Being at the hospital to have my tonsils removed, just before I started school. I had a “Metal Men” comic book.
Seeing my grandmother sitting on the edge of the tub, making strained sounds. Later, when I went to use the bathroom, I saw feces in the tub. I never said a word about what I had seen, and I was too young to know that her mind had been going bad for several years.
My first day of school. No one told me where I was supposed to go (i.e., which bus to get on) after school let out. I was walking aimlessly crying my little eyes out. A friend of my older brother saw me, and hustled me to the right bus. Why my brother or older sister didn’t, I never knew.
My older sister waking me up to tell me that “Senator Kennedy’s been killed!” I was only 7, and had no idea who Senator Kennedy was.
My fourth grade teacher didn’t show up for class one day. A classmate and I walked over to the office after about a half-hour and said, “Our teacher hasn’t shown up yet.” The office staff said, “We know.” The principal sat in and subbed that day. Our teacher (close to retirement age, and the absolute meanest teacher I ever had) had had a stroke and died six weeks into the school year.
The transistion (as the result of forced busing) between 4th and 5th grade. We went from about 80/20 White/Black ratio to 70/30 Black/White ratio. I also remember my older brother telling me he’d prefer I sit with other White people on the bus, and one time he came over, took me by the arm and re-seated me because I was sitting with a Black person.
Doing what my uncle called “rambling around old houses.” Legally, I think it’s called “breaking and entering.” At the least it was trespassing, and probably burglary.
Riding on the tractor with my uncle, as we would tow his boat three miles to the river to go fishing.
I do not remember the first moon landing. My uncle and I were probably fishing or rambling around old houses.
My sixth-grade teacher asking the class, “Do you know what earth-shaking event just recently happened?” None of us knew. The answer: Khrushchev had just died. Don’t know what that was so “earth-shaking” then, though. He had been out of power for years. Regardless, we were all to young to remember the Cuban Missile Crisis, and had no idea who he was.
In the seventh grade, while standing and reciting a poem in front of class, my underwear fell off (there was a reason), slid down my pants leg, and ended up around my shoe. The classmates that could see what happened absoluted erupted in howling laughter. I continued with my poem, and when finished very discretely leaned over, picked up my undies, balled them inside my hand, then tossed them inside my desk when I got back to it.