# Umm - she married me - you may now go away **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [July 29, 2008, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/umm-she-married-me-you-may-now-go-away/458098 "2008-07-29T16:26:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Belrix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed655f/32.png) [@Belrix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Belrix)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 3:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/umm-she-married-me-you-may-now-go-away/458098/21 "2008-07-30T15:55:06Z")
[QUOTE=SomeUserName] Did it ever dawn on you that if she new the code that perhaps in her past before you or even the thought of you she may have accepted the booty call? Whether she did or not, is not the point. The fact that you got angry at some horny man thinking he might have a chance with an old flame is sort of weak. [/QUOTE] Sure it dawned on me. It’s one thing to have a _wink-wink, nudge-nudge_ code with your girlfriend or wife. It’s part of being playful with sex. It’s another thing altogether to assume it’ll work more than a year after your girlfriend has told your the relationship is over and you, the now jilted boyfriend, has told this girlfriend to fuck off and die. ---
**Author:** ![kushiel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/bbce88/32.png) [@kushiel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kushiel)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/umm-she-married-me-you-may-now-go-away/458098/22 "2008-07-30T16:05:31Z")
[QUOTE=Slithy Tove] Anyway, even worse than the horny ex-BF is the lonely ex-husband who keeps coming back not for sex but rather for _emotional support_ (especially if camoflauged with “the best interests of our children.”). Now _that_ will fuck up a relationship. [/QUOTE] I’m surprised it took 20 posts for that to come up… [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/umm-she-married-me-you-may-now-go-away/458098.md?page=1)