# What do you like about yourself?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 14, 2005, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331 "2005-04-14T19:30:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Kythereia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e8c25b/32.png) [@Kythereia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kythereia)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 7:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/1 "2005-04-14T19:30:18Z")

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The flip side of [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=311610):

1. I have a nice smile–and I show it off to everyone. People think of me as kind and generous and thoughtful, and I suppose I am.

2. Boundless, irrepressible optimism.

3. I can’t write a math equation to save my life, I can’t ski without breaking at least one limb or tree branch, and I couldn’t act my way out of a paper bag–but get a pen and paper, and boy, I can _write_.

4. Friends say I listen well and respond well to people’s problems.

5. An IQ above and beyond normal.

6. I have pretty eyes–and nice hands.  
What about you?

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/2 "2005-04-14T20:34:14Z")

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I knew someone would start this thread eventually, and I’ve been trying to think of an answer, but without much luck. I _told_ you I was dumb!

No, wait…I’m a good speller.  
There are other things, but nothing I’d like to put down without adding a bunch of wishy-washy qualifiers.

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**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/3 "2005-04-14T20:54:20Z")

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I’m smart, funny, handsome, charismatic and rich. Children and small animals like me. Women are drawn to me. Men want to be friends with me.

What?..

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**Author:** ![Taran](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@Taran](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taran)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 9:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/4 "2005-04-14T21:26:04Z")

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My hair. Until it gets 3-4 inches long, it stands up perfectly straight without the aid of artificial additives of any kind.

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**Author:** ![Inigo\_Montoya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inigo_montoya/32/124_2.png) [@Inigo\_Montoya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inigo_Montoya)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/5 "2005-04-14T22:01:38Z")

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I am kind.  
I can talk to anybody about anything (except attractive wimmin, I have a 50/50 chance of failing to make any sense at all)  
I can talk to people who are in a bad mood and usually have them laughing inside of 5 minutes  
I’m terribly handy to have around the house.  
I’m AVAILABLE and I don’t like it that way.

😃

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**Author:** ![Mr\_Sakamoto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/898d66/32.png) [@Mr\_Sakamoto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Sakamoto)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 10:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/6 "2005-04-14T22:16:45Z")

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When my friends can’t decide where to eat dinner, I’m the one to offer up a few options. When they _still_ reply with that noncomittal “oh, it doesn’t matter”, I say “OK, we’re going to Arby’s” or something like that. Some might say I take advantage of noncomittal people; I just say everybody needs a leader.

I’m not in the best shape, but I spend two hours in the gym every day and eat healthy food.

Oh yeah, I’m good with my hands. I gave one girl a backrub, and she described it as being “like a million butterflies rubbing my back.” That’s by far the best, but not only, compliment I’ve received.

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**Author:** ![Mr\_Sakamoto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/898d66/32.png) [@Mr\_Sakamoto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr_Sakamoto)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 10:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/7 "2005-04-14T22:22:26Z")

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When my friends can’t decide where to eat dinner, I’m the one to offer up a few options. When they _still_ reply with that noncomittal “oh, it doesn’t matter”, I say “OK, we’re going to Arby’s” or something like that. Some might say I take advantage of noncomittal people; I just say everybody needs a leader.

I’m not in the best shape, but I spend two hours in the gym every day and eat healthy food. Last night, I had a salad and a grilled chicken breast, with a banana for dessert.

Oh yeah, I’m good with my hands. I gave one girl a backrub, and she described it as being “like a million butterflies rubbing my back.” That’s by far the best, but not only, compliment I’ve received.

I smell purty. Always. I know about four people who ritutally walk up to me and smell me at least once a week.

Oh yeah, I’ve also got high self-confidence bordering on the edge of arrogance 😃

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**Author:** ![Creaky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e68b1a/32.png) [@Creaky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Creaky)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 10:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/8 "2005-04-14T22:47:28Z")

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I’m nice to old people and cats.

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**Author:** ![Queen\_Bruin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/e274bd/32.png) [@Queen\_Bruin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Queen_Bruin)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 10:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/9 "2005-04-14T22:51:00Z")

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I used to spend a good deal of my time lamenting my drawbacks. But I got alot of good ones, too.

1. I might need to lose about 20 pounds, but I have great hair, lips, eyes and my hands and nails are nice too if I take care of them. My decolletage ain’t too shabby, either. Just don’t look below that.

2. I am not perfect at it, but I can spell pretty damn well. I take a bit of pride knowing that my husband couldn’t have got that _summa cum laude_ B.A. without my spellchecking. Well, he could have paid for a service if I wasn’t around, but I am free. 😃

3. I’m pretty reasonably intelligent. I think I’d be a little better off if I hadn’t done so many drugs as a teenager and I had a little more motivation, but I get along fairly well. 🙂 I just won’t be winning any Nobel prizes any time soon.

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**Author:** ![interface2x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/c0e974/32.png) [@interface2x](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/interface2x)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 11:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/10 "2005-04-14T23:19:36Z")

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1. I make a lot of dumb jokes and puns, but I think they’re funny.

2. I can do stuff in Excel really fast. And it’s kinda right most or some of the time.

3. Cats and children seem to like me.

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**Author:** ![Lobsang](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobsang/32/4067_2.png) [@Lobsang](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lobsang)\
**Post date:** [April 14, 2005, 11:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/11 "2005-04-14T23:27:37Z")

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I like my feet and legs. Sometimes I look in the mirror and think I don’t look too shabby.

I like my intelligence (which does not seem to include much wit unfortunately) and my ‘nack’ with computers.

I like that I know the ‘system’ better than anyone else at work.

I like that cool people seem to like me.

I am eager to please.

I am a good conversationalist.

I am not afraid to help out complete strangers if they need it.

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**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 12:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/12 "2005-04-15T00:19:19Z")

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> [@Creaky](#):
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> I’m nice to old people and cats.

I hate most old people and cats, so you’re a better person than me. 🙂

In that other thread it was my romanticism and idealism that I decried. Well, what’s best about me is my eternal optimism. Yes, I realize it’s hard to be optimistic without being idealistic and romantic. No I have no idea how to separate them.

I like that while not often, but every once in a while, I can get off such a good zinger that it leaves people speechless.

I have beautiful, large, dark eyes. I also have beautiful feet, that look nice with nailpolish and toerings. And I love my curly hair.

I’m poised between my two cultures and work every damn day to keep it that way.

I laugh, and laugh a lot, and I’m not afraid to laugh out loud anymore.

I can laugh at myself. I have self-confidence most of the time.

There’s a lot of stuff I like about myself, I see.

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**Author:** ![Dragwyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dragwyr/32/2855_2.png) [@Dragwyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragwyr)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 1:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/13 "2005-04-15T01:19:34Z")

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I take pride in the fact that I am a 1st Dan Black Belt in Moo Duk Kwan Tang Soo Do and that I earned that rank at the age of 10.

I am proud of the fact that I am an Eagle Scout.

I am happy that I found the wife that is perfect for me, who loves me with all my faults and shortcomings.

I am happy that I have 4 wonderful children who all think I’m great.

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**Author:** ![Strinka](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/strinka/32/512_2.png) [@Strinka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Strinka)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/14 "2005-04-15T01:26:10Z")

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I’ve got willpower and know how to use it.

I’m very good at recognizing people from behind.

I’m good with computers.

I’m smart.

Some other mundane stuff that doesn’t really need to be stated.

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**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 1:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/15 "2005-04-15T01:46:43Z")

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Oh, I know! I’m punctual. Very, very punctual. Yay me! 🙂

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/16 "2005-04-15T02:01:25Z")

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I’m _really_ good at nekkid thread-running.

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**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/17 "2005-04-15T02:10:46Z")

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I am polite.

I have good hair, pretty eyes, a nice smile, and good legs.

My laugh makes other people laugh.

I am intelligent, good-humored, and empathetic.

I like to help people.

Cats, dogs, little kids, and old people like me.

I am silly.

I have writing talent.

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**Author:** ![Creaky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e68b1a/32.png) [@Creaky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Creaky)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/18 "2005-04-15T03:21:02Z")

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> [@Anaamika](#):
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> I hate most old people and cats, so you’re a better person than me. 🙂

Well, I dislike almost everybody else, so I guess it evens out.

And you sound like a wonderful person, by the way! 🆒

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**Author:** ![Stillwell\_Angel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/96bed5/32.png) [@Stillwell\_Angel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stillwell_Angel)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/19 "2005-04-15T03:36:38Z")

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While my face is plain to average at best, my 36 year old body is still quite a head turner. I’m often mistaken for much younger. This is _quite_ a confidence booster when your an almost 40 year old mommy 😃

I’m very even tempered and get along with most anyone.

I’m valued by the people who matter to me.

I am now a non-smoker, that took 24 years to accomplish and makes me most pleased with myself.

I’ve raised a pretty neat kid.

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**Author:** ![jabiru](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bbce88/32.png) [@jabiru](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jabiru)\
**Post date:** [April 15, 2005, 6:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-do-you-like-about-yourself/299331/20 "2005-04-15T06:26:58Z")

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I laugh at people’s jokes. I obey the road rules.

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