I mention this not because it’s particularly relevant but just because I find it interesting.
Short list of some U.S. slaveowners who freed their slaves:
George Wythe (read about hismurder trial if you want a gripping read and testament to the meaning of race and freedom in early America)
George Washington (in his will he freed his slaves, though postoned manumission until the death of his wife; he asked his wife to free her’s- she didn’t, but she did free his early because she realized that his will gave his slaves a vested interest in her death)
Benjamin Franklin (also in his will he required his son-in-law to free the slave Franklin had given him before he inherited from Franklin’s estate)
Ulysses S. Grant (I see his manumission of his slave as particularly admirable considering that prior to the war he was in desperate straits financially and selling his slave could have salvaged him; I suspect the temptation to sell him was one thing that caused him to free him- the “my God what have I almost done” moment of clarity)
John Payne- the father of Dolly Madison- he freed his slaves when he converted to the Society of Friends (Quakers) even though it sent him from a rich man to a pauper.
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BY FAR THE MOST ADMIRABLE MAN IN THE U.S. when it came to freeing slaves** was Robert Carter III, yet I would be shocked to learn more than one or two people reading this know about him. Carter came to the conclusion that slavery was evil, and in spite of what it did to him and to his wife and his enormous family (they had at least 17 children) financially, he freed his slaves.
Why is this so much more impressive than the others?
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Because Carter owned somewhere between 480 and 600 slaves!**
This made him incredibly hated and also saw the passage of several laws making it even more difficult to free slaves.
Carter’s brother Charles did not free his slaves, but I’ll mention him anyway since the story of what happened to some of his slaves is interesting- if only to me. He became possibly the richest man in the United States (was definitely on the short list) due his vast land holdings (over 100,000 acres [though some asterisks apply- only a single digit fraction of that was under cultivation]) and slaves (about 600, like his brother). Charles married three times and had at least two dozen legitimate children though “only” about 15 lived to adulthood. Like most planters he had little cash, though he did inherit one of my favorite staircases, though you can really only leave a staircase to one of your kids so he left it and most of his vast real estate and most of his slaves to his preferred son. The other dozen or so kids he provided for split up the rest of his estate, which was still substantial but not enough to make them particularly rich.
One of his daughters was Anne Hill Carter, and her father hated her husband. His name was Henry Lee, better known as “Lighthorse Harry”, and he was of impeccable aristocratic breeding, but he was a gambler and chronically unlucky businessman who had already wasted his own inheritance and spent the inheritance of his first wife (his cousin Matilda Lee) by the time he met Anne and the Carters did not trust him. Their apprehension was warranted- he soon not only went through her dowry but managed to get evicted from the Lee ancestral seat at Stratford Hall by his own son! (The son had inherited it from Harry’s first wife Matilda and was terrified his father was going to somehow manage to lose it even though it wasn’t his, and he probably would have.)
By the time Harry and Anne had their fifth child, Robert E. Anne was essentially an invalid. (Per oft repeated but unsubstantiated legend his mother had been declared dead by this time during an illness and woke up during her wake.) They were also broke of course. Anne’s inheritance from her father had bypassed her and been left to her children so as to protect it from her husband’s circling creditors, and that inheritance was a small trust fund and about a dozen adult slaves and some children.
Harry fled the family to avoid creditors and died in self imposed exile in the Caribbean, essentially leaving his family flat. Anne’s brother granted them free use of his townhouse in Alexandria and the trust fund gave a small income but not even enough to pay her medical bills, so the bulk of their income came from her slaves. She couldn’t sell them because her husband’s creditors would have a claim under some archaic laws, but she saved out a small domestic staff and the rest were leased to farmers. This is the income that supported Robert E. Lee and his siblings.
Lee’s sister Ann became an abolitionist. I would guess this had something to do with it. She and her brother were close and communicated even during the War, when she was a very devout Unionist in Baltimore.
Lee detested slavery, but it was not at all for what we would term enlightened reasons: he hated it for what it did to white people. Of course being essentially penniless (he went to West Point because his family couldn’t afford his tuition to William and Mary) he married money- the only child of George Washington Parke Custis, adopted son and step-grandson of George Washington and a wealthy slaveowner. Washington had asked him to free his slaves, but Custis had never done so.
When Custis did die he owned about 160 slaves. He had freed many over the years (some of them probably his biological children) and in his will he instructed Lee, his executor, to free the rest within 5 years. This was no easy feat since Custis, while he had enormous assets, also had an enormous debt load. Lee had to take a leave of absence from the military to work on this request full time and later confessed that being called to active duty to deal with John Brown was actually a relief because he hated managing plantations.
He did manage to free the slaves by 1862. Here’s an interesting thing though:
Lee’s troops historically revered him- at least as a general rule- saying “we weren’t fighting for a cause, we were fighting for him” and “we’d have marched into hell for that old man”. A woman at Gettysburg who saw him passing by famously remarked “Damn I wish he was ours”. He was considered by most a good leader. (By most- not by all- Longstreet later cast aspersions on Lee’s leadership in his memoirs and Pickett NEVER forgave him, considering him always the man who murdered his regiments by ordering the disastrous charge; Lee was possibly not in his right mind at Gettysburg as evidenced by his letters that describe heart attack like symptoms weeks before and a letter so absent minded to his daughter in law that he asked her to kiss her son for him- Lee’s only grandchild- in spite of the fact the baby had been dead for more than a month and Lee had written a long condolence letter over it, but that’s all an aside.)
Anyway, what I find interesting is that even though Lee did honor the request to free all of the slaves at his father-in-law’s plantations, and even though he said several times slavery needed to be ended and after the war famously said the one good thing about the war was it ended slavery, and even though Lee was seen as a great leader by many of his enlisted men, the slaves under his authority absolutely hated him. Some called him things like ‘soulless’, ‘the meanest man I ever met’, ‘freezing cold’, etc… Several who had lived on the plantation their entire lives ran away even though they knew their manumission was coming rather than work for Lee; when they were captured and returned he beat them severely.
An interesting contrast is Jefferson Davis- he was detested by many who served under him and even in his own writings comes across as the most conceited and arrogant bastard on Earth. He was a nouveau riche snob, an ardent classist, an outspoken white supremacist even by 1860 standards, his own wife called him a “girded tree” emotionally and said that he never once doubted he was absolutely right even in spite of all evidence to the contrary. His slaves seem to have genuinely liked him- many corresponded with him until his death and then with Mrs. Davis, and many also contributed financially to his support long after they were no longer living on his land.
Again, not particularly relevant, but interesting in showing the many complexities of slave society.