# Vaginal Control **URL:** \ **Category:** Factual Questions\ **Created:** [April 14, 2002, 7:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555 "2002-04-14T07:57:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MamaHen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c89c15/32.png) [@MamaHen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MamaHen)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 7:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/1 "2002-04-14T07:57:53Z")
I can’t believe I am asking this, but is it possible for a woman to have such complete control of her vaginal muscles that a man can’t help but quickly ejaculate? I did a search and could find nothing so if anyone can help me, I’d appreciate it. ---
**Author:** ![cornflakes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9d8465/32.png) [@cornflakes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cornflakes)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 8:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/2 "2002-04-14T08:27:32Z")
> [@](#): > > (for emphasis) > …that a man **can’t help** but quickly ejaculate? That vagina would have to have power of suggestion over the man’s mind. Were that to happen, then I guess it might be possible. ---
**Author:** ![DMC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dmc/32/18049_2.png) [@DMC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DMC)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 10:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/3 "2002-04-14T10:20:53Z")
“Dr. Kegel, calling Dr. Kegel.” I can’t believe you’re asking that either. 😃 While it’s not a magical answer to instant ejaculation, a women versed in Kegel exercises can indeed increase a man’s pleasure, which has the desired effect. TMI warning: Men can do the same thing (or at least similar). In fact I use it to pretend my penis is talking, to make my wife laugh after a nice bit 'o sex. ---
**Author:** ![Mephisto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/48db29/32.png) [@Mephisto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mephisto)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 11:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/4 "2002-04-14T11:23:44Z")
Well, I don’t know if it’s Kegel exercises or not, but my wife seems to have better control of her vaginal muscles than most women and can do some pretty interesting things. I don’t know believe she could force me to ejaculate before I was ready (at least not with her “nether-flexing” alone 🙂 ), but she can certainly speed things up a little. ---
**Author:** ![DAVEW0071](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e19b73/32.png) [@DAVEW0071](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DAVEW0071)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/5 "2002-04-14T13:03:35Z")
Many things besides vaginal contact induce orgasm in men. I myself have very sensitive nipples. If they are stimulated during intercourse, it often speeds things up. I agree with **cornflakes**. It’s mostly in the mind. ---
**Author:** ![DVous\_Means](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc29f/32.png) [@DVous\_Means](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DVous_Means)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 2:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/6 "2002-04-14T14:13:49Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Mephisto \* > \*\*…my wife seems to have better control of her vaginal muscles than most women… \*\* Obviously you are a well-travelled swordsman to be able to make such a claim in this forum 😃 ---
**Author:** ![white-tigeress](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f475e1/32.png) [@white-tigeress](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/white-tigeress)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/7 "2002-04-14T14:36:36Z")
Definetly all in the mind !!! ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Duality](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mr.duality/32/4098_2.png) [@Mr.Duality](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Duality)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 2:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/8 "2002-04-14T14:41:26Z")
[http://www.wellnesspartners.com/kegels/kegelmaster\_pictures.html](http://www.wellnesspartners.com/kegels/kegelmaster_pictures.html) ---
**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/9 "2002-04-14T15:50:47Z")
How would they be any better than the muscles in her hands? I think if a man takes 5 minutes to orgasm, no special muscles are gonna shorten that. ---
**Author:** ![peepthis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9d8465/32.png) [@peepthis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/peepthis)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2002, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/vaginal-control/103555/10 "2002-04-14T16:01:29Z")
Cecil speaks on [Kegel exercises](http://www.straightdope.com/columns/010928.html): > [@](#): > > But a side benefit–and the main reason younger people have heard of Kegel–is that the exercises tauten the muscles of the vagina, thereby increasing the enjoyment of both (or however many) participants during sexual intercourse. Women are said to experience easier and more intense orgasms, and some climax, or climax during intercourse, for the first time in their lives.