# Touching a nerve

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**Created:** [November 21, 2016, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/touching-a-nerve/772684 "2016-11-21T22:17:08Z")\
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**Post date:** [November 22, 2016, 8:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/touching-a-nerve/772684/20 "2016-11-22T08:06:18Z")

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In context, the earlier use of “touched a nerve” carries a completely different colloquial meaning.  
But in the second instance, in the context of disagreement in the conversation, it was this:

> [@Stop being the expert \[famous people and political views\]](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/stop-being-the-expert-famous-people-and-political-views/772543/68):
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> …The “I’ve touched a nerve” gambit is IME invariably used to imply that there is some sensitivity of the _listener_ that has caused them to (over)react, but in reality \*the speaker \*has said something idiotic or obnoxious, and it is that (rather than any sensitivity of the listener) which has caused the listener to react strongly…

**watchwolf49** , do you disagree with **Princhester** ’s comment (I made a similar one in the thread, but less eloquently, so I quoted his)? Because you said above:

> [@watchwolf49](#):
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> It’s more than touching a nerve … there’s just certain positions one can’t take on these boards without some group getting ass-hurt … a new poster logs on and if they’re not aware of the taboos fairly often there’s a dog pile … as though “a nerve was touched” …

This seems to me an odd interpretation. Imo, the only person overreacting here is OP, who has started an ATMB thread because he’s “ass-hurt” that some people thought both his pro-Pence/Trump RO thesis and his level of discourse were weak sauce.

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