# TubaDiva gone? \[Update: RIP\]

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124>\
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**Created:** [July 3, 2020, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124 "2020-07-03T01:07:26Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 4:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/41 "2020-07-03T16:16:29Z")

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Nice lady. She will be greatly missed.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/42 "2020-07-03T17:42:15Z")

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Very, _very_ sorry to hear this. She was always helpful and kind to me, and I was glad to meet her once some years ago at a DopeFest in Cleveland. Rest in peace, Jenny, and many thanks for all you did for us!

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**Author:** ![Half\_Man\_Half\_Wit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/half_man_half_wit/32/21766_2.png) [@Half\_Man\_Half\_Wit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Half_Man_Half_Wit)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 5:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/43 "2020-07-03T17:53:08Z")

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Wow. I’m at a loss for words. I didn’t really know her, hardly ever interacted with her, but I don’t think I’ve ever read an ill word about her here from anybody. Her commitment to this place and its people was obvious; she’ll be sorely missed.

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**Author:** ![Exapno\_Mapcase](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/exapno_mapcase/32/1051_2.png) [@Exapno\_Mapcase](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Exapno_Mapcase)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 6:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/44 "2020-07-03T18:32:51Z")

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This is horrible, horrible news. It would be horrible at any time, but now of all times… Reality is remorseless and pitiless.

She reported that she was working through the night to work on the changeover. I have to hope that the stress and loss of sleep didn’t contribute. That would be tragedy on a Shakespearean scale.

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**Author:** ![dcarolan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f4b2a3/32.png) [@dcarolan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dcarolan)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/45 "2020-07-03T18:56:08Z")

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I am afraid so. Monday sometime. She is and was and will be a beloved friend.

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/46 "2020-07-03T19:22:55Z")

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> [@Roderick\_Femm](#):
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> Besides @kenobi_65’s link, you can find that thread pinned to the top of the MPSIMS forum.

That’s the main memorial thread, and most of the comments and tributes are there.

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**Author:** ![Oakminster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/77aa72/32.png) [@Oakminster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Oakminster)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 8:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/47 "2020-07-03T20:33:54Z")

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Condolences to her family and friends.

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**Author:** ![Malleus\_Incus\_Stapes](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/malleus_incus_stapes/32/3293_2.png) [@Malleus\_Incus\_Stapes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malleus_Incus_Stapes)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 10:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/48 "2020-07-03T22:00:38Z")

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I’m not good with words at times like this, so here’s some substitute body language:

😮  
😧  
(((hugs to family, friends, and board as a whole)))

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**Author:** ![dcarolan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f4b2a3/32.png) [@dcarolan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dcarolan)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 10:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/49 "2020-07-03T22:07:12Z")

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Jenny was not overly beaten down by the change over. More like invigorated by the challenge of having something to do.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 10:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/50 "2020-07-03T22:19:26Z")

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@dcarolan…thanks for that. I was feeling bad that she may have drove herself too hard.

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**Author:** ![dtilque](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d6d6ee/32.png) [@dtilque](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dtilque)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 10:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/51 "2020-07-03T22:46:44Z")

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I never interacted with her in any way, but she was always a force for good on these boards.

What are we going to do without her?

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**Author:** ![JillGat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9fc29f/32.png) [@JillGat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JillGat)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/52 "2020-07-03T23:23:48Z")

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I messaged with her about a week ago. As always, while she had a lot of health problems herself, she mostly cared about, worried about, remembered-every-detail-about everybody else. She was larger than life. I can’t believe she’s gone. So sorry.

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**Author:** ![Morgyn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/morgyn/32/3041_2.png) [@Morgyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgyn)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/53 "2020-07-03T23:49:28Z")

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Thank you for that.

She’s going to be missed around here. I still remember the Winter of Our Missed Content, when she paid for a forum for us when the board went dark due to technical issues for a couple of months. It was that important to her that the community have a home so that it would stay together. I hope we can validate the trust she had that we are a community that can continue to thrive.

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**Author:** ![YWTF](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/d07c76/32.png) [@YWTF](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/YWTF)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/54 "2020-07-03T23:49:40Z")

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This is so tragic. ☹

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**Author:** ![Whack-a-Mole](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/whack-a-mole/32/141_2.png) [@Whack-a-Mole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whack-a-Mole)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/55 "2020-07-03T23:58:56Z")

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That worried me too.

I made a post somewhere complaining about the new board and worried it contributed, in a very small way (read that part again), to her stress and helped lead to this.

I wish I had also said something nice in that post though. There is a lesson there.

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**Author:** ![imthjckaz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/imthjckaz/32/3223_2.png) [@imthjckaz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/imthjckaz)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2020, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/56 "2020-07-04T02:02:50Z")

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This is so sad. Jennie helped me and Spider Woman with many issues in the early days of our Dope membership. She will be and is already missed.

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**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2020, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/57 "2020-07-04T03:40:45Z")

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> [@dcarolan](#):
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> Jenny was not overly beaten down by the change over. More like invigorated by the challenge of having something to do.

I am glad and relieved to hear that. Thanks, **dcarolan**.

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**Author:** ![basslinemz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/958977/32.png) [@basslinemz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/basslinemz)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2020, 4:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/58 "2020-07-04T04:05:16Z")

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I’d have called it “cheerful resignation”, based on how she talked about it.

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2020, 1:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/59 "2020-07-04T13:58:48Z")

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I was certainly a massive accomplishment that she could be proud of.

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**Author:** ![Joey\_P](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/919ad9/32.png) [@Joey\_P](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Joey_P)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2020, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-gone-update-rip/914124/60 "2020-07-04T15:16:47Z")

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> [@ThelmaLou](#):
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> I was certainly a massive accomplishment that she could be proud of

Typo? 😄

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