The monthly charge is $12.50, and my monthly payment is $500 - $600. Seems low to me considered the INTEREST alone on my Student Loan is racking up over $2.00 a day!!!
Been there, done that. I’ve tried everything and the end result is I cannot give them enough to substantially pay off anything other than the interest on my loan, which makes me sick every time I pay - it feels like throwing money away
I didn’t use the “b” word, but I did negotiate for lower interest rates. No one comes even close to 5%
I’m not sure about this. I’ve been making myself sick negotiating with these people, and I get no where. My biggest fear is that 5 years down the road, I’ll barely have touched the student loan principle and STILL be stuck
Discipline is precisely what I’m lacking. As it is, I make the minimum payments on all my debts and it amounts to nothing. Everytime I pay a bill I feel sick. I know this sounds like crying for mommy, but I really just want someone to go to the companies for me and say, “Look, she fucked up, and now you have to take this reduced interest payback - NO NEGOTIATIONS.” I’m just tired of dealing with it. I’m ready to take the ding in my credit rating for the peace of mind of knowing that in 5 years, this debt will be gone, and that I only have to write one damn cheque a month. No more calls from Mastercard, politely wondering why I’m late again!
I can see myself starting on a downward spiral, and if I don’t do something, my credit will just go to crap anyway. At least this way, I’m still paying back my debts and actually seeing my principle go down.
Listen - before you sign on the dotted line, at least TALK to a bank or two.
Go to the bank you bank with. Arrange a meeting with a banker. Talk turkey.
Will they give you the loan for sure? I dunno. Is it worth your time to try? You bet - a bank loan that’s been paid faithfully is actually GOOD for your credit rating, as opposed to having your credit in the toilet for X number of years.
FWIW, even after the 2 years is up, crap will still show up on your report. Getting it removed is really difficult (the credit reporting companies seem to do their own thing, most of the time) and you can be denied credit for things like a house, a car, etc, etc. based on old, crap information.
It’s true. No one needs a consolidation program. Look at it this way… you can’t pay what you thought you could; your financial situation is different now than you thought it would be years ago. Bummer.
What you need to do is tell your creditors how much you can pay, not negotiate with them until they’re satisfied. Your credit rating may or may not take a hit, depending on how you make arrangements with them, but I think your problem is you’re trying to come up with money that just isn’t there. I fell into that trap. I told the people I owed money to that I didn’t have it, their response was “come up with it.” So I said okay. Again and again. Sometimes they’d waive a fee or two, or offer me 15% APR instead of 20.
You’re under the obligation to pay them, yes, but you need to sit down and say “look, bottom line, this is how much I can afford, period. If we can work out an arrangement with that, then great. If not, then bankruptcy is an option I have to consider.”
It’s a good idea to try talking to a banker about your options. Even if they can’t give you a loan, they might be able to give you advice about how to handle your situation or how to deal with your finances in the future. OPD sounds like it might be a reasonable alternative, but I’m sure there will be less impact to your credit rating if you can arrange something through a bank.
It’s overwhelming, I know, to be in your situation. I was in a similar situation 12-15 years ago. It took a while to get everything paid off, but I learned to be much more disciplined about everything and I’ve gotten to the point where I have virtually no debt (mortgage on my house and a very small car loan).
While you’re working through this, you might want to consider looking at some personal finance books (browse intensively at a bookstore or borrow from a library). There are several that are written by people who started out in your situation and worked their way out of it.