# Weird Poop and Violence-Related Sex Fetishes - Do People Actually Do These Things? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 24, 2015, 11:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798 "2015-01-24T23:09:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Flywheel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Flywheel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Flywheel)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 5:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/41 "2015-01-30T05:36:07Z")
> [@simster](#): > > ‘Steak and Shake’ In-N-Out Burger ---
**Author:** ![analogqueen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@analogqueen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/analogqueen)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 6:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/42 "2015-01-30T06:48:23Z")
I can attest that the poop thing is for real. I knew a VERY weird guy - he lived in one of those homeless people hotels - not sure of those still exist? They rent out tiny hotel size rooms with sink, shared bathroom down the hall, men only. Locale was San Pedro, CA. This was the mid-90s. This weird guy, he worked cleaning up some shop in town (I used to talk to the homeless around that town, some were interesting) he read a smut mag something about “Hirsute” women- yeah thats a thing too- and confided to me he wanted a woman to sh!! on his face, for sexual gratification. After that little talk I steered clear of him. He was real odd. Freud(?) said the odder the person the odder their sexual practices were, not sure if that’s exactly right but Ive met odd people with odd fantasies so there’s that. In essence yes poo stuff is a thing. I have found it MORE often in queer male society than straight tho- Uh oh is that offended person going to go off on me now? just statin’ the facts ma’am- and/or “sir” ---
**Author:** ![April\_R](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3da27b/32.png) [@April\_R](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/April_R)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2015, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/43 "2015-01-30T15:20:41Z")
> [@gigi](#): > > I’d throw in Pinkberry. Bahama Breeze ---
**Author:** ![Mama\_Zappa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/71e660/32.png) [@Mama\_Zappa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mama_Zappa)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2015, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/44 "2015-02-06T16:34:26Z")
> [@NinjaChick](#): > > About a year and a half ago or so, I read a news story about a German man who (allegedly) met another man on a cannibalism fetish website. The met face-to-face and the second man was killed, dismembered, and parts of him were eaten. > > The article took pains to point out that this case had no apparent relation to that _other_ time a German man met someone on a cannibalism fetish website, then upon their meeting killed, dismembered, and ate him. > > [News story](http://abcnews.go.com/International/cannibal-cop-allegations-rock-germany/story?id=21058055). > > So, uh, there’s that. > > ETA: There was about a decade in between the two cases. Cannibal #1 has since given up meat (of any and all sorts, presumably). I hadn’t heard about the second incident, link? Regarding the first: [we heard about that here on the Dope, years ago](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=174724) :eek:. Re the OP, I have no clue what fetishes are real and what made up out of some twisted imagination, but sadly I believe virtually anything would turn someone on. (where’s that barf smiley???). Consenting adults, no harm done, yadda yadda, I just don’t wanna think about it. ---
**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2015, 5:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/45 "2015-02-06T17:07:03Z")
Guys. It’s not about Rusty Trombone, Dirty Sanchez, The Cincinnati Bowtie. Shit-stained balls or butthole pleasures. It’s about love and finding a connection. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![BurnMeUp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@BurnMeUp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BurnMeUp)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2015, 11:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/46 "2015-02-06T23:03:57Z")
How about [The Rusty Venture](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sn4aLokf-t8)? ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2015, 12:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/47 "2015-02-07T00:44:04Z")
There are two (2) long-running S&M clubs in Bangkok: BarBar ([http://www.barbarfetishclub.com/](http://www.barbarfetishclub.com/)) and Demonia ([http://www.demoniabangkok.com/](http://www.demoniabangkok.com/)), although I am not personally acquainted with how far they go. (Really!) Plus reports are there are quite a few freelance dominatrixes plying their trade, and no doubt you can find one who will go as far as you’d like. And I think there’s at least one other S&M club in Pattaya. So yes, people really do these things. ---
**Author:** ![clairobscur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/839c29/32.png) [@clairobscur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/clairobscur)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2015, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798/48 "2015-02-07T01:22:53Z")
> [@Slow\_Moving\_Vehicle](#): > > But I guess I’m really more skeptical about the violence-related fetishes. Punching one’s partner immediately after ejaculating into her face, so the semen and blood mix together, which is how UD defines a “strawberry shortcake”, sounds like misogynistic fantasy. I can’t believe it’s actually a practice (all though I’m sure it’s happened). > . Violence fetishes, misogynistic fetishes are a thing. There are women who fantasize about being battered, or degraded to an extreme point. I don’t know how many people actually act on these fantasies, but I would bet good money that some do. I don’t know if punching the face after ejaculation happens, but I can attest that slapping after ejaculation does. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-poop-and-violence-related-sex-fetishes-do-people-actually-do-these-things/710798.md?page=2)