# Well, there goes another birthday

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [December 23, 2004, 8:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309 "2004-12-23T08:27:23Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 14\
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**Author:** ![Hunter\_Hawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/50afbb/32.png) [@Hunter\_Hawk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hunter_Hawk)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 8:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/1 "2004-12-23T08:27:23Z")

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I’m now 35.

And, as usual, everybody I know is either gone on vacation, doing last-minute work before the end-of-year deadline hits, or in the midst of Christmas preparations. So, as usual, I get to celebrate my birthday by myself. (Not that I’m bitter or anything, noooo…)

It’s a dratted inconvenient time to be born, sez I.

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**Author:** ![lynxie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e99b99/32.png) [@lynxie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lynxie)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 9:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/2 "2004-12-23T09:09:08Z")

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My son’s birthday was yesterday as well. Mine was on the 7th. I really do feel your pain.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! 😃

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**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/3 "2004-12-23T12:35:04Z")

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Happy Birthday!

So I guess a sob story about how people double up on gifts (but are usually ready to celebrate) for a 12/31 birthday wouldn’t fly?

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**Author:** ![LifeOnWry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/96bed5/32.png) [@LifeOnWry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LifeOnWry)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 2:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/4 "2004-12-23T14:41:07Z")

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> [@twickster](#):
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> Happy Birthday!
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> So I guess a sob story about how people double up on gifts (but are usually ready to celebrate) for a 12/31 birthday wouldn’t fly?

My mother cured relatives of this tendency when I was five years old. One April, she handed my cousin Joey a birthday gift and sweetly said, “That’s your Christmas present, too.” When my aunt asked her why, my mom feigned complete innocence and said, “Well, that’s how LifeOnWry and LilSis (born Jan. 11)get their birthday presents.”

Happy birthday week to ALL of us late December babies!

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**Author:** ![Draelin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ce73a5/32.png) [@Draelin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Draelin)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/5 "2004-12-23T16:23:38Z")

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_insert more bitching about being born on Christmas Eve here_

Happy Birthday, everyone! 🙂

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**Author:** ![taxi78cab](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e47c2d/32.png) [@taxi78cab](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/taxi78cab)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 4:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/6 "2004-12-23T16:32:59Z")

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This was the first time a) I had to work on my birthday (turned 26) and b) didn’t get to celebrate with parents, boyfriend or close friends. ☹

It’s good to know that everyone feels the same way. Happy birthday to all.

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**Author:** ![Snickers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/5daacb/32.png) [@Snickers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snickers)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 4:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/7 "2004-12-23T16:35:31Z")

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My brother’s birthday is Christmas Day, my Mom’s is New Year’s Eve. I know whereof you speak, and I commiserate with you all.

We’re throwing Bryan a birthday party this year for his 34th. Party hats, presents, lasagna, pizza, balloons, the whole schmear. We’ll do Christmas another time.

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**Author:** ![nivlac](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3bc359/32.png) [@nivlac](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nivlac)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/8 "2004-12-23T19:39:30Z")

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Another December birthday here. Birthdays used to be a bigger deal, but now it’s just another day. Always nice when someone remembers, just a “Hey, happy birthday” would be appreciated. No cards, no gifts necessary. But even getting a simple “happy birthday” has been getting rarer and rarer. So it’s hard to be disappointed anymore since my expectations are so low now.

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**Author:** ![Daithi\_Lacha](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/daithi_lacha/32/5430_2.png) [@Daithi\_Lacha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daithi_Lacha)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/9 "2004-12-23T20:59:54Z")

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> [@nivlac](#):
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> So it’s hard to be disappointed anymore since my expectations are so low now.

Or as Matt Groening put it:  
If you keep your expectations tiny,  
You’ll go through life without being so whiny

Being December 27th, myself, I prefer to rage, scowl and mope when no-one wishes me well on my birthday!

I’m a joy to live with…

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**Author:** ![scout1222](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/34f0e0/32.png) [@scout1222](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scout1222)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 9:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/10 "2004-12-23T21:13:55Z")

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Mine was yesterday. I took the day off so I wouldn’t have to work. Trouble is, no one else had the day off. Oh well, I took myself to Oceans Twelve. Which, in retrospect is probably the worst gift I’ll get for my birthday. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![PigBoy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/97f17d/32.png) [@PigBoy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PigBoy)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/11 "2004-12-23T21:22:12Z")

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I celebrated my birthday today by shoveling a crapload of snow… not just from the driveway but from the street so that my dad could get his car off it.

At least I don’t get cheated with the whole combined birthday/Christmas gifts thing.

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**Author:** ![umop\_ap\_sdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/dbc845/32.png) [@umop\_ap\_sdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/umop_ap_sdn)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 10:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/12 "2004-12-23T22:33:07Z")

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to all our December Dopers! 🙂

I’ve added those of you who were not already on the list, except **nivlac** because the list is organized by date and you didn’t say what day of the month you are.

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**Author:** ![LavenderBlue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e95f7d/32.png) [@LavenderBlue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LavenderBlue)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 10:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/13 "2004-12-23T22:41:03Z")

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My daughter’s 2nd birthday is the day after Christmas. One day I hope she’ll forgive me. So far we’re celebrating her half birthday in June.

I swear I thought I wasn’t ovulating that March evening. 😉 But it’s sorta her fault because she was two weeks late.

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**Author:** ![whiterabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/cab0a1/32.png) [@whiterabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/whiterabbit)\
**Post date:** [December 23, 2004, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/well-there-goes-another-birthday/281309/14 "2004-12-23T23:00:54Z")

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My sweetie’s birthday was the 12th. I made a reasonably big fuss over him, and will again for a late Christmas when he gets home from visiting his parents next week. (Arrrrgh…not that it’s bad that he’s seeing them, it’s just that I miss him!)

Also, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
