# TubaDiva has passed away

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [July 3, 2020, 12:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121 "2020-07-03T00:59:14Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![IvoryTowerDenizen](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ivorytowerdenizen/32/17937_2.png) [@IvoryTowerDenizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/IvoryTowerDenizen)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/61 "2020-07-03T02:20:17Z")

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Speechless and heartbroken

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**Author:** ![Catamount](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/catamount/32/2840_2.png) [@Catamount](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Catamount)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/62 "2020-07-03T02:21:38Z")

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Oh no! She was one of the cornerstones of the SDMB!

Vaya con Dios, TubaDiva. Thanks for all you did for us.

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**Author:** ![VOW](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/vow/32/3043_2.png) [@VOW](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VOW)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/63 "2020-07-03T02:25:07Z")

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The Dope grieves.

~VOW

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**Author:** ![Dewey\_Finn](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dewey_finn/32/4222_2.png) [@Dewey\_Finn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dewey_Finn)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/64 "2020-07-03T02:26:02Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear this. The board would not be what it is without her efforts, and it will not be the same going forward.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/65 "2020-07-03T02:27:05Z")

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Thank you for your friendship, your support, your guidance, your wonderful hospitality when I visited Chicago, your sense of humor, and your tolerance of my many quirks. I cannot find the words to say how I feel right now.

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**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/66 "2020-07-03T02:27:23Z")

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\*\* weeping \*\* You were the soul of the board. You and Lynn led us out of the land of AOL and created the new promised land, our own web space. I feel bad for taking you for granted. You were always here.

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**Author:** ![susan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/susan/32/17537_2.png) [@susan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/susan)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/67 "2020-07-03T02:28:11Z")

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Oh, no.

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**Author:** ![Airman\_Doors\_USAF](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Airman\_Doors\_USAF](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Airman_Doors_USAF)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/68 "2020-07-03T02:29:49Z")

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I’m stunned, in the truest sense of the word.

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**Author:** ![zoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/zoid/32/336_2.png) [@zoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/zoid)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/69 "2020-07-03T02:29:53Z")

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I just stunned.  
All I can say is Thank you Tuba for, well…being Tuba. You are already sorely missed.

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/70 "2020-07-03T02:30:46Z")

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Oh, no. I’m so sorry to hear this.

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**Author:** ![Hal\_Briston](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hal\_Briston](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hal_Briston)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/71 "2020-07-03T02:33:45Z")

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I’m having a very, very difficult time processing this. Thank you, Jenny, for everything.

My most heartfelt condolences to her family.

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**Author:** ![Kent\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kent_clark/32/105_2.png) [@Kent\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kent_Clark)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/72 "2020-07-03T02:34:13Z")

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Holy crap! I always found her to be fair, reasonable, good-humored, and of course, highly capable. We’ve lost our Team Mom.

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**Author:** ![ThelmaLou](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thelmalou/32/390_2.png) [@ThelmaLou](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ThelmaLou)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/73 "2020-07-03T02:35:20Z")

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> [@Kent\_Clark](#):
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> Holy crap! I always found her to be fair, reasonable, good-humored, and of course, highly capable. We’ve lost our Team Mom

Our den mother.

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**Author:** ![nelliebly](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/nelliebly/32/5422_2.png) [@nelliebly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nelliebly)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/74 "2020-07-03T02:36:48Z")

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Stunned and grief-stricken. She was so kind to me. I admired and appreciated her endless patience.

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**Author:** ![Aspenglow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspenglow/32/76_2.png) [@Aspenglow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspenglow)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/75 "2020-07-03T02:39:16Z")

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I am new here compared to so many but was so impressed with her equanimity, boundless good humor, intelligence and kind nature as she worked with such a diverse and bossy community. Her loss here feels devastating.

Tears shed for a good person I never met, but who nevertheless touched my life deeply.

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**Author:** ![manhattan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/manhattan/32/7_2.png) [@manhattan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/manhattan)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/76 "2020-07-03T02:39:36Z")

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This is just horrible. I don’t even know how to process it.

She loved all you guys, you know.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/77 "2020-07-03T02:41:25Z")

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She was so very nice to me and she had no reason to be.  
I determined by that she must have just been a very nice person.

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**Author:** ![MsRobyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@MsRobyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsRobyn)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/78 "2020-07-03T02:44:23Z")

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Airman texted me the news and to say I’m floored doesn’t begin to describe it. The Dope won’t be the same without her.

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**Author:** ![Rasa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rasa/32/3578_2.png) [@Rasa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rasa)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/79 "2020-07-03T02:46:03Z")

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Damn. Nice new place you got here. Sorry I’m visiting under such sad circumstances. Rest well, Tuba.

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**Author:** ![Una\_Persson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/una_persson/32/346_2.png) [@Una\_Persson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Una_Persson)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2020, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tubadiva-has-passed-away/914121/80 "2020-07-03T02:46:27Z")

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I had talked to her just possibly hours before she died. I had no indication anything was amiss. I’ve known her for more than 20 years, met her in Atlanta and spent lots of time with her in Chicago, and spent a lot of time chatting recently. We used to be closer and send Christmas cards/gifts, but drifted apart for no real reason. Fierra and I are shocked and so very sad.

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