# What Do You Do to Relax?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 22, 2024, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228 "2024-03-22T23:26:15Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Aspenglow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aspenglow/32/76_2.png) [@Aspenglow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aspenglow)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/21 "2024-03-23T03:50:26Z")

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Pour a glass of nice wine, climb into the hot tub and gaze at the stars until I turn into a giant prune.

Get lost in a good book.

Take a long walk in the woods.

Spend time training my dog.

Entertain friends or call a close friend for a fun chat.

Play with oil paints.

These all work well.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 4:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/22 "2024-03-23T04:01:45Z")

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You and I are so alike!

I pour a glass of the hot tub and gaze at the oil paints until I turn into my dog.

I get lost in the woods.

I spend time training my close friend.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 4:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/23 "2024-03-23T04:52:59Z")

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Catan and nonograms mostly. There are other games that i play, but those are my go-to games for chilling out.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/24 "2024-03-23T13:49:19Z")

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Always interesting to get up in the morning and see what I posted the night before!

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**Author:** ![Tibby](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tibby/32/17030_2.png) [@Tibby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tibby)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 2:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/25 "2024-03-23T14:17:21Z")

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**What Do You Do to Relax?**

Work.

I retired from medicine (not very relaxing) a few years ago, and now design websites and manage social media accounts for a number of small business clients. This involves a lot of graphic design, video editing/compositing, and photo-manipulation. It allows me to express my artistic side, which medicine never did.

I give my clients much more of my time than they pay for because I love this work, and I’m a perfectionist. It relaxes me. It doesn’t feel like a job at all.

Cooking also relaxes me.

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**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 2:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/26 "2024-03-23T14:21:45Z")

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Cooking, genealogy, extreme sneezing.

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**Author:** ![NegativeZer0](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/negativezer0/32/14307_2.png) [@NegativeZer0](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NegativeZer0)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 3:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/27 "2024-03-23T15:49:29Z")

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How is Catan on mobile?? I have always been curious. I love the board game, but never knew about the mobile version.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/28 "2024-03-23T16:24:37Z")

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> <https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.exozet.android.catan>
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> Become a Conqueror, Explorer and Merchant! The race to settle Catan has begun...

I play against bots, but there used to be (maybe still is) a way to play with other people.

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**Author:** ![racer72](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/racer72/32/3075_2.png) [@racer72](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/racer72)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 4:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/29 "2024-03-23T16:42:53Z")

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I like woodworking. I’m far from being a pro like the guys that make You Tube videos but it is relaxing to me. Plus it gives me an excuse to buy a new power tool I will only use a few times a year. The only downfall is my wife complaining about the sawdust that accumulates on her car.

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**Author:** ![brasstacks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d26b3c/32.png) [@brasstacks](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brasstacks)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 4:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/30 "2024-03-23T16:44:29Z")

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She needs to shut the fuck up and let you relax. I’m kidding of course.

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/31 "2024-03-23T19:33:56Z")

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I hear ya. Kinda like little Easter Eggs to yourself. Any post of mine time-stamped after, say 8pm local should not be taken too seriously.

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**Author:** ![Chefguy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chefguy/32/138_2.png) [@Chefguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chefguy)\
**Post date:** [March 23, 2024, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/32 "2024-03-23T19:46:04Z")

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> [@racer72](#):
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> I like woodworking. I’m far from being a pro like the guys that make You Tube videos but it is relaxing to me. Plus it gives me an excuse to buy a new power tool I will only use a few times a year.

I really miss my shop. When we decided to go to apartment living, I sold nearly all of my power tools, both free-standing and handheld. I did keep some of my hand tools (planes and some others), but really have no use for them. They’re in a box in my daughter’s garage.

Nowadays I fuss on the computer and occasionally glance at my Strat sitting in its stand with a fine coat of dust on it. My motivation has gone the way of the callouses on my fingertips. I do still cook, just not as much as I used to.

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**Author:** ![burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/burpo_the_wonder_mutt/32/365_2.png) [@burpo\_the\_wonder\_mutt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/burpo_the_wonder_mutt)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2024, 1:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/33 "2024-03-24T13:56:05Z")

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When things have hit rock bottom, I take down one of Stephen King’s early novels and plow through. Instant catharsis. There’s nothing worse than getting trapped in a school bus full of vampire children.

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**Author:** ![deltogre](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/deltogre/32/5041_2.png) [@deltogre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/deltogre)\
**Post date:** [March 24, 2024, 2:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/34 "2024-03-24T14:28:53Z")

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Definitely guitar. I love beer and weed, but nothing relaxes me and sets me straight like playing the guitar. Music is magical.

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**Author:** ![velomont](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/8491ac/32.png) [@velomont](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/velomont)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2024, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/35 "2024-03-25T22:09:21Z")

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> [@deltogre](#):
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> Definitely guitar. I love beer

Me too. I’ll be retiring in a few months and really look forward to spending a lot of time noodling on my guitars I also love micro-brews

I love also going to a cafe or bar and killing a few hours with some coffee or a few glasses of dry red wine and a good book.

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**Author:** ![deltogre](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/deltogre/32/5041_2.png) [@deltogre](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/deltogre)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2024, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/36 "2024-03-26T01:22:19Z")

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Man. If you are in Central Ohio, DM me. I have a few real kicked back “open mikes” that are worth sitting in on.

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**Author:** ![velomont](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/8491ac/32.png) [@velomont](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/velomont)\
**Post date:** [March 26, 2024, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/37 "2024-03-26T01:48:10Z")

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Sounds like a good time. Alas I’m up in Montreal, soon to be in Ottawa.

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**Author:** ![TRC4941](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/trc4941/32/6792_2.png) [@TRC4941](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TRC4941)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2024, 3:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/38 "2024-03-27T15:53:38Z")

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Take a walk in the woods.  
Watch an old movie.  
Read  
Crossword puzzles  
Play Wordle, Quordle & Octordle.  
On a warm summer’s day: Adirondak chair with foot stool, a Diet Coke, a bag of chips, and either a book/Kindle, magazines or a crossword puzzle. 🌞 🌞

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**Author:** ![SuntanLotion](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/suntanlotion/32/16165_2.png) [@SuntanLotion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuntanLotion)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2024, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/39 "2024-03-27T16:15:23Z")

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Octordle!?  
runs off…

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**Author:** ![Briny\_Deep](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/briny_deep/32/17188_2.png) [@Briny\_Deep](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Briny_Deep)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2024, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-do-to-relax/999228/40 "2024-03-27T16:17:44Z")

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Practice piano. When I’m feeling stressed out, practicing in a very particular and focused way is quite meditative. On these occasions I don’t play freely for fun, and I don’t play for Art, whatever that is – instead I focus on a little bit of business, a challenging 8-note passage in the left hand or whatever, and play it over and over (and over) trying to achieve perfection of tone and perfect dynamic control. This can turn into a 20-minute rabbit hole that absolutely resets my mind, completely aside from learning to play better.

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