# Tough blow \[gf leaves me and moves out all while I am gone from the house\] **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [November 7, 2015, 4:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tough-blow-gf-leaves-me-and-moves-out-all-while-i-am-gone-from-the-house/736874 "2015-11-07T04:24:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 250
**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2015, 1:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tough-blow-gf-leaves-me-and-moves-out-all-while-i-am-gone-from-the-house/736874/250 "2015-11-10T01:01:30Z")
> [@Acsenray](#): > > By disappearing on you like that, she either (1) thinks you are a dangerous monster, or (2) is extremely cruel herself. I don’t agree. She’s definitely not cruel, she’s the sweetest girl I’ve ever known. Her view of me seemed to change, quite rapidly. Almost in a cyclical fashion. I think she is not well. That is why she disappeared on me like that. Her brain is a constant whirlwind and she thinks I’m evil one day and a saint the next. But I was aware that it was symptomatic of her condition and I weathered the ups and downs. Because I loved her. But, in hindsight now, I see that the relationship never really stood a chance in the long run. Yes, I contributed to the problems, no doubt. I lost my temper a few times and yelled when I shouldn’t have. But I never, in any capacity, was abusive. She was so sensitive to my anger, however, that she felt harmed by that anger. It took me a while to come to terms with this. So while it’s for the best that we’re done, I still care about her. She is like a ship lost at sea. But it’s not my war. I have my own battles to fight. --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tough-blow-gf-leaves-me-and-moves-out-all-while-i-am-gone-from-the-house/736874)._