If you still think that, then I suggest you read the review that @Wendell_Wagner linked to above:
Perilous and Fair: Women in the Works and Life of J.R.R. Tolkien
Those are serious, scholarly essays. They are almost all by women, and they hardly have a single negative word to say about Tolkien. In fact, they have a lot of positive things to say about Tolkien and women, both in his life and in his works.
This excellent collection of essays is long overdue, for in spite of the breadth and depth of scholarship dealing with female characters or feminist themes in Tolkien’s work, there has not been, to my knowledge, an entire volume devoted to this topic.
Furthermore, as Croft and Donovan note in their introduction there remains “a continuing and alarming tendency among some current Tolkien scholars to remain unfamiliar with or to disregard outright the more positive readings of Tolkien’s female characters and gender politics found easily in both classic and recent research”