# Ways in which you are annoyingly pedantic
**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
**Created:** [April 1, 2024, 2:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676 "2024-04-01T14:12:18Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@HMS\_Irruncible](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HMS_Irruncible)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 12:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/61 "2024-04-02T12:06:21Z")
> [@bob\_2](#):
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> When I was a truck driver, my boss would call me and ask where I was. I would sometimes reply by saying “Ten minutes”. The point being that he didn’t want my location - he wanted to know when I would arrive at my destination.
That’s annoying. I’m a big stickler that when people are asked questions, they should first answer exactly the question they asked.
You’re not a mind-reader! Feel free to add your interpretation of the unasked part, if you must, but only _after_ you have answered the stated question to the best of your ability.
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### Author:  [@Mops](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mops)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 12:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/62 "2024-04-02T12:20:53Z")
> [@HMS\_Irruncible](#):
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> > [@bob\_2](#):
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> > When I was a truck driver, my boss would call me and ask where I was. I would sometimes reply by saying “Ten minutes”. The point being that he didn’t want my location - he wanted to know when I would arrive at my destination.
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> That’s annoying. I’m a big stickler that when people are asked questions, they should first answer exactly the question they asked.
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> …
That’s what ticks me off too - particularly when I ask for a specific datum (e.g. the time, when I have both hands full), and the other person does not answer my question but the question “Should I worry?”. If I wanted to know if I should worry I’d have asked if I should worry. As I asked for the time, what I wanted to know is the time.
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### Author:  [@Mijin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mijin)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 12:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/63 "2024-04-02T12:25:25Z")
A lot of these are just not recognizing that the meaning of words can shift.
…though I might also be an offender.
e.g. I’m a stickler for “continually” vs “continuously” though this might be one where they are interchangeable in modern usage, I’ll have to check.
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### Author:  [@HMS\_Irruncible](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HMS_Irruncible)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/64 "2024-04-02T14:17:19Z")
> [@Mops](#):
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> That’s what ticks me off too - particularly when I ask for a specific datum (e.g. the time, when I have both hands full), and the other person does not answer my question but the question “Should I worry?”. If I wanted to know if I should worry I’d have asked if I should worry. As I asked for the time, what I wanted to know is the time.
Reminds me of another big pet peeve of mine:
A: “What time does the event start?”
B: “Well, it takes time to get there, and traffic might be an issue, so I want to leave a little early.”
A: “OK, that’s great. What time does the event start?”
B: “I want to get there 10 minutes early.”
A: “OK, but again I ask, _what time does the event start_”?
B: “I’d like to leave at 11:00 to make sure we get there on time.”
Epilogue: Due to the refusal to speak the only piece of information needed to fix the definition of “early” and “late”, we arrived 45 minutes late.
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### Author:  [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/65 "2024-04-02T14:35:54Z")
I’ve been hearing international house hunters (HGTV) use the word “historical” when I think they mean “historic.” Maybe both are okay, but it bugs me.
ETA: I just googled this. Turns out they were using it right, and I was wrong. I could delete the post, but I’ll share my shame.
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### Author:  [@Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Slow_Moving_Vehicle)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 2:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/66 "2024-04-02T14:43:49Z")
> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> Words with alternative pronunciations - like integral - kinda bother me, as I think one of them must be “right”
So you refuse to countenance such linguistic refuse?
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### Author:  [@Stratocaster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stratocaster)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 2:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/67 "2024-04-02T14:47:26Z")
I can never remember that one. I’ll forget it by tomorrow.
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### Author:  [@Stratocaster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stratocaster)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/68 "2024-04-02T14:53:05Z")
> [@Sylvanz](#):
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> Ugh. My Hubster will often not answer the question I ask. Me: “Hubster, what time do we need to leave?”
> Hubster: “We have to be there at x time.”
> Me: “I didn’t ask you that.”
Ugh is right! We do that a lot in our house, and that question is the one most abused. “When do we have to leave?” I want to know when I need to get a shower, do I have time to take a nap, etc.
“Well, let’s see, the show starts at 8:00, but we said we’d meet the Smiths for drinks, and traffic is bad because they shut down a lane on 76.”
Just give me a time! I didn’t want to go to the show in the first place! And I hate the Smiths!
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### Author:  [@Civil\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Civil_Guy)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/69 "2024-04-02T15:08:43Z")
I see a lot of you have come up with some really unique examples.
(Ducks and runs, looking for some bleach for his typing fingers.)
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### Author:  [@Dinsdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinsdale)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 3:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/70 "2024-04-02T15:11:07Z")
> [@Stratocaster](#):
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> Just give me a time!
Accompanied by, “And be ready to leave at whatever time you give”? (Admittedly, not pedantry as discussed above.)
A very minor point I have learned to go with over 37+ years. I acknowledge that it rarely matters if we leave/arrive at a specific appointed time. But if we discuss and agree on leaving “at 630”, I presume you remember that, make some effort to be aware of the passing time, and be close to ready when 630 rolls around. I don’t want to keep calling out, “Are you aware of the time?” to urge you to be ready at 630. But, OTOH, if I just mind my own business and 630 comes and I’m ready to head out the door, if I ask whether you are ready, I’m not thrilled to hear, “Oh, is it 630 already? I need to take a shower…”
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### Author:  [@PastTense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PastTense)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/71 "2024-04-02T15:33:41Z")
> [@Velocity](#):
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> I always correct people who think DEFCON-5 is the direst state of alert and DEFCON-1 is the most relaxed.
An example of the inconsistent meaning of 1 vs 5: contrast this with a Category 1 hurricane vs a Category 5 hurricane.
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### Author:  [@Jegpeg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jegpeg)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/72 "2024-04-02T15:40:48Z")
If someone asks me to “wait a second” after a slight pause I will tell them their time is up.
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### Author:  [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 3:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/73 "2024-04-02T15:59:18Z")
The fact that some people can’t distinguish between etymology and entomology bugs me in ways I can’t put into words. - Stolen from and internet meme.
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### Author:  [@BrickBat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrickBat)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/74 "2024-04-02T16:03:12Z")
> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> A very minor point I have learned to go with over 37+ years. I acknowledge that it rarely matters if we leave/arrive at a specific appointed time. But if we discuss and agree on leaving “at 630”, I presume you remember that, make some effort to be aware of the passing time, and be close to ready when 630 rolls around. I don’t want to keep calling out, “Are you aware of the time?” to urge you to be ready at 630. But, OTOH, if I just mind my own business and 630 comes and I’m ready to head out the door, if I ask whether you are ready, I’m not thrilled to hear, “Oh, is it 630 already? I need to take a shower…”
Man oh man, so much this.
Whether it’s leaving to go to the airport to fly out, attend a scheduled event, or even a casual social event with an agreed on basic time, experience has shown me that with certain people, one _must_ make known the need to adhere to the schedule. This would include nagging, if necessary.
You see, with certain people in my life, when they blithely dismiss my well founded lateness concerns as “_Oh don’t worry, we have plenty of time, plenty!_”. Experience has shown is that what they’re really saying is “_It’s OK to be a little late_”. This is nothing more than passive-aggressive sabotage as far as I’m concerned.
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### Author:  [@Dinsdale](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinsdale)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/75 "2024-04-02T16:26:29Z")
In our situation, it even gets down to daily walking the dog. Her, "Are you ready to walk the dog?? Me, “Yes!” I get up, put on whatever coat/gloves/hat/shoes are needed, put the leash on the dog and am ready in - oh - 15-30 seconds.
Meanwhile, she asks, “What is the temperature?” Goes to check thermometer, decides exactly which hat/gloves/coat to wear… While I stand there waiting. Tho only less than a minute, multiple by EVERY SINGLE TIME WE WALK THE DOG! (It isn’t as tho we are walking for hours/miles in the wilderness. Around 2 blocks in our neighborhood. If I’m a tad warm/cool, I’ll survive!)
The alternative is I just sit here, wait until she is entirely ready, and waiting for me, and then have her wait 15 sec while I put on my coat/shoes…
If that is the biggest problem we have, I suppose we are lucky indeed! 😃
Yes, I AM that big of a pain in the ass to live with. I have no idea how/why she puts up with me!
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### Author:  [@WildaBeast](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WildaBeast)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/76 "2024-04-02T16:29:37Z")
> [@Sylvanz](#):
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> Because, invariably he will want to leave 15 min. earlier than needed.
That was an issue I had with my parents when we were visiting my sister in New York last Christmas. Being unfamiliar with public transit, every time we made plans to meet her somewhere in the city they would ask her how long it takes to get there on the subway. And she would give them a very conservative estimate. And then my parents would insist that we needed to leave the hotel like 30 minutes before when my sister told them we needed to leave, just in case. Since she had already overestimated the time it would take us to get there, we would invariably end up at the meeting point an hour early. I, personally, would have preferred spending that time waiting back in the comfy hotel room rather than on the sidewalk in the city.
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### Author:  [@fstbk1968](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fstbk1968)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/77 "2024-04-02T16:32:38Z")
We people use the word cement when what they really mean is concrete. Cement is just one component of concrete.
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### Author:  [@xtenkfarpl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xtenkfarpl)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/78 "2024-04-02T16:36:52Z")
> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> Words with alternative pronunciations - like integral - kinda bother me, as I think one of them must be “right.”
Reminds me of Isaac Asimov’s way of telling if a person is a chemist or a labor representative:
Ask them to pronounce ‘unionised’.
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### Author:  [@Stratocaster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stratocaster)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/79 "2024-04-02T16:46:47Z")
> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> In our situation, it even gets down to daily walking the dog. Her, "Are you ready to walk the dog?? Me, “Yes!” I get up, put on whatever coat/gloves/hat/shoes are needed, put the leash on the dog and am ready in - oh - 15-30 seconds.
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> Meanwhile, she asks, “What is the temperature?” Goes to check thermometer, decides exactly which hat/gloves/coat to wear… While I stand there waiting. Tho only less than a minute, multiple by EVERY SINGLE TIME WE WALK THE DOG! (It isn’t as tho we are walking for hours/miles in the wilderness. Around 2 blocks in our neighborhood. If I’m a tad warm/cool, I’ll survive!)
I can relate. If we’re on a tight schedule, and I’m driving the schedule, I have to say something like, “Honey, we need to leave at 6:30. That means _walking out the door_ at 6:30.”
Not finding your shoes, not taking a pee, not calling your sister first. Walking out the door.
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### Author:  [@Q.Q.Switcheroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.Q.Switcheroo)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2024, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/ways-in-which-you-are-annoyingly-pedantic/999676/80 "2024-04-02T16:48:43Z")
> [@xtenkfarpl](#):
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> Reminds me of Isaac Asimov’s way of telling if a person is a chemist or a labor representative:
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> Ask them to pronounce ‘unionised’.
You mean a lab **ou** r representative? Because a lab **o** r representative would pronounce it with a “z.” 😉
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