# TV couplings: He/she is so wrong for you!!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [January 2, 2020, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806 "2020-01-02T21:52:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 12:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/41 "2020-01-04T12:12:29Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> In what universe was Debra an evil harpy?

This one.

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**Author:** ![Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mean_mr.mustard/32/3865_2.png) [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mean_Mr.Mustard)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/42 "2020-01-04T13:03:28Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> In what universe was Debra an evil harpy? Did you watch the same show as everyone else?

> [@Darren\_Garrison](#):
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> This one.

Could you give an example of her harpiness?

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/43 "2020-01-04T13:17:45Z")

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> [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](#):
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> Could you give an example of her harpiness?

Try [this thread](https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/3595-debra-shrill-harpy-or-saint-or-something-else/#comments).

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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/44 "2020-01-04T14:27:58Z")

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Fran Fine and Maxwell Sheffield. No chemistry whatsoever.

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**Author:** ![Moriarty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/moriarty/32/49_2.png) [@Moriarty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Moriarty)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/45 "2020-01-04T14:33:09Z")

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It wasn’t funny or worth watching, but there was a tv series called According to Jim which featured Jim Belushi as your generic joke telling fatso slob married to Courtney Thorne Smith, a fetching blonde woman. It made no sense.

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/46 "2020-01-04T18:11:31Z")

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Buffy/Angel or Buffy/Spike. Why is it creepy for a 40-something year old to date a teenage girl, but once you break 200 it is fine?

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**Author:** ![Infovore](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/infovore/32/420_2.png) [@Infovore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Infovore)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/47 "2020-01-04T21:28:12Z")

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Doogie and Wanda on _Doogie Howser, MD_.

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**Author:** ![Isosleepy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/isosleepy/32/479_2.png) [@Isosleepy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Isosleepy)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 11:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/48 "2020-01-04T23:50:38Z")

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Wilma was way outta Fred Flintstone’s league.

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**Author:** ![Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/prof.pepperwinkle/32/13627_2.png) [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Prof.Pepperwinkle)\
**Post date:** [January 4, 2020, 11:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/49 "2020-01-04T23:56:36Z")

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> [@panache45](#):
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> Same for Roger and Jessica Rabbit.

In the book _Who Censored Roger Rabbit?_ on which the film was based (somewhat), Jessica’s the girlfriend of a mobster who falls in love very suddenly with Roger and they marry. That lasts a year, then she goes back to the mobster.

It turns out Roger unknowingly made a wish on a magic lamp, and the genie caused Jessica to fall in love with him. When the spell wore off, she went back to the mobster.

I like the movie much better.

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/50 "2020-01-05T00:57:33Z")

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> [@Biggirl](#):
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> The only person who thought they made a good couple was Janice.

Right. It’s comedy. The entire point of the relationship was they were wrong for each other.

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**Author:** ![Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mean_mr.mustard/32/3865_2.png) [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mean_Mr.Mustard)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/51 "2020-01-05T14:35:12Z")

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> [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](#):
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> Could you give an example of her harpiness?

> [@Darren\_Garrison](#):
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> Try [this thread](https://forums.primetimer.com/topic/3595-debra-shrill-harpy-or-saint-or-something-else/#comments).

Thanks, but that didn’t help at all. I still don’t see any actual examples.

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**Author:** ![Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/son_of_a_rich/32/5439_2.png) [@Son\_of\_a\_Rich](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Son_of_a_Rich)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 3:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/52 "2020-01-05T15:34:29Z")

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“That Girl” and the scowling asshole she was engaged to. I don’t think there was one episode where he wasn’t pissed about something.

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/53 "2020-01-05T16:09:17Z")

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> [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](#):
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> Thanks, but that didn’t help at all. I still don’t see any actual examples.

(Shrug) To each their own–if you don’t automatically see it in virtually everything about her personality, I’m not going to be able to example you into seeing it.

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**Author:** ![Darren\_Garrison](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darren_garrison/32/92_2.png) [@Darren\_Garrison](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darren_Garrison)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 4:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/54 "2020-01-05T16:14:55Z")

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(Also, I’ll point out that “harpy” wasn’t my term–I’d characterise her more as a harridan and/or fishwife.)

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**Author:** ![Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mean_mr.mustard/32/3865_2.png) [@Mean\_Mr.Mustard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mean_Mr.Mustard)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 10:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/55 "2020-01-05T22:13:14Z")

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> [@Darren\_Garrison](#):
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> (Shrug) To each their own–if you don’t automatically see it in virtually everything about her personality, I’m not going to be able to example you into seeing it.

To be fair, you didn’t even provide one.

I’m not saying you’re wrong. I’m just saying that I can’t think of any specific examples.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2020, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/56 "2020-01-05T23:00:43Z")

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The only episode in which Debra is a harpy is the PMS episode. Other than that, what you refer to as harpiness is a normal person’s reasonable reactions to the insanity surrounding her.

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**Author:** ![f.coli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eada6e/32.png) [@f.coli](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/f.coli)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2020, 10:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/57 "2020-01-06T22:17:51Z")

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Ann Kelsey and Stuart Markowitz. A viewer could plausibly argue that a nebbish like Stuart would never be able to attract a fox like Ann. Except that the two actors were actually married (to each other) in real life.

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**Post date:** [January 7, 2020, 2:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/58 "2020-01-07T14:10:35Z")

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> [@Isosleepy](#):
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> Wilma was way outta Fred Flintstone’s league.

I seem to recall that Wilma came from money and that she married way, way beneath her by wedding a guy who was a blue-collar crane operator in a quarry. Certainly Wilma’s mother had nothing but contempt for Fred.

From the remake of Battlestar Galactica: Lee “Apollo” Adama and… well, every single female the writers tried to pair him with.

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**Post date:** [January 7, 2020, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/59 "2020-01-07T20:39:43Z")

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> [@Isosleepy](#):
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> Wilma was way outta Fred Flintstone’s league.

Considering the Flintstones was patterned after the Honeymooner’s, that shouldn’t be a surprise. Alice should never have been with Ralph.

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**Author:** ![f.coli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eada6e/32.png) [@f.coli](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/f.coli)\
**Post date:** [January 8, 2020, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/tv-couplings-he-she-is-so-wrong-for-you/845806/60 "2020-01-08T22:23:21Z")

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> [@Isosleepy](#):
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> Wilma was way outta Fred Flintstone’s league.

Betty was even further out of Barney’s league.

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