# Update from Tim (re: Cristi/Persephone)

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 28, 2004, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466 "2004-05-28T03:36:52Z")\
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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/1 "2004-05-28T03:36:52Z")

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I just heard from Tim, with an update about Cristi. THey’ve issued an amended death certificate, cause of death drowning - it had nothing to do with her recent hospitalization. Tim also reports that he spoke to the medical examiner, who confirmed she’d had a seizure.

he wanted folks here to know, also gave many thanks to for all the good wishes, thoughts, prayers.

I asked how the kids were doing, he says they’ve got a counselor coming in regularly, they still have sad/hard times (I suspect that recent mother’s day was a challenge), but the kids are able to sleep at night now.

he ended his email with

> [@](#):
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> Thanks to you and all of her friends on the board for your love and  
> \>support

I asked the admins if it was ok to post for him, they gave permission due to the very unusual circumstances. I post this because Tim asked me to, and I cared for Cristi. I know I wasn’t as close to her as many others here. Tim wanted to share this information, and I wanted to do what I could.

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**Author:** ![porcupine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac91a4/32.png) [@porcupine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/porcupine)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 3:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/2 "2004-05-28T03:56:08Z")

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Thank you for letting us know.

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**Author:** ![dantheman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dantheman/32/9421_2.png) [@dantheman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dantheman)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/3 "2004-05-28T04:54:30Z")

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Thanks, **wring**.

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**Author:** ![misstee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/958977/32.png) [@misstee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/misstee)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 1:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/4 "2004-05-28T13:32:37Z")

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It’s funny who “strangers” from the internet affect ones life. I did not know Cristi other than reading posts here and there, but I do have to say when he posted about her death I felt bad- I even cried for her. I think of her kids often and hope that all is well for them.  
Thanks for posting this **wring**.

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**Author:** ![Gorgon\_Heap](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f475e1/32.png) [@Gorgon\_Heap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gorgon_Heap)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 1:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/5 "2004-05-28T13:44:12Z")

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Ditto the thanks. **Acrylic Vessel** and I think about her all the time. I’m glad things are going OK for Tim and the kids and I’m equally glad he realizes she had a lot of friends here who want to keep in the know.

That’s real big of him.

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**Author:** ![swampbear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/swampbear/32/467_2.png) [@swampbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/swampbear)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 1:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/6 "2004-05-28T13:59:46Z")

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**wring** thanks for the update. Please thank Tim for keeping us informed. I’m glad to here the children are getting counseling to help them deal with losing their mother.

I agree with what **misstee** said. I didn’t know Christi from other than her posts which I always enjoyed. Of course, this addictive board has given me a really strange, lot of fun, dysfunctional but loving extended internet “family” of which she was a part, so her passing left something missing.

Again, **wring** thanks for giving us the update.

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**Author:** ![Diceman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Diceman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diceman)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/7 "2004-05-28T16:32:52Z")

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Thanks for the update.

I met Persephone at a Dopefest in Lansing, MI, several years ago, along with **wring** and maybe a couple more people. It’s still hard to believe that she died from a seizure.

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**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/8 "2004-05-28T18:02:24Z")

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Thanks to both you & Tim for keeping us updated; I appreciate it.

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**Author:** ![nocturnal\_tick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3d9bf3/32.png) [@nocturnal\_tick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nocturnal_tick)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 6:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/9 "2004-05-28T18:38:08Z")

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Yeah, thanks for the update. At some level, it makes me feel better that the facts are known, especially for Tim, the kids and **Euty** of course.

Still ☹ for it being something so uncontrollable.

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**Author:** ![wring](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/838e76/32.png) [@wring](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wring)\
**Post date:** [May 28, 2004, 8:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/10 "2004-05-28T20:58:35Z")

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will let him know people appreciate the updates. I, too, am very glad the kids are still getting help. no need to thank me, though, I’m just the conduit.

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**Author:** ![rocking\_chair](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rocking_chair/32/2918_2.png) [@rocking\_chair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rocking_chair)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2004, 12:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/11 "2004-05-29T00:42:28Z")

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thank you for the update. it helps to know how everyone is doing.

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**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\
**Post date:** [May 29, 2004, 6:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/update-from-tim-re-cristi-persephone/247466/12 "2004-05-29T06:41:43Z")

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Thank you, wring and Tim. I can imagine how hard it is for him to deal with this and for him to think of us like he does, well, he’s a mensch. Words cannot describe my admiration and appreciation.
