# We should have a word/term for. . .

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [January 12, 2017, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973 "2017-01-12T17:48:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2017, 4:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/21 "2017-01-14T04:05:38Z")

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> [@Jennshark](#):
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> Yeah, I always forget that I hate people 😃

But I love gatherings. Isn’t it ironic?

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**Author:** ![SigMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/13edae/32.png) [@SigMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SigMan)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2017, 10:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/22 "2017-01-14T10:11:04Z")

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Sound like “goer’s remorse” to me. 🆒

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 8:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/23 "2017-01-16T20:45:30Z")

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> [@SigMan](#):
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> Sound like “goer’s remorse” to me. 🆒

Or “ayer’s remorse” 😛

Just say nay.

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**Author:** ![OldGuy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/3bc359/32.png) [@OldGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OldGuy)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 9:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/24 "2017-01-16T21:24:10Z")

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This happens to me a lot. Though I love to be places, I hate the process of traveling. So the event sounds good; but getting there and back causes the pain.

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**Author:** ![bibliophage](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bibliophage/32/7615_2.png) [@bibliophage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bibliophage)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 10:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/25 "2017-01-16T22:42:17Z")

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> [@Les\_Espaces\_Du\_Sommeil](#):
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> Or “pregret” ?

How is clitorall poettry formed? How girl get pregret?

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**Author:** ![Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/left_hand_of_dorkness/32/7156_2.png) [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Left_Hand_of_Dorkness)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 10:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/26 "2017-01-16T22:52:20Z")

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Nostalgia is the pain of returning home. So I propose enodalgia, the pain of visiting.

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/27 "2017-01-16T23:26:46Z")

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> [@PatrickLondon](#):
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> … Is there a word for the surprised relief you might feel when such an event turns out to be actually quite good fun?

Not for the relief you feel, but the word for what turns one of these nightmares into actually quite good fun is “canceled”. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Springtime\_for\_Spacers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a3d4f5/32.png) [@Springtime\_for\_Spacers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Springtime_for_Spacers)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 11:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/28 "2017-01-16T23:33:25Z")

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> [@OldGuy](#):
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> This happens to me a lot. Though I love to be places, I hate the process of traveling. So the event sounds good; but getting there and back causes the pain.

That’s me. When I accept the invitation I’m thinking of the good parts but when it comes to the night before the sheer faff of it all overwhelms me.

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**Author:** ![Trancephalic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/trancephalic/32/380_2.png) [@Trancephalic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trancephalic)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2017, 11:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/29 "2017-01-16T23:33:47Z")

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Cold feet?

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**Author:** ![ftg](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ftg/32/2801_2.png) [@ftg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ftg)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2017, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/we-should-have-a-word-term-for/776973/30 "2017-02-11T22:24:10Z")

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My new word: Irfday. Any day of the week that’s not Friday. Rhymes with “Earth Day”.

Yesterday, Friday, I started off the day thinking it was Saturday. Over and over when working out what to do when I thought it was Saturday. E.g., “If I wait until tomorrow (Sunday) to shop there’ll be fewer people in the stores.”

This went on until sometime mid-afternoon when my efforts to persuade myself it’s not Saturday paid off.

Except it was now Thursday in my mind. Grrr.

It appears that my mind was going to think it was any day but Friday. And the ideal term for such a day dawned on me.

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