# What can I do about NOT being attracted to this guy?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-can-i-do-about-not-being-attracted-to-this-guy/209319>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [October 24, 2003, 2:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-can-i-do-about-not-being-attracted-to-this-guy/209319 "2003-10-24T14:02:54Z")\
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**Author:** ![turner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/22d042/32.png) [@turner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/turner)\
**Post date:** [November 11, 2003, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-can-i-do-about-not-being-attracted-to-this-guy/209319/41 "2003-11-11T22:24:38Z")

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OK, didn’t take time to read the whole thread, but has anyone commented about the line in the OP that goes, “I don’t get the instant crush/hit by lightning feeling I met when I first met my EX, but I’m told that’s all right.”

Maybe you shouldn’t be looking for a jolt but a slow burn.

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