Water can't be compressesd, so why does pressure increase with depth?

Yet compressibility - whether of the water or the person - has essentially nothing to do with the increase of pressure with depth.

Maybe think of a column of stacked ice-cubes. When they are all frozen, you essentially have the stack-of-bricks case. Now suppose you zap the ice-cube on the bottom of the column with a laser with just enough energy to melt it (but not vaporize it). If your hand is next to the bottom of the column, what happens? When the bottom ice-cube liquefies, the ice-cubes above it press down, causing the water from the bottom ice-cube to squirt out in all directions. In particular, some will splatter onto your hand, applying some amount of pressure. That’s how one can see that when a liquid is pressed from above, it presses out laterally.

In a sense, this happens precisely because the liquid is incompressible. Imagine the opposite extreme, where the liquid is perfectly compressible. The melted ice-cube would be squashed flat by the cubes above it before it had a chance to splatter sideways, so there would be no pressure applied laterally.

Nonsense. I do not have to be there at all. Or is this the equivalent of a tree falling in the forest but nobody being there to hear it?

Compressibility don’t enter into it.

It is a liquid and that’s all that matters. I think your reasoning is that if you are inside a mountain or a mine or even a building, you are not holding up all the weight above you. True, but something else is. But this is possible with rigid materials, not with liquids. For example, water is not a good building material for that very reason. It does not hold up well.

Its been a number of years since I have dove as my wet suit shrunk:o
110 feet is the max I ever dove and there was a sensation of sluggishness in dives deeper than 75 ft. from my recollection. I used to think it was more psychological than physiological. Regulator noise was much more pronounced but that could have been psychologically induced by the heightened level of awareness:dubious:
If I am way off base here, what else would one seance different from say 15 ft and 100 ft depth with no thermocline to deal with? ( I have dove Lake Superior’s north shore with an easterly wind and dove to 80 ft before reaching the thermocline).

At that depth, there’s a pretty good chance you were suffering from some degree of nitrogen narcosis.