You suggested 8:00 am to 10:00 pm, but I suspect it’s closer to 6:00 am to 8:00 pm. A couple of assumptions, based on my brother’s kids’ schedules and needs (3 and 5, but not that far off):
- Khobagrade and her husband work 7:30-5:00, and are gone from the house 6:30-6:00.
- The kids start school/kindergarten at 8:30 am. Four year old gets out at 12:30, 7 year old at 3:30.
- It takes an hour to get anywhere in New York City (not an assumption so much as a fact of life).
5:30 am: Prepare breakfast for mom and dad (to be ready at 6:00) and kids (ready at 7:00). Clean up between breakfasts.
7:00 am: serve kids breakfast. When they’re done, get them ready for school - dressed, face washed, teeth brushed, etc…
7:30 am: Bring kids to school (arrive at 8:30 am, get back home at 9:30 am)
9:30 - 11:00 am: Clean up anything missed in the kitchen, once over of entire house, thorough cleaning of one-two rooms on a rotating schedule. This is the only time the maid is really able to clean stuff without other duties or people in the way.
11:00 am: Pick up 4YO from school (arrive at 12:30, home at 1:00).
1:00 pm: Feed, wash, entertain 4YO for a little while before it’s time to go get 7YO.
2:30 pm: Take 4YO with her to go get 7YO from school (arrive 3:30, back home at 4:30).
4:30 pm: Snacks for kids, get them playing nicely at home. Start dinner, laundry, whatever else needs to be done. Some days there might be a break in here, other days there won’t - it depends on the kids needs at the time and what’s for dinner.
6:15 pm: Get kids washed up for dinner when mom and dad get home - dinner 6:30-7:30 pm.
7:30 pm: Get 4YO into bath, cleaned up, and ready for bed.
8:00 pm: 4YO to bed, 7 YO can probably get him/herself ready for bed with minimal supervision.
8:30 pm: Clean up after dinner.
9:00 pm: Off the clock!
If you assume a half hour break in the afternoon, that’s 15 hours a weekday (75 hours/week). Of course, this assumes the kids aren’t doing anything other than school and home - if they have anything outside of that minimal schedule it’s more work for the maid and more time on the weekends she’ll have to spend making up for the stuff she missed during the week. Weekends we’ll assume the parents take care of the kids, but the maid still has to go grocery shopping, do any cleaning or laundry she didn’t get done during the week, and prepare and clean up meals for the family. It’s pretty easy for me to see 100 hours a week in this arrangement.
I understand that you do your own housework and don’t spend nearly that much time on it - I do too. But there’s a lot of stuff that “should” be done that I just let go because I don’t want to do it. If I were paying for it, though, I’d expect it to be done.
As long as I was paying more than $3 an hour, at any rate.