# What do you call the different genders?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 14, 2008, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529 "2008-09-14T03:31:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![SSG\_Schwartz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SSG\_Schwartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SSG_Schwartz)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 3:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/1 "2008-09-14T03:31:08Z")

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For me females are always chicks until I have a name.

Males are always dudes.

So, what do you have: guys, men, girls, ma’am’s, blokes?

SSG Schwartz

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**Author:** ![Oredigger77](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/oredigger77/32/3181_2.png) [@Oredigger77](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Oredigger77)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/2 "2008-09-14T03:50:27Z")

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I also use dude for guys but for women it depends if I’m talking about them its chicks if I’m talking to them its babe. Not sure how I developed the habit but if I don’t know a girls name I use babe.

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**Author:** ![Ephemera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8baadc/32.png) [@Ephemera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ephemera)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/3 "2008-09-14T03:59:27Z")

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Men or guys, and women or girls.

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**Author:** ![AHunter3](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ahunter3/32/368_2.png) [@AHunter3](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AHunter3)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 4:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/4 "2008-09-14T04:00:46Z")

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Depends on context I guess…

girls & guys, informally;

women & hmm oddly enough I don’t refer to males in the plural/collective in a formal context, I guess I just avoid it. Somehow “men” always seems silly. I can’t use the term without rolling my eyes at least internally…

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**Author:** ![bbs2k](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e495f1/32.png) [@bbs2k](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bbs2k)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 4:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/5 "2008-09-14T04:04:42Z")

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Guys = “Man”, as in “Hey man, how’s it going?”

Girls = “Lady”, as in “Hey there lady.”  
Also, I have the annoying habit of nicknaming everyone with shorter versions of their name. For example I’ll tell people “My brother Mike is marrying Al in November.” I know I live in a state where gay marriage is legal, but “Al” is short for Allison.

\*“Whattup dawg?” \*[/Randy Jackson]

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**Author:** ![Dinaroozie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Dinaroozie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dinaroozie)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 5:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/6 "2008-09-14T05:46:50Z")

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For those I consider roughly in my age group, guys and girls. For those I consider a generation older than me, men and women. Not sure how that’ll change as I get older, though (I’m twenty-three now).

Also, though, I’ve noticed that it’s more to do with the context they’re being considered - someone I’m talking about in a personal context will be a guy or a girl, whereas someone I have an entirely professional relationship with is more likely to be a man or a woman. These aren’t rules I deliberately follow though - merely observations made after the fact.

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**Author:** ![Bear\_Nenno](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bear_nenno/32/3358_2.png) [@Bear\_Nenno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bear_Nenno)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 6:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/7 "2008-09-14T06:17:47Z")

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Males= Turd; Dickweed; Wild-Dick  
Female= Chick; Female

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**Author:** ![SSG\_Schwartz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SSG\_Schwartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SSG_Schwartz)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 6:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/8 "2008-09-14T06:26:51Z")

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> [@Bear\_Nenno](#):
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> Males= Turd; Dickweed; Wild-Dick  
> Female= Chick; Female

Bear, I thought you got the AR that said those terms were classified WRT males. 😉

SSG Schwartz

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**Author:** ![SpecialAgentJem](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f6c823/32.png) [@SpecialAgentJem](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SpecialAgentJem)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 10:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/9 "2008-09-14T10:27:31Z")

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Manny or wifey - well sometimes. I mostly use man or woman, I ve heard my parents use dame for a woman and bloke for a man. Some people use quine for a young girl around these parts.

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**Author:** ![ivan\_astikov](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/58f4c7/32.png) [@ivan\_astikov](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivan_astikov)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 10:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/10 "2008-09-14T10:36:00Z")

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> [@bbs2k](#):
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> Guys = “Man”, as in “Hey man, how’s it going?”
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> Girls = “Lady”, as in “Hey there lady.”  
> Also, I have the annoying habit of nicknaming everyone with shorter versions of their name.

Word, b!

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**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\
**Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 11:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/11 "2008-09-14T23:57:10Z")

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I use guys/dudes or chicks/dudes. In my mind dude is gender neutral.

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**Author:** ![BetsQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/fbc32d/32.png) [@BetsQ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BetsQ)\
**Post date:** [September 15, 2008, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-call-the-different-genders/463529/12 "2008-09-15T01:29:03Z")

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“Men” and “women.” “Guys” may be used in a collective, gender-neutral sort of way, as in “hey, guys, wanna go to lunch?”

When I’m coaching my 6yo’s baseball team, I use “boys” or “gentlemen.” The latter may be wishful thinking.
