@purrplebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purrplebear)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 5:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/17 "2000-06-27T05:40:24Z")

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Great OP. Shows maturity and compassion. Glad you’re back, Sarah.  
:wally

BTW, I _like_ N’Sync! Wish I could go with you. Missed them when they were in SA.

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**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 6:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/18 "2000-06-27T06:10:46Z")

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~" Oh it’s the Cirrrrrrcleee of life…"

Hey, _I’M_ not gonna pass that one up…

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**Author:** ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 6:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/19 "2000-06-27T06:44:52Z")

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.erac ekaT .ereh dnuora uoy ssim ll’eW .sraS ,noitomorp ruoy no snoitalutargnoC

.niw sdratsab tar esoht nehw ti etah I !kcuF

…tub ,SMISPM si siht wonk I

Well, I really don’t want to take back the congrats on the promotion. That part still stands. 🙂

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**Author:** ![MysterEcks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f475e1/32.png) [@MysterEcks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MysterEcks)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2000, 7:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/to-everyone-im-sorry/23671/20 "2000-06-27T07:15:24Z")

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**Nacho4Sara** said:

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> $10 to the posters who DON’T tease me about going to an \*NSYNC concert or singing the words to an Elton John song.

I never tease anyone who offers me money not to.

**Shayna** said:

> [@](#):
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> .erac ekaT .ereh dnuora uoy ssim ll’eW .sraS ,noitomorp ruoy no snoitalutargnoC
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> .niw sdratsab tar esoht nehw ti etah I !kcuF
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> …tub ,SMISPM si siht wonk I

Damn…I didn’t think I was drunk tonight.

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