# UK Court bans man with low IQ from having sex

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [February 8, 2011, 6:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631 "2011-02-08T06:57:21Z")\
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**Author:** ![Foggy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/foggy/32/1082_2.png) [@Foggy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Foggy)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/1 "2011-02-08T06:57:21Z")

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I wasn’t sure where to put this thread, so I apologize if it needs to be moved.

[UK Court bans man with low IQ from having sex](http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/8301100/Court-bans-man-with-low-IQ-from-having-sex.html)

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> The 41 year-old had been in a relationship with a man whom he lived with and told officials “it would make me feel happy” for it to continue.
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> But his local council decided his “vigorous sex drive” was inappropriate and that with an IQ of 48 and a “moderate” learning disability, he did not understand what he was doing.
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> A psychiatrist involved in the case even tried to prevent the man being given sex education, on the grounds that it would leave him “confused”.
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> Mr Justice Mostyn said the case was “legally, intellectually and morally” complex as sex is “one of the most basic human functions” and the court must “tread especially carefully” when the state tries to curtail it.
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> But he agreed that the man, known only as Alan, should not be allowed to have sex with anyone on the grounds that he did not have the mental capacity to understand the health risks associated with his actions.

I don’t know how I feel about this. On one hand it seems unfair, but then I can kind of understand the concern. I’m not sure what an IQ of 48 means or what a vigorous sex drive means either.

😕

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**Author:** ![fifty-six](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@fifty-six](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fifty-six)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 7:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/2 "2011-02-08T07:04:43Z")

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When I am about to have sex I think my IQ is around 47. During the act and expcially right before I am done it approaches near zero.

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**Author:** ![Isamu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7c8e57/32.png) [@Isamu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Isamu)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 7:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/3 "2011-02-08T07:14:50Z")

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And how will they enforce this?

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**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 11:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/4 "2011-02-08T11:03:56Z")

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> [@Isamu](#):
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> And how will they enforce this?

Exactly. Good luck with that.

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**Author:** ![MandaJo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ac91a4/32.png) [@MandaJo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MandaJo)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 11:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/5 "2011-02-08T11:09:49Z")

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You can punish anyone who has sex with him as a rapist.

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**Author:** ![Otara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/a88e4f/32.png) [@Otara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otara)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 11:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/6 "2011-02-08T11:21:50Z")

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Reading the article will answer that.

Otara

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**Author:** ![Staggerlee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/staggerlee/32/3134_2.png) [@Staggerlee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Staggerlee)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 12:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/7 "2011-02-08T12:44:23Z")

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> [@Foggy](#):
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> I’m not sure … what a vigorous sex drive means either.
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> 😕

This is a British court case. It means anything beyond a raised eyebrow.  
But really, if this chap is living in council-provided ‘sheltered’ housing, this restriction is not much different from those placed on adults with learning disabilities in residential homes, say.

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**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/8 "2011-02-08T17:56:30Z")

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> [@Isamu](#):
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> And how will they enforce this?

I’m thinking cock cage.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/9 "2011-02-08T18:21:34Z")

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> [@fifty-six](#):
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> When I am about to have sex I think my IQ is around 47.

I thought it was closer to 56.

There’s a “fucking his brains out” joke in here somewhere.

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/10 "2011-02-08T18:29:18Z")

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> [@Isamu](#):
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> And how will they enforce this?

With an IQ of 48? Probably tell him his penis will explode if it puts it in anyone else.

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**Author:** ![llcoolbj77](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb9ed0/32.png) [@llcoolbj77](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/llcoolbj77)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/11 "2011-02-08T18:34:29Z")

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How do they even determine IQ’s lower than say, 60?

I have read a number of psychological evals, particularly of kids, which include IQ calculations. A lot of the evaluations seem to be based on self report instruments and multiple choice-type diagnostics.

What kind of diagnostic can realistically show an IQ difference of between 45 and 50 with any efficacy? How does one with an IQ of 50 actually participate? And what does that even mean?

And even if the guy’s IQ is super low, does that not mean that he can’t appreciate intimacy?

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/12 "2011-02-08T18:36:53Z")

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Geez, talk about kicking a guy while he’s Downs.

It said this was determined by his “local council.” Is there a higher authority someone can appeal to on his behalf?

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**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/13 "2011-02-08T18:41:25Z")

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> [@tdn](#):
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> I thought it was closer to 56.
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> There’s a “fucking his brains out” joke in here somewhere.

Was 69 too obvious?

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**Author:** ![Kelby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/a587f6/32.png) [@Kelby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kelby)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/14 "2011-02-08T18:48:36Z")

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Moderate “learning disability” is a misnomer, here. Maybe they’re trying to be PC, but 48 IQ falls into the moderate range of mental retardation.

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**Author:** ![PaulParkhead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@PaulParkhead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PaulParkhead)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/15 "2011-02-08T18:56:00Z")

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> [@lieu](#):
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> Geez, talk about kicking a guy while he’s Downs.
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> It said this was determined by his “local council.” Is there a higher authority someone can appeal to on his behalf?

This ruling was handed down by a court - it wasn’t simply a decision by the local council. I don’t know enough about the law to say if there’s any higher court that could hear an appeal.

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**Author:** ![ratatoskK](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ratatoskk/32/2987_2.png) [@ratatoskK](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ratatoskK)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 6:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/16 "2011-02-08T18:57:23Z")

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So did they ban the other guy from having sex as well? It doesn’t make any sense. It says he has a relationship with this other guy and it didn’t sound like the other guy was complaining about it.

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**Author:** ![Mops](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mops/32/16494_2.png) [@Mops](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mops)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/17 "2011-02-08T19:29:58Z")

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I wonder if this ruling isn’t really directed at the other guy, by implicitly threatening him with a rape charge.

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**Author:** ![The\_wind\_of\_my\_soul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecc23a/32.png) [@The\_wind\_of\_my\_soul](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_wind_of_my_soul)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 8:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/18 "2011-02-08T20:17:09Z")

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This makes me wonder if there are rules about children having sex. Because what the article says, about the man not really understanding the implications, seems philosophically similar to having sex with, say, a four year old. The thought of a four year old having sex definitely makes me shudder, but it is this _officially_ against the law?

ETA: Yes, I do know about statutory rape. But what if both of parties are young kids? Or if, say, one is twelve and one is three?

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**Author:** ![Malacandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Malacandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malacandra)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/19 "2011-02-08T20:18:07Z")

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> [@ratatoskK](#):
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> So did they ban the other guy from having sex as well? It doesn’t make any sense. It says he has a relationship with this other guy and it didn’t sound like the other guy was complaining about it.

Here and in other cases involving an inability to give meaningful consent, it’s not generally a question of whether the other person is OK with it.

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**Author:** ![Drain\_Bead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47774/32.png) [@Drain\_Bead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drain_Bead)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2011, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/uk-court-bans-man-with-low-iq-from-having-sex/570631/20 "2011-02-08T20:28:42Z")

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I’m not sure why, but I have different feelings on this based purely on the fact that it’s two guys. Since there’s no danger of procreation, it doesn’t bother me at all. If it were a woman with a 46 IQ wanting to have sex with a man, I’d have a big problem with it, because I don’t think she could understand the potential consequences, nor could she properly care for a child. But two dudes? Teach him how to use a condom and have at it.

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