# What are the chances I got this woman pregnant? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [September 14, 2015, 10:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277 "2015-09-14T22:11:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Stoneburg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/df705f/32.png) [@Stoneburg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stoneburg)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 11:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/41 "2015-09-15T11:41:42Z")
> [@Chevelle2](#): > > I do have mild depression and anxiety and am on meds for it. > > Regarding the rest, how can you say there is nothing to worry about? Looking at it from the outside it’s incredibly easy to see that there is noting real here to worry about. It’s a woman well past the fertility prime **who has had her tubes tied** who had sex once with someone who pulled out. You **pulled out** of a woman who is for all intents and purposes **sterile**. Your worry is not based on reality at all, which is why I’m trying to explain to you that this is completely a production of your anxious mind. Since you’re already in contact with health care I think it would be a good idea to contact your therapist. The “problem” here isn’t the situation itself, it’s your unhealthy reaction to it. If you’re having trouble letting go of this event and relaxing, reach out for someone professional or a good friend that can help you calm down. Posting about it here is pretty ill advised. People here are not health care professionals, and if they are they won’t try to treat you via an online forum. You’re more likely to get shit stirrers or people attacking you rather than actual help here. Get in touch with a real life person or just realize that there is nothing to worry about and do something relaxing. ---
**Author:** ![don\_t\_ask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e68b1a/32.png) [@don\_t\_ask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/don_t_ask)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 11:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/42 "2015-09-15T11:58:35Z")
I doubt that she is pregnant and the only advice I can offer is, “start wearing a condom.” I mean right now not at some time in the future when you think you’ll need one. If you had used this approach before meeting your inamorata you wouldn’t have this problem. Perhaps think about wearing two condoms. ---
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 12:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/43 "2015-09-15T12:04:15Z")
> [@nearwildheaven](#): > > Does anyone else think our resident troll has returned? “Returned” implies a departure. ---
**Author:** ![Chevelle2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Chevelle2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chevelle2)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/44 "2015-09-15T14:04:05Z")
Thanks for all the replies. I am scheduling an STD test today. Still really nervous I’m going to get a text that says “I’m late” or something. ---
**Author:** ![Chevelle2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Chevelle2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chevelle2)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/45 "2015-09-15T14:08:01Z")
I just want to know how many weeks after the deed can I breathe easy - 4? ---
**Author:** ![simster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/simster/32/1047_2.png) [@simster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/simster)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/46 "2015-09-15T14:08:41Z")
> [@Chevelle2](#): > > I just want to know how many weeks after the deed can I breathe easy - 4? 36 ---
**Author:** ![Find\_Friends](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/c37758/32.png) [@Find\_Friends](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Find_Friends)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/47 "2015-09-15T14:10:56Z")
> [@Stoneburg](#): > > Looking at it from the outside it’s incredibly easy to see that there is noting real here to worry about. > > … Posting about it here is pretty ill advised. People here are not health care professionals, and if they are they won’t try to treat you via an online forum. You’re more likely to get shit stirrers or people attacking you rather than actual help here. Get in touch with a real life person or just realize that there is nothing to worry about and do something relaxing. THIS! ---
**Author:** ![Chevelle2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Chevelle2](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chevelle2)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/48 "2015-09-15T14:11:17Z")
> [@Gotlift](#): > > Holy shit! You sound just like me… when I was 16! > > **I’m going to stir the pot and say that I think you’re fucked and she is definitely pregnant.** Even if you didn’t get her pregnant she is probably hooking up with total strangers and trying to get pregnant to hook them and now that she knows that you’re scared shitless she knows she has an easy mark! You can only breathe easy if the baby comes out black, assuming you are white and, of course, assuming this story is true. Why, or are you just giving me a hard time? ---
**Author:** ![Just\_One\_Monkey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/22d042/32.png) [@Just\_One\_Monkey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Just_One_Monkey)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/49 "2015-09-15T14:19:14Z")
> [@Eliahna](#): > > If you showed this level of obsession over her potential fertility before you did the deed, there would be a 100% chance you’d have nothing to worry about now. Keep that in mind for future partners. This x 1,000,000 It seems odd to be so concerned about it **now** , yet not have been concerned enough about it **then** to simply put on a condom. ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2015, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277/50 "2015-09-15T14:22:45Z")
> [@nearwildheaven](#): > > Does anyone else think our resident troll has returned? Accusations of trolling are not permitted outside of the Pit. Don’t do this again. That being said, the OP’s question has been answered many times over. Thread closed. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-chances-i-got-this-woman-pregnant/731277.md?page=2)