# Tux shirt collars

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tux-shirt-collars/37601>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [October 19, 2000, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tux-shirt-collars/37601 "2000-10-19T23:47:10Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![Strainger](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/strainger/32/244_2.png) [@Strainger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Strainger)\
**Post date:** [October 19, 2000, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tux-shirt-collars/37601/1 "2000-10-19T23:47:10Z")

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So, which do you prefer, a wing tip collar or the standard ones? (I can’t remember the correct term off the top of my head. When I say “standard,” I’m refering to a typical dress shirt type collar – no button-down. I am obviously not very clothing-articulate.) I went shopping for a new tux shirt today, since my favorite one is getting pretty cruddy, and had to go to two stores before I found a wing-tip collar in my size with French cuffs. (Yes, I did get French cuffs. Regular cuffs are just _so_ high school prom. I only get the shirts that **require** studs and cuff links too. I’m not a _complete_ redneck.) After I got the shirt, I thought, is a wing-tip really the style I should be going with, or am I still living in 1988? So, what do y’all think?

By the way, **Padeye** , thanks for the Crest toothpaste tip! I’ll give it a try.

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**Author:** ![The\_Asbestos\_Mango](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@The\_Asbestos\_Mango](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Asbestos_Mango)\
**Post date:** [October 20, 2000, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tux-shirt-collars/37601/2 "2000-10-20T02:56:15Z")

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I used to work in a tux shop, and the wing-tip collars are still pretty much standard issue. Now, the French cuff, that could be what’s making them a bit tricky to find.

BTW, cummerbunds should be worn with the pleats facing up. 'Course, if you’re wearing French cuffs, you probably already know that, but for tuxedo novices…

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**Author:** ![Northern\_Piper](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/northern_piper/32/5304_2.png) [@Northern\_Piper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Northern_Piper)\
**Post date:** [October 20, 2000, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tux-shirt-collars/37601/3 "2000-10-20T03:53:08Z")

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wing-tips all the way. (plus, in a pinch I can use my court shirt instead - no pleats, but wing-tips and french cuffs.)

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**Author:** ![Strainger](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/strainger/32/244_2.png) [@Strainger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Strainger)\
**Post date:** [October 20, 2000, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tux-shirt-collars/37601/4 "2000-10-20T15:25:21Z")

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Yeah, I agree. Looking around last night I decided that I much prefer the wing-tip collar. I also noticed that about 90% of the men in Choral Union wear wing-tip collars.

And yes, **Thea** , I already knew that a cummerbund is worn with the pleats _up_. 😉 I didn’t know how it was spelled though, so thanks for clearing me up on that.

Side note: How obvious could the sales people at the Men’s Wearhouse be about the fact the they work on commission? Sheesh! Here’s a sample of the conversation I had with the sales person yesterday. It’s similar to other conversations I’ve had there in the past.

Sales person (after handing me my shirt): So, do you need any other accessories? Bow tie? Cummerbund?  
Me: No thanks. This will do it.  
Sales person: Studs? Cuff links?  
Me: No, I have those. Thanks.  
Sales person: Pants? Jacket? Top hat? Cane? Gloves?  
Me: I HAVE EVERYTHING I NEED!! JUST GIVE ME THE DAMN SHIRT!!
