# Treis, no means no. **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [April 13, 2013, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556 "2013-04-13T01:07:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 28
**Author:** ![ladyfoxfyre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ad7895/32.png) [@ladyfoxfyre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ladyfoxfyre)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2013, 7:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/541 "2013-04-19T19:58:29Z")
Yeah he basically hasn’t said anything right on this topic. ---
**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2013, 8:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/542 "2013-04-19T20:36:50Z")
> [@ladyfoxfyre](#): > > Yeah he basically hasn’t said anything right on this topic. He really has a knack for saying just the wrong thing at the wrong time. On another note, how do you all feel about the mod warning in the sorority girl email thread? Was that warranted? ---
**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2013, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/543 "2013-04-19T20:48:13Z")
> [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](#): > > On another note, how do you all feel about the mod warning in the sorority girl email thread? Was that warranted? No, it wasn’t. The ‘‘suck’’ joke was funny. I was worried stupid shit like this would start happening. ---
**Author:** ![ladyfoxfyre](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ad7895/32.png) [@ladyfoxfyre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ladyfoxfyre)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2013, 8:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/544 "2013-04-19T20:49:13Z")
Haven’t seen it to be honest. ---
**Author:** ![DigitalC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ebca7d/32.png) [@DigitalC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DigitalC)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2013, 8:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/545 "2013-04-19T20:51:28Z")
> [@olivesmarch4th](#): > > No, it wasn’t. The ‘‘suck’’ joke was funny. I was worried stupid shit like this would start happening. Yeah, shit like that immediately swings opinions the other way. ---
**Author:** ![Spice\_Weasel](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spice_weasel/32/5435_2.png) [@Spice\_Weasel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spice_Weasel)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2013, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/546 "2013-04-19T21:11:15Z")
> [@DigitalC](#): > > Yeah, shit like that immediately swings opinions the other way. There’s like a world of difference between ‘‘har har sex’’ and ‘‘You stupid cunt get back in the kitchen.’’ It seems to me that the line is fairly self-evident, but maybe it really is different for every person. ---
**Author:** ![panaccione](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@panaccione](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panaccione)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 6:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/547 "2013-04-21T06:57:50Z")
> [@StaudtCJ](#): > > It’s taken this long to process why I was upset more by this quote than the video. Your statement seems to be rather flip, and doesn’t seem take into account how horrible the subject matter really is. I may be misinterpreting, but it seems that while posting the video is something I actually approve of, your response to my response was hurtful, intentional or not. It seems to dismiss my pain as appreciation for your cleverness in finding a relevant video. I don’t appreciate it. I don’t appreciate being triggered and feeling handled and dismissed. Ok, you’re right. I really dont know. Im glad you appreciate the video. That’s all I want to say ---
**Author:** ![Frylock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@Frylock](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frylock)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 12:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/548 "2013-04-21T12:27:40Z")
> [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](#): > > He really has a knack for saying just the wrong thing at the wrong time. > > On another note, how do you all feel about the mod warning in the sorority girl email thread? Was that warranted? Link please. ---
**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/549 "2013-04-21T14:28:55Z")
> [@Frylock](#): > > Link please. I started an entire thread about it in ATMB. “What constitutes an off-topic comment” Then there was a follow up to a moderation in THAT thread, “Let’s all just calm down” ---
**Author:** ![Frylock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@Frylock](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frylock)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/550 "2013-04-21T15:00:02Z")
I am not sure exactly what you’re talking about. To clarify, I am asking for a link to the referenced “sorority girl email thread.” ---
**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/551 "2013-04-21T15:24:49Z")
> [@Frylock](#): > > I am not sure exactly what you’re talking about. To clarify, I am asking for a link to the referenced “sorority girl email thread.” It was linked in the ATMB thread mentioned. > **[Sorority girl's warning letter to sisters goes viral - It's epic](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=688556)** > > This woman will either be in jail or running a major corporation the future. I’ll give it a golf clap just for the nuclear heat and creativity. What actress could read this letter and do it justice? ---
**Author:** ![Frylock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/ce7236/32.png) [@Frylock](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frylock)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/552 "2013-04-21T16:44:31Z")
Thanky. ---
**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2013, 5:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556/553 "2013-04-21T17:12:11Z")
> [@Frylock](#): > > Thanky. Welcomy for the linky. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/treis-no-means-no/655556.md?page=27)