Being from the Southern UK, and speaking RP (received pronounciation) I would be rather surprized to hear a non-Yorkshireman use ‘our’ and ‘your’ when referring to family.
You are right that CUA is basing a lot of its humour on a ‘class’ thing, but the joke is that Hyacinth gets it wrong - you get similar humour in Minder where Arthur Daley persistently uses the wrong words or pronounciation.
I’ve noticed that Hyacinth always says “my sister Daisy” or “my sister Violet, the one with a sauna and room for a pony” instead of “our Daisy.”
I’ve found the “our John” construction useful when in conversations in which the participants might be referring to any one of several persons named John, but it’s not a common usage.
I’ve lived in Yorkshire all my life and in my experience usage of “our” and “your” isn’t very common. You do hear it from time to time and nobody seems confused when it is used but it isn’t the norm. The usage I hear most frequently is “our kid” and “your kid” to refer to a brother.
OED versus the Cambridge version - check ‘realize’.
To me ‘ize’ makes more sense, so I generally use it, standardization in the absence of a definitive Dueden.
Admittedly the true standards are erratic, but I prefer to be consistent.
Heck, Chez, I thought you conducted your morbid experiments in Stow, a migratory Yorkshireman, how interesting. Or is there a Stow in Yorkshire, I did not find one, but my search was cursory (Cab Sauv impedes my Googling).
There’s an Americanism for you just to illustrate my international linguistic credentials. My home is Stow in Gloucestershire and I don’t think there is a place of that name in Yorkshire. I was thrown out of that illustrious county because of the morbid experiments you mention.
I think I’ve since been sentenced to death in my absence.
It’s not common in Scotland, with the caveat that, for all I know, it might have been common in Dundee at whatever point in the Dark Ages that comic strip started. Like others posting here, I tend to think of it as a northern (vaguely defined) English usage.