# Weird turn ons, fetishes, and sexual activities (TMI) **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [October 14, 2009, 12:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773 "2009-10-14T12:23:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 8
**Author:** ![Blackberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecd19e/32.png) [@Blackberry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackberry)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2013, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/142 "2013-04-05T13:50:46Z")
> [@Qin\_Shi\_Huangdi](#): > > -Girls sleeping (or at least with their heads down on their desk) I like dudes sleeping. Not with their heads down on their desk though because I’m a grown up. I don’t get how peeing is sexual but I did try to watch my bf the other day but that’s just because he said he was going to pee off my balcony and I was like okay I gotta see this. Then he was like, “I don’t really want an audience”, acting like \*I \*was the one being weird. Um okay, that’s perfectly reasonable to say under most circumstances but when you’re peeing off someone’s balcony is not one of them. (It was like 4am btw, there weren’t people around or anything.) ---
**Author:** ![Little\_Bird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Little\_Bird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Bird)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2013, 3:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/143 "2013-04-05T15:07:58Z")
Rape. Not violent rape, just coercive, non-consensual sex. Like an innocent teen girl is making out with her jock boyfriend. He moves down to touch her breasts, she bats his hand away and says no and he keeps going. He never hits her or yells at her or anything, but he is clearly dominating her and forcing himself on her. Soooo hot OMG. I’ve been having these types of fantasies since I was a little girl, like before I even knew what sex really was. Also, dudes with scratchy throats. I’ll be listening to a podcast and the normally smooth-voiced host will have a sore throat and suddenly I’m paying **way** better attention. ---
**Author:** ![ralph124c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8797f3/32.png) [@ralph124c](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ralph124c)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2013, 6:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/144 "2013-04-05T18:10:29Z")
I get turned on by wealthy women, whose fathers own companies. ---
**Author:** ![Raguleader](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/258eb7/32.png) [@Raguleader](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Raguleader)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2013, 8:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/145 "2013-04-06T08:44:27Z")
**Little Bird** : So on the gravely voice front, Batman is your favorite superhero? ---
**Author:** ![cougar58](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@cougar58](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cougar58)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/146 "2013-04-07T02:32:24Z")
I was 16 and a virgin , as was the white haired pretty girl next door. Summer night, I’m sitting in my parent lawn furniture, enjoying the stars (honest). I noticed from from my peripheral vision, her legs flailing above the sofa. Curiosity got the best of me, so I walked up to our picket fence which was about 7 feet from her window. Her bf was sitting in the middle of the sofa, and she was laying face up with her head on a pillow and her torso on his lap. He was performing oral sex on her. It was the biggest rush I ever felt. They didn’t go all the way. Ever since, I’ve been drawn to that, but within the law. I would never walk up to someone’s window, but since I travel a lot, I always pack a camera with zoom, and request rooms in high rise hotels that face high rise condos or apartments or other hotel. I have never captured what few instances I have seen - I just zoom in and watch. If you’ve ever seen the great movie “Rear Window” with Jimmy Stewart and Grace Kelly, \<---- this. The best was watching some girl making out hot and heavy on a sofa on 26th floor, then seeing her roll off the sofa and somehow landing on the floor, yet she was still on top, even thou I was sure she rolled 180 not 360. The she rolled another 180, and I realized it was another girl. Not sure where the law is on this, as long as you’re in your own hotel room. Another time I was in an L shaped Chicago hotel, that had an outside dining area. This stunning girl was with another couple, but in different rooms. She was on the second floor, with the outside dining in clear view of her room. She completely disrobed and showered and walked right by her window. Hell, there were cameras flashing not only from the dining area but also from the hotel across the street. She 100% had to have known. Very unforgettable event. ---
**Author:** ![cougar58](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@cougar58](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cougar58)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/147 "2013-04-07T02:38:57Z")
> [@Little\_Bird](#): > > Rape. Not violent rape, just coercive, non-consensual sex. Like an innocent teen girl is making out with her jock boyfriend. He moves down to touch her breasts, she bats his hand away and says no and he keeps going. He never hits her or yells at her or anything, but he is clearly dominating her and forcing himself on her. Soooo hot OMG. I’ve been having these types of fantasies since I was a little girl, like before I even knew what sex really was. > > Also, dudes with scratchy throats. I’ll be listening to a podcast and the normally smooth-voiced host will have a sore throat and suddenly I’m paying **way** better attention. Get the DVD “straw dogs”. Get both the original and the remake. ---
**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/148 "2013-04-07T04:25:27Z")
After I have read Yama by Alexander Kuprin as a teenager, I am very much interested in seeing pictures of women in their underware – I have a collection of Victorias Secret magazines. ---
**Author:** ![Rick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/9f8e36/32.png) [@Rick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rick)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 6:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/149 "2013-04-07T06:07:34Z")
> [@Little\_Bird](#): > > Rape. Not violent rape, just coercive, non-consensual sex. Like an innocent teen girl is making out with her jock boyfriend. He moves down to touch her breasts, she bats his hand away and says no and he keeps going. He never hits her or yells at her or anything, but he is clearly dominating her and forcing himself on her. Soooo hot OMG. I’ve been having these types of fantasies since I was a little girl, like before I even knew what sex really was. I have met several ladies who where turned on by this. Very confusing when you are 17 and trying A) To be a gentleman and B) get laid. ---
**Author:** ![Snowboarder\_Bo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/snowboarder_bo/32/229_2.png) [@Snowboarder\_Bo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snowboarder_Bo)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 6:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/150 "2013-04-07T06:18:57Z")
> [@Rick](#): > > > [@Little\_Bird](#): > > > > Rape. Not violent rape, just coercive, non-consensual sex. Like an innocent teen girl is making out with her jock boyfriend. He moves down to touch her breasts, she bats his hand away and says no and he keeps going. He never hits her or yells at her or anything, but he is clearly dominating her and forcing himself on her. Soooo hot OMG. I’ve been having these types of fantasies since I was a little girl, like before I even knew what sex really was. > > > > Also, dudes with scratchy throats. I’ll be listening to a podcast and the normally smooth-voiced host will have a sore throat and suddenly I’m paying **way** better attention. > > I have met several ladies who where turned on by this. > Very confusing when you are 17 and trying > A) To be a gentleman > and > B) get laid. [Louis CK does a terrific bit about this](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU). I knew a lady who was like this, and I felt the exact same way as he did. ---
**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 7:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/151 "2013-04-07T07:00:18Z")
Can you sum up the CK bit for those of us who aren’t internet-video capable (very slow satellite internet on a boat)? I think it would be VERY odd to play out a rape fetish in real life but I do kind of like seeing it in porn (as long as I mentally know it’s not actually happening). ---
**Author:** ![Tangent](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tangent/32/3098_2.png) [@Tangent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tangent)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 8:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/152 "2013-04-07T08:06:57Z")
> [@CCitizen](#): > > I am very much interested in seeing pictures of women in their underware – I have a collection of Victorias Secret magazines. Freak! ---
**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/153 "2013-04-07T17:34:58Z")
> [@Tangent](#): > > Freak! Yama (1908) by Alexander Kuprin is an “abolitionist” novel about evils of prostitution. It is set in Kiev 1905. As a teenager reading the story I got fascinated only by the actual work. At that time it was considered very inappropriate for a lady to be seen naked thus they kept an undersirt and petticoat on. For some reason after reading this story I have been collecting Victoria’s Secret madazines. ---
**Author:** ![CCitizen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4af34b/32.png) [@CCitizen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CCitizen)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 5:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/154 "2013-04-07T17:48:28Z")
62,000 page views so fast per 151 posts – thus the subject is very interesting. ---
**Author:** ![voltaire](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/voltaire/32/313_2.png) [@voltaire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/voltaire)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 6:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/155 "2013-04-07T18:53:17Z")
**From 10/14/2009:** > [@KneadToKnow](#): > > Guys who enjoy having stuff inserted into their urethra. An ex-girlfriend had the tools (steel rods of increasing diameter from “that looks uncomfortable” to “that looks like a socket wrench”) and showed them to me. > > No. F&cking. Way. > > > [@Sebastienne](#): > > > > Sounding. I’m on my second set. **From 01/21/2010:** > [@Broomstick](#): > > That sounds like it would be a really interesting “Ask the …” thread. Except for the NSFW and/or TMI potential… **From 09/20/2011:** > [@Broomstick](#): > > Well, there’s something begging for an “Ask the X” thread that will also give the moderators willies… I bet if you had asked again in 2012, you’d have gotten your wish by now! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Beastly\_Rotter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/45deac/32.png) [@Beastly\_Rotter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beastly_Rotter)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2013, 8:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/156 "2013-04-07T20:13:02Z")
> [@tdn](#): > > Take a closer look at pee porn sometime. You’ll notice that in almost every case, the “bottom” is enjoying it far more than the “top” is. I don’t thing it’s really considered to be degrading at all. Personally, I consider it a gift. And it’s handy on long bus trips. ---
**Author:** ![urban1a](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/e47c2d/32.png) [@urban1a](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/urban1a)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2013, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/157 "2013-04-08T02:21:01Z")
> [@KneadToKnow](#): > > Guys who enjoy having stuff inserted into their urethra. An ex-girlfriend had the tools (steel rods of increasing diameter from “that looks uncomfortable” to “that looks like a socket wrench”) and showed them to me. > > No. F&cking. Way. They are called sounds, in case you were wondering. Bob ---
**Author:** ![KneadToKnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kneadtoknow/32/3999_2.png) [@KneadToKnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KneadToKnow)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2013, 2:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/158 "2013-04-08T02:33:46Z")
> [@urban1a](#): > > They are called sounds, in case you were wondering. > > Bob Yes. I’ve known since 10/14/2009 (post 11). 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Jragon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e19b73/32.png) [@Jragon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jragon)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2013, 8:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/159 "2013-04-08T08:07:29Z")
> [@drewtwo99](#): > > Can you sum up the CK bit for those of us who aren’t internet-video capable (very slow satellite internet on a boat)? > > I think it would be VERY odd to play out a rape fetish in real life but I do kind of like seeing it in porn (as long as I mentally know it’s not actually happening). He was making out with a waitress from an event he attended in his room. He touched her boob and she slapped his hand away. They kept making out. He touched her butt, and she slapped him away again. Eventually they stop making out and she goes home. The next day they bump into each other and she’s like “what happened, why didn’t we have sex?” He replied “because you didn’t want to.” She explains that she was really into it, and he questions why she kept stopping him from touching her. She said that she really liked it when guys just “went for it” and took her by force. He asked why she didn’t just tell him that and he would have, and she said something to the effect of it “not being the same” if it doesn’t happen naturally. The rest of the bit is him more or less saying to the audience “really? So I should just rape girls on the off chance that it’s their fetish and they super double secretly want to have sex with me?” ---
**Author:** ![Leo\_Bloom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leo_bloom/32/10377_2.png) [@Leo\_Bloom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leo_Bloom)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 2:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/160 "2013-04-14T02:11:46Z")
> [@YogSosoth](#): > > … > I had the fortune of having all of these things in my ex. Too bad she was crazy. It’s always the way. Why that? The humor of the Gods? ---
**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2013, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773/161 "2013-04-14T03:11:06Z")
> [@KneadToKnow](#): > > Guys who enjoy having stuff inserted into their urethra. An ex-girlfriend had the tools (steel rods of increasing diameter from “that looks uncomfortable” to “that looks like a socket wrench”) and showed them to me. > > No. F&cking. Way. I hope she also has an autoclave to sterilize them, to avoid infection. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773.md?page=7) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/weird-turn-ons-fetishes-and-sexual-activities-tmi/513773.md?page=9)