I think that the main thing to remember with weight loss is that you’re embarking on a lifestyle change. If you approach it as a “diet” or temporary thing, you’re going to be fat again, and it’ll take a shorter time than you think. I know whereof I speak. I got fat for the first time after I broke my wrists and fell into a do-nothing period that lasted a couple of years. I finally got fed up with myself and did something about it. That was a painful couple of years. After getting back into what I’d consider pretty decent shape, I had a relapse when wedding planning sucked up most of my time. I still was able to get in a couple of workouts a week, but it was sporadic. Between that, eating a bit too much because I didn’t realize I probably wasn’t active enough to burn off what I ate, and going back to a 3 meal model of eating, I gained back about 60% of what I’d lost, in only about 8 months.
I’m mostly over that, though I’m still carrying about 10% more body fat than I want to have. Just a few more kg of stupidity lard to go, and that will go quickly since I’ve finally gotten back into a good and steady routine after a few months of spotty activity. I’ll semi-quote Apollo from BSG here: “I never want that to happen again.” The way to keep it from happening is never lapsing again. Short breaks are okay, but nothing over a week or two at the most. I figured out that it has to be a permanent change, or I’ll just end up yo-yoing. And this is coming from a guy who never had to worry about weight gain before about age 25 because I was a really active kid and an athlete in high school and college.
Exercise is the key for me. I’d feel like crap if I did nothing but restrict my diet. Besides, I don’t feel healthy or “in shape” unless I can do some pretty demanding activities. That takes some work. I do some running and swimming, mixed in with strength training and short intense exercise sessions. I don’t like straight endurance training much, and I don’t like the kind of body you get if you don’t do regular strength training. Besides which, in my earlier attempt to get back in shape I found out that I didn’t make much progress in losing fat unless I was doing some kind of weight training. Apparently I need to do some heavy lifting in order to convince my body that I’m serious about getting the gut off.
I’ve been having a lot of fun with Cross Fit lately instead of regular weight workouts. I found that site after getting back into pretty decent shape again, and even so I usually can’t do the workouts completely as prescribed. I don’t feel too bad considering there are some serious athletes who haven’t been able to just jump right into their stuff. There’s another forum where people usually give scaling info for the Workout Of the Day (WOD).
I usually do one step down from the prescribed workout, though I sometimes go for a bit more if I think I can handle it. Obviously, my goal is to be able to do the WOD without scaling. I’ve made more progress with their workouts than with Max OT and other, more conventional weightlifting programs I’ve tried. I can handle a LOT more weight now than I did before, to the point where I almost have a hard time believing I can actually lift those weights after only a few months of doing this program. I’ve set new personal bests on most exercises. Plus, the workouts are more fun (for certain values of masochistic “fun”) than plain weight training.
The only diet reforms I’ve ever made are minor; my focus is on activity. I try to eat a greater number of smaller-portioned meals spaced out throughout the day (4–6 meals) rather than have 3 bigger meals. It’s the way I used to eat when I was doing swimming and springboard diving in high school, and it’s apparently how most serious athletes eat normally. The advantage is that you’re never really full or hungry, you get used to smaller portions overall which — along with the never really hungry part — helps prevent over-eating, and your blood sugar stays more stable.
I eat more protein than average, for both fat control and muscle building reasons. I try to get about a 40/40/20 split for protein/carbohydrates/fats. Overall calories the last time I checked were actually higher than what I took in when I was eating more conventionally at a higher, and fatter, body weight. Despite the high protein intake my blood-work looks better than it did a couple of years ago. The only things I got flagged for on my last physical were BMI — which is a piss-poor indicator of fitness considering that when I was in the best shape of my life and had less than 10% body fat I was over 24 on that index, pushing the boundaries of “obese” — and creatinine excretion, which has a top value of 1.0 for the Japanese population, which is what I was being compared to. With my reading of 1.2, I’d be on the high end of normal for the US. Considering that, in the absence of renal failure, creatinine levels are generally related to muscle mass, I’ll wear that 1.2 with pride.
I also started paying a bit more attention to what I ate and cut out a few non-essentials, like soft drinks, chips, other assorted junk because of that attention, while adding a bit more salad, fruits, things like nuts, yogurt, and jerky for snacks. I still drink soda and eat chips, but it’s an occasional treat now. Aside from a couple of months where I figured out what I was actually eating and then planned out what I wanted to change, I haven’t done much calorie counting. I’m thankfully not prone to eat much junk anyway, as I don’t like sweets much. Probably alcohol and cheese are my worst junk foods, and I don’t take in either of those to excess.