Well, I guess it depends on your definition of low. Lets assume for the moment that my rough calculation of 1/20 in your lifetime is right. Is that low? Who gets to decide what the comfort threshold for each person is? This is exactly what I get into in my short armed class in trying to discourage people to get a firearm. Chances are that in an average class maybe 1 person will have cause to use a firearm in their lives. In exchange for that, they carry an enourmous responsibility with enourmous repercussions whether they end up using their firearm or not. However, in the end, it is their choice to decide if that is something they want to carry or not, not mine. At least, in my opinion, it is their choice. I’m not going to tell them that the world if perfectly safe, nor will I tell them that they need a firearm to protect themselves. Both would be lies. Violent crime is real, but not so pervasive that you cannot go your entire life without ever needing a firearm. It is ultimately, at the end of the day, a roll of the dice (even that is not true since, of course, you can influence how you may or may not be targetted as a victim, but that’s a whole other story too).
And it is the very fact that violent attack exists that makes the firearm a potential necessity in the case where violent lethal force attack is used against you. Yes, I couldn’t agree more. They are both tied together, although there are more means of lethal force attack then just a firearms, which is why removing all firearms does not, unfortunately, remove the need for a response to lethal force attack. When no means of escape is available, the best choice in response from a surivival perspective is lethal force, and the firearm is the best lethal force projector.
Personally, like yourself, I’d be very happy if somebody would invent a non-lethal weapon that would feel the role of response to lethal force, then I could merrily recommend it to all my students without hesitation, and could train them in its use. At this time, there just is not such a thing.
I agree that there is an argument to be made that even if the firearm is the best lethal force projector that the cost to society is too great. My interest, as I mentioned a few posts up, is making sure that the right information is being used. I.e. the proper understanding of self defense realities is being used. As I’ve also mentioned, I happen to think that with the proper training people can be responsible, effective gun owners. I think alot of what you see being done by gun owners on the negative side you’re seeing because they’ve have either no training or extreme little & ineffective training. To the best of my knowledge, nobody has done a study to demonstrate though, which is too bad. Fix that problem and I think you’d see a whole different picture.