# We’re FINALLY got married on October 1. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [October 7, 2015, 11:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794 "2015-10-07T11:21:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Duckster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duckster/32/1244_2.png) [@Duckster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duckster)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 4:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/21 "2015-10-07T16:58:39Z")
Congratulations! ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/22 "2015-10-07T17:02:46Z")
Congrats! ---
**Author:** ![Tamerlane](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tamerlane/32/7602_2.png) [@Tamerlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tamerlane)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/23 "2015-10-07T17:47:31Z")
Congratulations :). ---
**Author:** ![Smapti](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/smapti/32/17938_2.png) [@Smapti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smapti)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 5:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/24 "2015-10-07T17:51:30Z")
Schwifty. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 6:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/25 "2015-10-07T18:09:53Z")
> [@Roderick\_Femm](#): > > Question: my spouse doesn’t like to use the word “husband” for either one of us because it feels too much like there should be a “wife” to go with it. (But then English is not his first language either). So I am reduced to using “spouse” to please him (which then makes it sound to other people like I am not being straightforward about the situation). Does this issue come up for you? We’re both “husbands.” “Husband” doesn’t imply “wife” any more than “man” implies “woman.” And thanks so much to all for your warm congratulations. They are much appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 7:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/26 "2015-10-07T19:24:31Z")
Congratulations 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jimbuff314](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c57346/32.png) [@jimbuff314](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jimbuff314)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/27 "2015-10-07T19:29:27Z")
Congratulations to both you and your partner, **panache45**! I wish you many more years of happiness. ---
**Author:** ![GusNSpot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gusnspot/32/436_2.png) [@GusNSpot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GusNSpot)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/28 "2015-10-07T19:38:44Z")
Ditto to all the above ---
**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/29 "2015-10-07T19:40:17Z")
Congrats, **panache45**! I’ve enjoyed reading your threads about you and your partner, and I’m happy you can finally officially celebrate your union! You sound like a wonderful couple. ---
**Author:** ![kayT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayt/32/3633_2.png) [@kayT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayT)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/30 "2015-10-07T19:40:58Z")
Good news is always welcome. And I echo: pictures?? ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/31 "2015-10-07T20:54:27Z")
You guys live next door to each other, right? Going to make any changes in your living arrangements? And of course, congratulations! ---
**Author:** ![Procrustus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/procrustus/32/2994_2.png) [@Procrustus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Procrustus)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/32 "2015-10-07T21:03:50Z")
Great news. I shall lift a glass or two in your honor this evening ---
**Author:** ![Fubaya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c2a13f/32.png) [@Fubaya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fubaya)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 11:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/33 "2015-10-07T23:09:03Z")
Congratulations! I’ve never read your relationship posts and you’ve probably covered it elsewhere, but is this something you wanted to do for a while but couldn’t? ---
**Author:** ![JRDelirious](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jrdelirious/32/9531_2.png) [@JRDelirious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JRDelirious)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 11:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/34 "2015-10-07T23:17:08Z")
Well, that’s cause for celebration,\*\* panache45\*\*! Here’s to many more good years! ---
**Author:** ![SeaDragonTattoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@SeaDragonTattoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SeaDragonTattoo)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/35 "2015-10-07T23:35:46Z")
Yay! Congrats to you, and many happily married years to come! ---
**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2015, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/36 "2015-10-07T23:43:07Z")
Cha cha cha cha cha! Conga rats!! \<3 Seriously, many blessings to you two crazy kids. I hope it lasts a gazillion years and may all of them be amazeballs. \<3 \<3 ---
**Author:** ![raventhief](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/raventhief/32/4_2.png) [@raventhief](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/raventhief)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2015, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/37 "2015-10-08T00:32:52Z")
Congrats! ---
**Author:** ![romansperson](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/romansperson/32/17100_2.png) [@romansperson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/romansperson)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2015, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/38 "2015-10-08T01:44:33Z")
Congrats! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2015, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/39 "2015-10-08T02:01:45Z")
> [@Dung\_Beetle](#): > > You guys live next door to each other, right? Going to make any changes in your living arrangements? Nah, they live in separate wings of the same house (c’mon, it sounds so much posher said that way). ---
**Author:** ![Rachellelogram](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rachellelogram/32/8689_2.png) [@Rachellelogram](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rachellelogram)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2015, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794/40 "2015-10-08T02:36:25Z")
aww :3 I got married this year too. Can’t wait to file joint taxes for the first time! 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-re-finally-got-married-on-october-1/733794.md?page=3)