I tend to do it after almost every dinner I eat. I tend to bloat up like a balloon when I eat large dinners. My mom HATES it when I do it. She says “it’s not a ladylike thing to do,” and she’d always scolds me for it whenever I’m eating with her somewhere. By contrast, my boyfriend could care less. He just shrugs.
I can’t say it would bother me, either at home or in public. I tend to gravitate heavily towards informality in general. No point in being a slave to one’s culture I always say.
That wretched term aside, it seems to me if one meal makes your pants so tight that you have to unbutton them, in public no less, that they’re either too tight to begin with, you’re consuming too much in one sitting or there’s a gastrointestinal issue (which I certainly hope is not the case :o ). Not to be mean, but yes, in my world at least, it is not done.
Unbuttoning one’s pants? Totally unacceptable at a restaurant or other public place. Nor at someone else’s house or at your own house with guests over, unless you and they go back a long ways.