# Urbanredneck, what the FUCK were you THINKING??? **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [January 3, 2019, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121 "2019-01-03T00:17:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![asahi](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asahi/32/8693_2.png) [@asahi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/asahi)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 3:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/21 "2019-01-03T03:52:20Z")
> [@beowulff](#): > > [Got ‘em banned, too.](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=21396974&postcount=27) I’m not opening the link. I just want to wipe people like that out of my memory. ---
**Author:** ![EinsteinsHund](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/einsteinshund/32/8400_2.png) [@EinsteinsHund](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EinsteinsHund)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 3:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/22 "2019-01-03T03:53:56Z")
> [@Riemann](#): > > What can we say in his defense? > Better than Flyer. > That’s all I’ve got. **Flyer** is the much better speller, though. Almost an intellectual troglodyte. But yeah, he’s even worse. ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 3:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/23 "2019-01-03T03:57:39Z")
> [@Nawth\_Chucka](#): > > I know, I know - porque los dos? That would be _¿Por qué no los dos?_ I realize y’all are used to the notion that raping Spanish vocabulary and grammar is funny-haha, but in this case you happened to miss a little word which turned your attempt from “whey not both?” to “whey both?” :smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack: ---
**Author:** ![madmonk28](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madmonk28/32/20811_2.png) [@madmonk28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madmonk28)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/24 "2019-01-03T04:10:08Z")
> [@Nava](#): > > That would be _¿Por qué no los dos?_ > > I realize y’all are used to the notion that raping Spanish vocabulary and grammar is funny-haha, but in this case you happened to miss a little word which turned your attempt from “whey not both?” to “whey both?” :smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack: That would be “why not both,” not “whey.” ---
**Author:** ![Paranoid\_Randroid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/paranoid_randroid/32/18_2.png) [@Paranoid\_Randroid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Paranoid_Randroid)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/25 "2019-01-03T04:11:24Z")
Wow, and I thought the Spanish word for whey was suero! ---
**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/26 "2019-01-03T04:26:19Z")
> [@mikecurtis](#): > > I dont wanna let **Urbanredneck** off the hook. . .but PMS can make BPD even worse than it already is. > > [Perimenstrual exacerbation of symptoms in borderline personality disorder: evidence from multilevel models and the Carolina Premenstrual Assessment Scoring System - PubMed](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29804553) > > [https://psychcentral.com/news/2018/06/03/for-women-with-borderline-personality-disorder-symptoms-may-worsen-with-periods/135859.html](https://psychcentral.com/news/2018/06/03/for-women-with-borderline-personality-disorder-symptoms-may-worsen-with-periods/135859.html) “…may contribute…” “…at risk for worsened symptoms…” Those are important caveats that in no way validate the suggestion that the fundamental symptoms of BPD are tied to menses. ---
**Author:** ![Penfeather](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/penfeather/32/384_2.png) [@Penfeather](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Penfeather)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/27 "2019-01-03T04:40:51Z")
> [@Nava](#): > > That would be _¿Por qué no los dos?_ > > I realize y’all are used to the notion that raping Spanish vocabulary and grammar is funny-haha, but in this case you happened to miss a little word which turned your attempt from “whey not both?” to “whey both?” :smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack: Nobody cares. ---
**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/28 "2019-01-03T04:45:37Z")
> [@mikecurtis](#): > > I dont wanna let **Urbanredneck** off the hook. . .but PMS can make BPD even worse than it already is. > > [Perimenstrual exacerbation of symptoms in borderline personality disorder: evidence from multilevel models and the Carolina Premenstrual Assessment Scoring System - PubMed](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29804553) > > [https://psychcentral.com/news/2018/06/03/for-women-with-borderline-personality-disorder-symptoms-may-worsen-with-periods/135859.html](https://psychcentral.com/news/2018/06/03/for-women-with-borderline-personality-disorder-symptoms-may-worsen-with-periods/135859.html) Sure, but that doesn’t make it an appropriate question in a thread where a parent is worried about their kid. Plus there are better ways to ask whether PMS can exacerbate BPD symptoms. The way he did it, it sounds like he’s asking about PMS in women in general. ---
**Author:** ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/29 "2019-01-03T04:59:57Z")
> [@Nava](#): > > That would be _¿Por qué no los dos?_ > > I realize y’all are used to the notion that raping Spanish vocabulary and grammar is funny-haha, but in this case you happened to miss a little word which turned your attempt from “whey not both?” to “whey both?” :smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack::smack: I’m sorry I forgot the space btwn por and que, and also the word no. I was quoting a meme from memory, perhaps you have seen it. I don’t have the keys for the other things I missed, it was not an attempt to rape anything. I wrote the phrase wrong by accident. Did you have anything pertinent to the topic at hand to contribute or you just wanted to flip a nut on me about my sub-standard Spanish? ---
**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/30 "2019-01-03T05:31:54Z")
**Urbanredneck** and “thinking” should not be used in the same sentence, as it makes no sense. What was the wine glass thinking when it fell off the counter and shattered on the floor? Same answer. ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 6:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/31 "2019-01-03T06:35:10Z")
> [@asahi](#): > > are just clannish, ogreish shit people. They enjoy watching other people suffer. But I confess, I enjoy watching them suffer. Just like the clannish ogreish shit person that you are. ---
**Author:** ![I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/i_love_me_vol.i/32/521_2.png) [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/I_Love_Me_Vol.I)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 8:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/32 "2019-01-03T08:01:56Z")
**Urban Redneck** ’s question was a reasonable one. He’s not a woman nor, apparently, a medical professional. The timing and placement of his question sucked, however. ---
**Author:** ![Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/budget_player_cadet/32/205_2.png) [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Budget_Player_Cadet)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 9:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/33 "2019-01-03T09:27:53Z")
I’m mostly confused how that didn’t end up as a warning. Like… He has a pretty long pattern of throwing these kinds of misogynistic bombs into threads. ---
**Author:** ![bobkitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c67d28/32.png) [@bobkitty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobkitty)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 11:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/34 "2019-01-03T11:20:35Z")
Personally I found the throwaway “do you get a discount at Taco Bell” line equally offensive. Both comments would have come with a warning and not a mod note if I were wearing the hat. ---
**Author:** ![JKellyMap](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jkellymap/32/15880_2.png) [@JKellyMap](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JKellyMap)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 11:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/35 "2019-01-03T11:44:30Z")
> [@Penfeather](#): > > Nobody cares. I did! The post said exactly the opposite of what it was clearly trying to say, and it bothered me. ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 1:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/36 "2019-01-03T13:26:38Z")
> [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](#): > > **Urban Redneck** ’s question was a reasonable one. If it was a reasonable question he wouldn’t have asked it. ---
**Author:** ![andros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e480ec/32.png) [@andros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andros)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/37 "2019-01-03T13:38:50Z")
> [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](#): > > **Urban Redneck** ’s question was a reasonable one. He’s not a woman nor, apparently, a medical professional. The timing and placement of his question sucked, however. The most charitable interpretation of what he might have meant is not entirely unreasonable. ---
**Author:** ![Great\_Antibob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e47c2d/32.png) [@Great\_Antibob](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Great_Antibob)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/38 "2019-01-03T13:43:30Z")
> [@andros](#): > > The most charitable interpretation of what he might have meant is not entirely unreasonable. Pretty much this. I just had a Godwin moment there thinking on who else we could interpret THAT charitably. ---
**Author:** ![madmonk28](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/madmonk28/32/20811_2.png) [@madmonk28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/madmonk28)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/39 "2019-01-03T14:19:29Z")
> [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](#): > > I’m mostly confused how that didn’t end up as a warning. Like… He has a pretty long pattern of throwing these kinds of misogynistic bombs into threads. This board is very tolerant of trolls, especially sexist ones. It takes about ten years before anyone does anything about it. ---
**Author:** ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2019, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121/40 "2019-01-03T16:49:48Z")
> [@Budget\_Player\_Cadet](#): > > I’m mostly confused how that didn’t end up as a warning. Me too, I just made[an ATMB thread](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=868314) about it… [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/urbanredneck-what-the-fuck-were-you-thinking/827121.md?page=3)