# We set the date!! I'm getting married!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [August 5, 2012, 3:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525 "2012-08-05T15:35:10Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![anu-la1979](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/47e85d/32.png) [@anu-la1979](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anu-la1979)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/21 "2012-10-15T18:48:58Z")

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For those who asked, here are my wedding clothes (sangeet lehenga, pink reception saree and red wedding saree) hot off my parents’ smartphones in Mumbai as of 1 day ago. My parents landed at 12 am and coolly purchased my, my fiance’s and my sister’s wedding clothes in one 3 hour endorphin fueled shopping spree by 11 am.

[Wedding Clothes](http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/parents-bought-my-wedding-sarees?replies=10#post-4586062)

I am not the model as I am safely ensconced in the NYC area but isn’t the model stunning 🙂

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**Author:** ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/22 "2012-10-15T19:15:32Z")

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Those are gorgeous!! The first one especially, the dark red on ivory is stunning. And that model has a great sense of humor and sales, frankly - what must be done simply must be done!  
And thanks to the links at the bottom of the page I’m pretty sure the rest of my day’s productivity is shot.

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**Author:** ![Zsofia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/7bcc69/32.png) [@Zsofia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zsofia)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 7:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/23 "2012-10-15T19:29:27Z")

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SO JEALOUS. I’m unbelievably getting hitched in (urk) less than two weeks and I so wish I were wearing a sari!

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**Author:** ![janis\_and\_c0](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/janis_and_c0/32/21_2.png) [@janis\_and\_c0](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/janis_and_c0)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 7:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/24 "2012-10-15T19:35:35Z")

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Beautiful!!!

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**Author:** ![anu-la1979](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/47e85d/32.png) [@anu-la1979](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anu-la1979)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 8:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/25 "2012-10-15T20:38:21Z")

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Thanks guys! I had a moment of shock when I saw them pop up in my email this morning and it hit me that I’m getting married in a few months…in these clothes. Which apparently have been given a good breaking in by some dude in Bombay!

Overall I’d say my parents hit it out of the park for both my and my sister’s weddings. I never thought that neither one of us would get that dress shopping experience, but c’est la vie. What matters more is that I met someone amazing, of course, the lovely outfits are just gravy. 😉

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/26 "2012-10-15T22:52:32Z")

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Gorgeous! And the model has clearly set the style bar pretty high…

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**Author:** ![Antigen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/848f3c/32.png) [@Antigen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antigen)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/27 "2012-10-15T23:00:29Z")

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Hooray! I think a wedding on the first of the month has got to be good luck.

Can’t wait to see some pictures - you’re gonna knock 'em dead!

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**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2012, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/28 "2012-10-15T23:10:00Z")

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So beautiful. Man, I wish we Anglos had more colour in our weddings…

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**Author:** ![Baker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bb73d2/32.png) [@Baker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baker)\
**Post date:** [October 16, 2012, 12:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/29 "2012-10-16T00:47:44Z")

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Oh yes, I think red and gold combos are so stunning. I wonder what would happen if a Western bride wore a Western style dress that was bright red? You probably can’t even get them.

I think those saris looked stunning. I am so envious.

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**Author:** ![Avarie537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/48db29/32.png) [@Avarie537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Avarie537)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 2:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/30 "2012-10-17T02:07:06Z")

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Just Google “red wedding dress.” Times have changed!

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**Author:** ![Zsofia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/7bcc69/32.png) [@Zsofia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zsofia)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 1:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/31 "2012-10-17T13:55:39Z")

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Yeah, it’s all over Offbeat Bride - but more popular is “tea length with a pop of color” - colored sash or petticoat or whatever.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 4:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/32 "2012-10-17T16:14:02Z")

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> [@Baker](#):
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> Oh yes, I think red and gold combos are so stunning. I wonder what would happen if a Western bride wore a Western style dress that was bright red? You probably can’t even get them.
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> I think those saris looked stunning. I am so envious.

I know a seamstress who does nothing but “ceremony dresses” (mainly bridals and first communions). She’d probably be willing to make a colorful dress: I know she’s done some with a bit of color (slashed sleeves with the undercloth in blue satin, a navy-blue corset). My aunt got married in red the second time, but it was a power suit rather than a bridal.

Now all I need me is a groom… mwahahaha!  
And those are gorgeous, but I’m reasonably sure the groom prefers you to the model (nice 'stache on him, though).

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**Author:** ![Atomic\_Mama](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b5ac83/32.png) [@Atomic\_Mama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atomic_Mama)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 7:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/33 "2012-10-17T19:17:28Z")

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YAY! I’m so happy for you both 😃 I wish you all joy and a wonderful future together …

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**Author:** ![Dr.Woo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr.Woo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Woo)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/34 "2012-10-17T19:52:50Z")

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Congratulations! You are so lucky to be having an Indian wedding - the outfits are absolutely amazing. To me traditional Indian women’s clothing is the epitome of beauty. A friend of mine who lives here in California is from way up in the north of India, and she’s marrying a guy from Chennai . . . in Chennai. Her inlaws are shopping for all the stuff and sending pictures every day. So far she hasn’t had any pics of male shop owners doing the modeling though!

I wore a red and gold salwar kameez last year for Diwali and I swear that was the best I’ve EVER looked.

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/35 "2012-10-17T20:11:29Z")

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Congratulations!!!

It’d be really nice if you’d post a pic or two of the wedding to show off all the colorful outfits. If you feel like it.

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**Author:** ![anu-la1979](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/47e85d/32.png) [@anu-la1979](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anu-la1979)\
**Post date:** [October 17, 2012, 9:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/36 "2012-10-17T21:39:39Z")

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Thank you all! And **Zsofia** , congrats and good luck with the upcoming nuptials.

I’ll try to post pics from the wedding when I am back, of me wearing the outfits rather than some dude. Of course, I’m going to be in m-f-ing BHUTAN for my honeymoon so will probably not show face until well after the wedding.

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**Author:** ![anu-la1979](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/47e85d/32.png) [@anu-la1979](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anu-la1979)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2013, 3:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/37 "2013-02-23T15:32:25Z")

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[Wedding Photos](http://www.flickr.com/photos/monkeymc/sets/72157632839248570/) for those who asked.

It was super fun! But I never want to get married again.

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**Author:** ![Inter\_Alia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/258eb7/32.png) [@Inter\_Alia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inter_Alia)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2013, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/38 "2013-02-23T15:50:59Z")

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You are absolutely gorgeous!

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**Author:** ![TruCelt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/trucelt/32/523_2.png) [@TruCelt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TruCelt)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2013, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/39 "2013-02-23T15:57:08Z")

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Ooooh! Ahhh! So incredibly beautiful! The clothes, the flowers, the jewels, the bride, everything!! It’s like a dreamscape.

I wish you all the happiness in the world!

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**Author:** ![gardentraveler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gardentraveler/32/3576_2.png) [@gardentraveler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gardentraveler)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2013, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-set-the-date-im-getting-married/630525/40 "2013-02-23T16:09:06Z")

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Beautiful pictures! Congratulations and best wishes to both of you.

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