# What are the Top 5 things you'd like to do before you die?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [September 17, 2005, 8:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096 "2005-09-17T08:24:11Z")
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### Author: ![Antigen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/848f3c/32.png) [@Antigen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antigen)
#### Post date: [September 17, 2005, 8:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/21 "2005-09-17T20:59:58Z")

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No particular order, but I need to:

1. Visit the Arctic.

2. Raise some kids well and see them succeed.

3. Get something published.

4. Have a home where I can build an awesome library with floor-to-ceiling shelves and one of those rolling ladders.

5. Go to a really, really fancy party, the kind with tuxes and ballgowns. Just once. My prom sucked, and I need to do the girly princess thing properly at least once.

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### Author: ![Campion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4491bb/32.png) [@Campion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Campion)
#### Post date: [September 17, 2005, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/22 "2005-09-17T21:10:45Z")

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> [@Johnny L.A.](#):
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> Easy-peasy! ‘You bring milk and I’ll bring flour / And we’ll have pudding in half an hour!’ A cup of milk, a cup of flour, two eggs, half a teaspoon of salt, and some drippings from your roast. Mix everything together except the drippings. Put some drippings into a tin, pour in the batter, and cook at 425°F for 20-30 minutes (until nice and brown – but don’t peek a lot). Serve immediately, because they’ll start to deflate.

Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. Mom’s Yorkshire puddings are incredible – she makes individual ones, and when done, they’re crispy/crusty outside, and melt-in-your mouth goodness inside, with a couple big air pockets. When I’ve made them (with mom supervising my every move!!), they’ve come out chewy. I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong, nor can mom.

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### Author: ![Misnomer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/misnomer/32/14897_2.png) [@Misnomer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Misnomer)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/23 "2005-09-18T01:07:41Z")

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> [@Johnny L.A.](#):
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> You go, girl! 🙂

Well, the corollary to that goal is winning the lottery – or robbing a bank, depending on my mood that day. 😉 Neither are likely to happen any time soon (I don’t play the lottery, and I haven’t seen the inside of a bank in at least 5 years), but I will never not want to learn how to fly. I might go back to wanting to fly small planes, which is how I started (I got the bug after a friend took me up while practicing for his instructor license), but I have wanted to fly for the last 9 years and I will continue to want to fly. Always. 🙂

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### Author: ![sunstone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunstone/32/3372_2.png) [@sunstone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sunstone)
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1. See my grandkids graduate from college.
2. Have a love relationship until I croak.
3. Sail for months on a small boat in the Carribean.
4. Learn Spanish.
5. Do the waltz in Vienna.

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### Author: ![gfloyd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/d2c977/32.png) [@gfloyd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gfloyd)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/25 "2005-09-18T02:13:45Z")

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1. Get my PhD and find a decent job that will support my hypothetical family
2. Marry my boyfriend
3. Travel in Europe
4. Finish my book (one of them) and maybe get it published
5. See all of my close friends work out their lives and be happy, and hopefully close by

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### Author: ![Antigen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/848f3c/32.png) [@Antigen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antigen)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/26 "2005-09-18T02:48:05Z")

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> [@Campion](#):
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> 1. Learn to fly. (Vehicle optional.)

There’s a knack to it. You have to learn to throw yourself at the ground and miss. 😃

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### Author: ![picunurse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@picunurse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picunurse)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 3:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/27 "2005-09-18T03:06:08Z")

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> [@BobLibDem](#):
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> \<snip\>3- Pay off every last debt
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> \<snip\>

In the world? :eek: I’ll happily send you mine 🙂

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### Author: ![picunurse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7bcc69/32.png) [@picunurse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/picunurse)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/28 "2005-09-18T03:27:26Z")

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Hum… remember, I’m old, so I’ve already done alota stuff…

1. Visit Europe…done
2. Visit South America…done
3. Be famous if only for 15 minutes…done
4. Find my soulmate, and marry him…done
5. Sell my glass for what I think its worth.

I’m pretty at peace with my life.  
I’ve traveled more than most other poor country gals.  
My face has been seen in millions of living rooms daily for over a year.  
I’ve been an expert in my chosen field, if only on local levels.  
I have worked with, and had the respect of, world renowned doctors in multiple fields, even a Nobel Laurate.  
I’ve been a mother.  
I’ve loved and been loved, and am loved.  
I’m comfortable in my skin.  
I can be alone comfortably.  
I have books.  
I have cats.  
I have a library ladder.  
I have a sense of humor.  
🆒

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### Author: ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/29 "2005-09-18T03:40:05Z")

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> [@Antigen](#):
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> 1. Visit the Arctic…

I wanna dip in the Arctic Ocean.You wanna visit the Arctic.

\*\*Road Trip !!! \*\*.

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### Author: ![ccwaterback](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/df705f/32.png) [@ccwaterback](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ccwaterback)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/30 "2005-09-18T04:01:56Z")

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Work my way out of poverty: Check.

Take a few years off in my early 40s to just kick back and take it all in: Check.

Feel a need to go back to work again and be productive: Check.

Live comfortably with very few requirements to sustain my happiness: In progress.

Avoid major health problems until the day I die: TBD.

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### Author: ![psycat90](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@psycat90](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/psycat90)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 4:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/31 "2005-09-18T04:06:06Z")

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1. Watch my children grow into happy and succesful men, and create families of their own.

2. Sail around the world with my husband.

3. Skydive.

4. Take a ride in a hot air balloon.

5. RV around America/North America with the hubby.

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#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 5:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/32 "2005-09-18T05:31:13Z")

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[ol]  
[li]See my children established in their careers.[/li][li]Hold my grandchildren.[/li][li]See a game in every MLB park.[/li][li]Watch my team win the World Series.[/li][li]Catch the big one (fish, that is).[/li][/ol]

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### Author: ![Mississippienne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d2c977/32.png) [@Mississippienne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mississippienne)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 6:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/33 "2005-09-18T06:39:53Z")

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I couldn’t cut it down to just five, sorry.

1. See India and Turkey. I have to make it to Istanbul, just _once_. I want to see the whirling dervishes.

2. Go on an archaeological dig.

3. Have a child, and be a good mother.

4. See a launch from Cape Canaveral.

5. Swim in the Pacific Ocean. I’ve already swam in the Atlantic and the Gulf of Mexico (when a hurricane was blowing in!)

6. Celebrate New Years in Times Square. Hopefully, I’ll get to do this one this year!

7. Go on tour with my friend Sarah’s band, even as a roadie.

8. Live with the Rainbow Children for awhile, not forever, just a few weeks.

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### Author: ![LavenderBlue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e95f7d/32.png) [@LavenderBlue](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LavenderBlue)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 7:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/34 "2005-09-18T07:49:05Z")

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1. Have another child.

2. Get a novel or non-fiction book published.

3. Travel the world.

4. Lose thirty pounds.

5. Get elected to public office.

All rather mundane ambitions but still rather worthwhile IMO.

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### Author: ![cornflakes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9d8465/32.png) [@cornflakes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cornflakes)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 4:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/35 "2005-09-18T16:48:24Z")

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[ul][li]Through hike the Pacific Crest Trail.[/li][li]Visit Egypt, Europe, Australia and Angkor Wat.[/li][li]Stay married. We can work out the details about staying happy as we go.[/li][li]Share at least one of my wife’s top 5.[/li]Start some sort of a business that lets me work with my children (maybe doing remodeling–it was good enough for my dad and me.)[/ul]

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### Author: ![wonder9](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c57346/32.png) [@wonder9](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonder9)
#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 6:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/36 "2005-09-18T18:21:09Z")

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Well this thread clears something up for me, anyway. I post infrequently because I appreciate the incredible writing you folks do here. Now I know that evidently a fair number of dopers are literary types, published or unpublished. Probably doesn’t mean I’ll feel any more comfortable offering my meager thoughts on any topics but it’s nice to know I’m legitimately out of my league.

Top 5

1. See the Northern Lights ( I have GOT to get out of North Carolina…)
2. See my sons out of college, on their own, with good jobs and someone to love.
3. Make a difference in science education in this country.
4. Hear back from at least one former student that I changed his/her life.
5. Travel to Japan, Singapore, Shanghai, etc.

I figure I have the best chance with the second item on my list, and really, I’d be happy with that.

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### Author: ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)
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> [@lavenderlemon](#):
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> 1. Have another child.

Can I watch? 🙂

( See my post )

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#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/38 "2005-09-18T22:27:21Z")

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> [@Cartooniverse](#):
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> Can I watch? 🙂
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> ( See my post )

😛

I’m not pregnant again (yet!) but would you really want to see a groaning, shrieking, overweight, exhausted member of the female sex push a swollen, mucus covered, half finished, wailing, incontinent human being out of body parts you have previously thought of as a playground?

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#### Post date: [September 18, 2005, 10:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/39 "2005-09-18T22:30:33Z")

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1. To stop being such a coward and finally tell her I love her.
2. To go to the premiere of a movie I wrote the screenplay for.
3. To visit every country.
4. To stand up for someone that needs it.
5. To eat one of those really big steak that steakhouses offer for free if you can eat them.

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### Author: ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)
#### Post date: [September 19, 2005, 2:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-are-the-top-5-things-youd-like-to-do-before-you-die/322096/40 "2005-09-19T02:42:23Z")

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> [@lavenderlemon](#):
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> 😛
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> I’m not pregnant again (yet!) but would you really want to see a groaning, shrieking, overweight, exhausted member of the female sex push a swollen, mucus covered, half finished, wailing, incontinent human being out of body parts you have previously thought of as a playground?

Yes. But to delve into it would be a serious hijack, moreso than this is already. However, the answer is yes. 🙂

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