# Trading Spaces 3/22, Or another Crying Pam episode

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [March 23, 2003, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487 "2003-03-23T03:07:53Z")\
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**Author:** ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 4:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/41 "2003-03-24T16:50:38Z")

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AHA! Here are some better “after” pictures of the finished rooms, showing Edward’s desk and Laurie’s wall unit…

[Episode Gallery](http://tlc.discovery.com/fansites/tradingspaces/episode/season3/episode42/episode42_gallery_zoom1.html)

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**Author:** ![Brynda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e79b87/32.png) [@Brynda](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brynda)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 5:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/42 "2003-03-24T17:36:17Z")

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I read on Television without Pity that they ugly green stool in Edward’s room was a $600 ergonomic stool for folks with bad backs. It may have been off-limits. OTOH, I agree that slipcovering it might have been a good option.

Gotta agree with people here about Jessie–what a controlling piece of work. She strikes me as one of those people who think being a bitch is cute somehow, as in “Oh, but I am just pretending to be an overbearing, obnoxious brat. I am really just fun-loving.” That pillow they showed of hers that said something like “I am not bossy. My ideas are just better than yours” says it all.

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**Author:** ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 6:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/43 "2003-03-24T18:26:47Z")

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A post on the TLC message boards from the homeowner (Colleen) who did the brown room for her “friend” (I get the feeling from the way she refers to her that they really aren’t close, just merely neighbors who she talked into going on the show with her because _she_ wanted her room redone)…

[Here](http://discovery.infopop.net/1/OpenTopic?a=tpc&s=6941912904&f=6801993295&m=8291974726)

She seems like a really nice girl.

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**Author:** ![js\_africanus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/87869e/32.png) [@js\_africanus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/js_africanus)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/44 "2003-03-24T18:29:32Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Brynda \*  
> **…ugly green stool in Edward’s room was a $600 ergonomic stool for folks with bad backs.**

:eek: $600 for that thing?! Does it come with a chiropractor?!

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/45 "2003-03-24T18:53:58Z")

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My favorite part of this episode was the UPS-spoof ads for it the week before that started with the line, “What can brown do to you?”

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**Author:** ![MyFootsZZZ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/myfootszzz/32/12580_2.png) [@MyFootsZZZ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MyFootsZZZ)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/46 "2003-03-24T20:17:10Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Misha77 \*  
> \*\*  
> OTOH, when Laurie said that “we’ll show her that she likes brown”(I’m paraphrasing), I could not roll my eyes enough. Laurie, just because you’re obsessed with warm tones doesn’t mean the rest of the country is.  
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But I understand what she was saying.

I could see myself saying, “absolutely NO BROWN”, but the fact is… I REALLY like the rooms design.

I’m sure the HO didn’t like it, but I think she made a point of hating it.

I think she was more pissed off that things didn’t go her way, and her friends defied her wishes. IMHO, she was just a brat.

Even if she did hate it, she should learn that she can’t clench her ass around every little thing, and be in control all the time.

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**Author:** ![MyFootsZZZ](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/myfootszzz/32/12580_2.png) [@MyFootsZZZ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MyFootsZZZ)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2003, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/47 "2003-03-24T20:19:34Z")

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(I don’t know why that came out all spaced)

???

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**Author:** ![js\_africanus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/87869e/32.png) [@js\_africanus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/js_africanus)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 5:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/48 "2003-03-25T05:06:51Z")

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Colleen responded again and it really was a $500 dollar stool. And the file cabinet is set back so as to not make them bang their knees.

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> And I just want to add that you guys are the most perceptive people. When someone asked why Edward didn’t buy us a new office chair with the leftover budget, quite a few people posted that the chair we have costs around $500 (and yes, it is called a Swopper–from Relax-the-Back). I can’t believe you guys noticed that. Also, we do not have to straddle the file cabinet. It is pushed back far enough to allow room for our legs.

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**Author:** ![Wicked\_Blue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/2acd7d/32.png) [@Wicked\_Blue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wicked_Blue)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 12:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/49 "2003-03-25T12:27:11Z")

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I didn’t like Jessie that much, so I was kinda glad she got a brown room.  
Too bad she didn’t get a psychotic monkey desk to go along with it. I bet that would have really set her off. 😃

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/50 "2003-03-25T13:39:12Z")

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> \*Originally posted by js\_africanus \*  
> \*\*Colleen responded again and it really was a $500 dollar stool. And the file cabinet is set back so as to not make them bang their knees. \*\*

How can a stool be good for your back?

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**Author:** ![annieclaus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5a626/32.png) [@annieclaus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/annieclaus)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 2:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/51 "2003-03-25T14:25:03Z")

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I think the Jessie HO was just trying too damned hard through the whole show to be a TS “Star.” And she succeeded. We all remember her. Not necessarily in a good light, but we remember her. She “broke through.” (This was, after all, Vegas where nothing is real!) OK. She’s had her 15 minutes of Fame. Let’s move on.  
What really bugs me about Lori is the way she says “Rhee-yoom” when describing the living space she is about to transform into brown/yellow/orange. Lori, “room” is a one-syllable-word! It rhymes with “boom.” Repeat 20 times. . . or as long as it takes to lose the second silly syllable. (Vern is also guilty of this pronunciation error, but on a far lesser scale. And I love him, so I can forgive him anything.)

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**Author:** ![Shayna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/shayna/32/17976_2.png) [@Shayna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shayna)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/52 "2003-03-25T16:39:00Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by ivylass \*  
> \*\*How can a stool be good for your back? \*\*

From their website: “…[[The Swopper’s]](http://www.relaxtheback.com/global/product/pg_product_detail.cfm?TID=111522081077440325033599&CFID=63220810&CFTOKEN=270325033&Site=main&Group_ID=6370282) patented mechanism was engineered and crafted in Germany to improve your posture, strengthen the muscles in your lower back and improve circulation to your lower extremities…” There’s more – click the link to read the full description.

And speaking of Laurie and nasty, hateful homeowners… had anyone heard the story of one of the HOs who hated the room Laurie designed so much that the woman asked one of the production staff to have Laurie escorted out of her house?! (actually, the husband loved the room – it was the wife who detested it.) I’d never heard that one before, and it’s from a season 2 episode, so it happened a while ago. You can read about it in [this article](http://www.ccmcom.com/Archives/fullstory.asp?Id=2194). Stunningly amazing how hateful and ungrateful some people can be.

I remember that one, and the woman really was nasty about how much she hated everything about her room and how she was going to make her husband take it all down that night. Here’s the [before and after](http://tlc.discovery.com/fansites/tradingspaces/episode/season2/interactive_02_44.html) of the room in question (though you can’t see the partitions and the seating area, which, I believe, are what she hated most. If anyone’s interested, it’s airing again this Thursday at 4:00PM.

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**Author:** ![js\_africanus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/87869e/32.png) [@js\_africanus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/js_africanus)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/53 "2003-03-25T16:40:26Z")

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> \*Originally posted by ivylass \*  
> \*\*How can a stool be good for your back? \*\*

At $500 is thins out your wallet so much that you sit much more evenly.

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**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 5:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/54 "2003-03-25T17:13:45Z")

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> \*Originally posted by js\_africanus \*  
> And the file cabinet is set back so as to not make them bang their knees.

A two-drawer file cabinet set back that far from the front edge of the desk will be half-useless. I hope they didn’t put the tax records in the top drawer.

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2003, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/trading-spaces-3-22-or-another-crying-pam-episode/163487/55 "2003-03-25T18:06:16Z")

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If anyone’s interested, [the TWoP review](http://www.televisionwithoutpity.com/story.cgi?show=87&story=4850&limit=&sort=)…the general consensus is the woman was a Class-A Bitch…along with some pity for her poor husband.

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