# Truck drivers. Well, one in particular.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [August 25, 2005, 10:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542 "2005-08-25T10:18:42Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 19\
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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/141 "2005-08-29T19:52:12Z")

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but the age difference? once they were all in their twenties and another time at least one was under 10? that’s a hellavu difference there for you to not notice. I may not remember that Doug’s daughter is 8 vs. 10, but fuck if I don’t recall that she’s 10 vs. 24.

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**Author:** ![Spongemom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Spongemom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spongemom)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 8:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/142 "2005-08-29T20:07:57Z")

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> [@wring](#):
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> but the age difference? once they were all in their twenties and another time at least one was under 10? that’s a hellavu difference there for you to not notice. I may not remember that Doug’s daughter is 8 vs. 10, but fuck if I don’t recall that she’s 10 vs. 24.

No no no…ok, Katrina has always been 33, Deirdre sometimes doesn’t exist and went from 25 to 27, Kim went from 29 to 24, and Vicki has always been 21. Those are his biological daughters that he talked about.

Then there’s Heather and Melinda, whom he says he adopted from abusive parents that were neighbor’s down the street from him. They are 14 and 8, respectively. Those didn’t change.

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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/143 "2005-08-29T20:12:35Z")

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ok, withdraw that.

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**Author:** ![Skywatcher](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/skywatcher/32/254_2.png) [@Skywatcher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skywatcher)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2005, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/144 "2005-08-29T20:41:15Z")

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> [@Spongemom](#):
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> Then there’s Heather and Melinda, whom he says he adopted from abusive parents that were neighbor’s down the street from him. They are 14 and 8, respectively. Those didn’t change.

I figured something like that was going on.

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**Author:** ![Spongemom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Spongemom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spongemom)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 4:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/145 "2005-08-30T04:21:11Z")

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Ok, here’s what we’ve got so far. My announcement on my forum, which provides a shitload of evidence against him, and now this:

The photos are a match. So we’re working against a level 3 registered sex offender, who has the home address of a 14 year old female member of my forum. She’s being walked to school in the morning by someone with a gun, just in case, because last week he told her that it should be the 30th when he makes it to her town. Her mother is contacting the Scottsbluff police dept tomorrow morning too, as well as The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. I’m in the process of turning my YIM archives with him into a huge text file, and told the other girl to do the same.

I have no idea where to go from here. I’ve never had to deal with something like this before.

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**Author:** ![Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8edcca/32.png) [@Helen\_s\_Eidolon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Helen_s_Eidolon)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/146 "2005-08-30T04:43:58Z")

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I just read the thread on your forum. I had no idea S. was 14. I’m so sorry you have to deal with all of this.

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**Author:** ![Bites\_When\_Provoked](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bites_when_provoked/32/18073_2.png) [@Bites\_When\_Provoked](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bites_When_Provoked)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 4:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/147 "2005-08-30T04:48:52Z")

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One heck of a weird progression. How very unnerving!

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**Author:** ![Dark\_Side\_of\_the\_Floyd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bb73d2/32.png) [@Dark\_Side\_of\_the\_Floyd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dark_Side_of_the_Floyd)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 4:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/148 "2005-08-30T04:55:45Z")

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Interesting.

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**Author:** ![kimera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f0a364/32.png) [@kimera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kimera)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 5:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/149 "2005-08-30T05:38:55Z")

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How on earth did you figure all this out?

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**Author:** ![Spongemom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Spongemom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spongemom)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 5:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/150 "2005-08-30T05:51:15Z")

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A little birdie told me. Several little birdies, actually. And those little birdies just earned a top ranking on my awesome people list.

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**Author:** ![TubaDiva](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tubadiva/32/507_2.png) [@TubaDiva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TubaDiva)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 6:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/151 "2005-08-30T06:07:58Z")

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Spongemom, we have removed the link you put on the board; this has to run by management.

Do not repost the link anywhere on this board unless you get direct permission from us to do so.

your humble TubaDiva

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**Author:** ![TubaDiva](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tubadiva/32/507_2.png) [@TubaDiva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TubaDiva)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 6:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/152 "2005-08-30T06:16:21Z")

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To further clarify: Until you hear from us explicitly on the subject, do not post ANY personal information about this situation on this board.

Hold on and let management do its thing.

We will leave this thread open for now, but it’s their call as to what happens next.

your humble TubaDiva

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**Author:** ![Dark\_Side\_of\_the\_Floyd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bb73d2/32.png) [@Dark\_Side\_of\_the\_Floyd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dark_Side_of_the_Floyd)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 6:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/153 "2005-08-30T06:53:34Z")

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I’ve been following this on…several boards. What a ride.

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**Author:** ![Spongemom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Spongemom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spongemom)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 6:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/154 "2005-08-30T06:58:04Z")

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Ride? More like humongous mess. I’m still trying to organize my brain with all the shit that’s shown up in the past couple days.

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**Author:** ![Spongemom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@Spongemom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spongemom)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 7:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/155 "2005-08-30T07:19:28Z")

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> [@TubaDiva](#):
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> Spongemom, we have removed the link you put on the board; this has to run by management.

Don’t worry about running it through management. Just let it stay gone.

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 12:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/156 "2005-08-30T12:13:26Z")

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Spongemom,

I urge you to remove/have removed that link from whatever other online forums you may have posted it.

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 12:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/157 "2005-08-30T12:16:03Z")

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Hit submit too soon.

The reason I urge you to do that is you may not want to be opening that can of worms. Also, there’s a terms of use, as far as I know, for the databases of such offenders. By posting it online, you may have violated those terms. I don’t know if you did violate them by doing it, I’m just saying you may have violated those terms.

Safest bet: don’t post it. 2nd safest: remove it if you did post it.

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 1:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/158 "2005-08-30T13:24:18Z")

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**Spongemom** , from what I’ve read on your site about this, this guy’s in a different state from you and your forum members he appears to have been grooming and making plans to meet. You should consider talking with the FBI about this situation. I’m no lawyer, but I think Bard’s actions could be covered under [these sections of the federal criminal code:](http://www.fbi.gov/hq/cid/cac/federal.htm)

> [@](#):
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> Section 2422. Coercion and Enticement
> 
> ```
> * Whoever knowingly persuades, induces, entices, or coerces any individual to travel in interstate or foreign commerce, or in any Territory or Possession of the United States, to engage in prostitution or in any sexual activity for which any person can be charged with a criminal offense.
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> ```
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> Section 2423(b). Interstate or Foreign Travel with Intent to Engage in a Sexual Act with a Juvenile
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> ```
> * Whoever knowingly travels or conspires to do so in interstate or foreign commerce, or in any Territory or Possession of the United States, with the intent to engage in any sexual activity with a person under 18 years of age for which any person can be charged with a criminal offense. 
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> ```
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> Section 2425. Use of Interstate Facilities to Transmit Information About a Minor
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> ```
> * Whoever, using the mail or any facility or means of interstate or foreign commerce, knowingly initiates or attempts to initiate the transmission of the name, address, telephone number, social security number, or electronic mail address of a y individual who has not attained the age of 16 years with the intent to entice, encourage, offer, or solicit that minor to engage in any sexual activity that can be charged as a criminal offense.
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> ```

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**Author:** ![Ed\_Zotti](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/fbc32d/32.png) [@Ed\_Zotti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ed_Zotti)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2005, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/truck-drivers-well-one-in-particular/318542/159 "2005-08-30T14:23:45Z")

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I’m closing this thread. Please note:

1. Do not post links to a registered sex offender database. If you have information about a registered sex offender that you feel is relevant to the SDMB, please communicate it privately to a moderator or administrator.

2. **Big Willie Shakes** and **monospectacular** were socks and have been banned.

3. **Spongemom** , be aware that you’ve become a target. Please start exercising some common sense lest you get yourself and those around you into serious trouble.

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