# Tramp rants about the boy in her bed **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [June 22, 2002, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431 "2002-06-22T13:23:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tramp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4491bb/32.png) [@tramp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tramp)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/1 "2002-06-22T13:23:58Z")
Fuck you. Yeah, you snoring in my bed. Fuck you. It is nine in the morning and you just got to bed. Why? Well because before you came to see me this weekend, you decided to go fuck around with your friends in Atlantic City. You piece of sloppy cow shit. I work here in DC and go to law school so that hopefully we can have a better life after I graduate from school. It isn’t easy and you sure as shit don’t appreciate that. It takes a lot of fucking trust to keep this long distance thing going on. Yeah, it sucks but I used to think it was worth it. I was waiting ALL GODDAMN NIGHT for you to get here. If I knew you were going to blow me off, I could have at least gone to a bar to drown my sorrows or gone to sleep or SOMETHING. But no, 4 fucking 30 rolls around and you call my up from Atlantic City. ATLANTIC FUCKING CITY??? THE FUCKING ASSHOLE OF THE UNITED STATES??? WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU IN ATLANTIC CITY??? Baby, calm down. I’m coming down now. I just wanted to hang out with my friends for a while. Oh and by the way, I left my car in Philly and I have to go all the way back there before I can come down. Oh fuck that. Fuck that shit right now. There are shitloads of weekends when we can’t see each other. You could go to AC any of those weekends but you fucking choose this one. And we’re supposed to be saving up money, not gambling it on craps. Isn’t it enough that every fucking dime of mine goes to the money whores at the law school? You are supposed to be saving up!!! You stroll in to my apartment around 8 am. Fuck you for thinking I still want you here. Of course , you see nothing wrong with your actions and you go to sleep. Well motherfucker, I have a big fucking surprise for you when you get up. You aren’t worth this shit and I could do much better. So sleep soundly my pretty, because when you get up, you’re getting the big FUCK YOU :smack: :smack: :smack: ---
**Author:** ![Taran](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@Taran](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taran)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/2 "2002-06-22T13:28:48Z")
Amen. My experience is that LDR’s don’t ever go well, and that’s _without_ puerile bullshit. “I just wanted to hang out with my friends for awhile” indeed! ---
**Author:** ![Elenfair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/cc9497/32.png) [@Elenfair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elenfair)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/3 "2002-06-22T13:46:53Z")
Kick him in the nuts, shove him out the door, and tell him not to let it hit him on his way out. Then change the locks. No one deserves this kind of shit. E. ---
**Author:** ![scott\_evil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/91b2a8/32.png) [@scott\_evil](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott_evil)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/4 "2002-06-22T14:02:42Z")
Well, I hope you practised safe sex! Ever hear of AIDS??? 😃 - s.e. ---
**Author:** ![Eutychus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Eutychus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eutychus)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 3:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/5 "2002-06-22T15:47:38Z")
Just a quick hijack … > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by scott evil \* > \*\*Well, I hope you practised safe sex! Ever hear of AIDS??? \*\* This is getting _real_ old _real_ quick. ---
**Author:** ![Lucretia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/13edae/32.png) [@Lucretia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lucretia)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/6 "2002-06-22T15:58:07Z")
**tramp** , let me just say congratulations for not only ranting about this slobs selfishness, but for having the guts to actually take action. Too many people will whine about all the terrible things their SO does to them without ever doing anything to change things. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 3:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/7 "2002-06-22T15:58:19Z")
Well, now you know how we feel!! ---
**Author:** ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 4:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/8 "2002-06-22T16:07:17Z")
While I hate to hijack poor **tramp** ’s thread anymore (just as an aside: Go, **tramp**! Go, **tramp**! Go, go, go **tramp**!), **scott evil** is just demonstrating exactly what it feels like to have every mention of sex by a particular orientation accompanied as if divinely ordained by a warning of AIDS. While I think it could get just as tired as it is in the gay threads, I type this while barely controlling my urge to giggle because it’s funny as hell to see it happening. 😛 jayjay ---
**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/9 "2002-06-22T16:09:57Z")
He’s still young and self centered. Don’t confuse his true priorities with your true priorities regardless of what you would like to imagine. Doing so will only lead to heartache. But still, I’m sure he’s very charming… 'oooooooooooooo come and git your looooove 'oooooooooooooo come and git your looooove 'oooooooooooooo come and git your looooove Yaaaawwn! Scratch! “What’s for breakfast baby?” Sorry I was late last night. Gimmie some sugar." ---
**Author:** ![Typo\_Negative](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/typo_negative/32/484_2.png) [@Typo\_Negative](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Typo_Negative)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/10 "2002-06-22T17:12:57Z")
Give him the boot tp the head, **Tramp**!!! Show that lil’ bastige! ---
**Author:** ![Ogre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ecb155/32.png) [@Ogre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ogre)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/11 "2002-06-22T17:27:21Z")
**tramp** , at worst, he’s using you, and at best, he’s taking you for granted. Neither of those things are very pretty. I’m glad you’re getting rid of him, and I wish you happier relationships in the future. **scott** , et al., since the OP neither said nor implied anything about sex at all, you guys are way off base. Can’t you at least save your hijacks for when they’re not complete non sequiturs? ---
**Author:** ![Siege](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@Siege](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siege)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/12 "2002-06-22T17:38:29Z")
**Tramp** , with all due respect, I’d say the last thing you want to do when he wakes up is fuck. :d & r: What I’d do in my fantasies is leave a note saying “I just thought I’d go off to the museums. Back some time. Lock the door when you leave.” CJ ---
**Author:** ![Una\_Persson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/una_persson/32/346_2.png) [@Una\_Persson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Una_Persson)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 6:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/13 "2002-06-22T18:10:20Z")
Wow, **tramp** , your rant has all of the textbook signs of Relationship Goin’ Bad in it. The wise thing to do would be to drop-kick him out of your place. But we all, myself included, rarely do the wise thing. So good luck to you, and try to find something - an IRL friend, a relative, someone - that you can talk to to help you decide what to do, or to give you some support if you are able to kick his nads up into his chest cavity somewhere. It’s gonna get worse before it gets better, if this is the sort of behavior at this point of the relationship. After marriage, it will be even worse. He will walk around naked, scratching his enormous beer-belly (the product of many such trips to AC), and demanding his breakfast, and _God damn it - don’t you know I hate my eggs runny? You stupid bitch! Think you’re so smart, going to law school???_…and so forth. Of course, I could also just be extrapolating waaaaaaaay too much from your OP… Oh - and the way to deal with hijacks, when you’re hurting and trying to get commiseration, is to go to your User Control Panel, and add people to your “Ignore” list. It works. ---
**Author:** ![Tansu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/67e7ee/32.png) [@Tansu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tansu)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 7:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/14 "2002-06-22T19:11:34Z")
Good lass, **tramp**. Bin him. ---
**Author:** ![Medea\_s\_Child](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@Medea\_s\_Child](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Medea_s_Child)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/15 "2002-06-22T19:17:26Z")
Just dump him. No hysterics, no scene, no second chances. Very personal experiance speaking here, and I made the bad choice of putting up with the shit. Get on with your life now, there are much better SOs out there if you want one, and independance is a beauteous thing as a top notch student. Still speaking from personal experiance. If you ever want any discussion or support, my e-mail is [Kathryn3@hotmail.com](mailto:Kathryn3@hotmail.com) and my AIM is medeaschild. Be well. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/16 "2002-06-22T20:22:29Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Ogre \* > **scott** , et al., since the OP neither said nor implied anything about sex at all, you guys are way off base. Can’t you at least save your hijacks for when they’re not complete non sequiturs? \*\* She talked about being in bed with someone she’s seeing, without mentioning having sex with him, which is exactly what Scott did in the OP that started the foofaraw. ---
**Author:** ![Darwins\_Finch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darwins_finch/32/20304_2.png) [@Darwins\_Finch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darwins_Finch)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/17 "2002-06-22T20:38:12Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*She talked about being in bed with someone she’s seeing, without mentioning having sex with him, which is exactly what Scott did in the OP that started the foofaraw. \*\* So this is what…the third thread, or more, for this? If it’s so fucking annoying, don’t fucking do it. It has been my experience that object lessons do not make friends - they serve more to convince people that you’re little more than a spiteful jerk. **scott evil** admitted to being wasted and fucking the guy, whereas there truly was **no** mention of sex in this thread. And, absolutely, **tramp** , toss the loser. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/18 "2002-06-22T20:49:00Z")
> [@](#): > > scott evil admitted to being wasted and fucking the guy He did no such thing. And how am I supposed to know if it’s "so fucking annoying?’ Everyone else seemed determined to tell us it was for our own good, and we ought to be butt-kissingly grateful for it. ---
**Author:** ![Jonathan\_Chance](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jonathan_chance/32/701_2.png) [@Jonathan\_Chance](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jonathan_Chance)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/19 "2002-06-22T20:53:48Z")
Move it elsewhere guys. Let her have her rant. Tramp, send him on his way. ---
**Author:** ![beagledave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6de8d8/32.png) [@beagledave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/beagledave)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2002, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431/20 "2002-06-22T20:56:39Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\* > And how am I supposed to know if it’s "so fucking annoying?’ \*\* Because you said so in other threads. It’s old. The point has been made. Refraining from “bad” behavior is often a better teaching moment than parroting said behavior and saying “See…now you know how **I** feel” …unless you’re interested in scoring irony points. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tramp-rants-about-the-boy-in-her-bed/115431.md?page=2)