What does "good conservatism" look like?

When the disagreement is about my rights, it is not civil. Full stop. If you oppose LGBT rights, you’re a bad person. There is no amount of “civility” that will make demands for gay people to go back into the closet or trans people to live as their birth gender not a horribly bigoted, offensive statement.

If you support Trump… I mean, what do you expect? To me, this reads a lot like saying, “Those darn libs, they think that if you support Augusto Pinochet, you must be a bad person!” Yes! If you support a president who lies the way most of us breathe, takes immigration advice from neo-nazis, runs concentration camps with the explicit goal of cruelty as deterrent for migrants and asylum-seekers, constantly uses the government to enrich himself… You are a bad person. This isn’t hard. If I told you I enjoy shoving children in cages and torturing them with hot pokers, you’d be right to call me a goddamn fucking monster even if that was the favorite pastime of a significant portion of the country. :mad:

But that’s not even necessarily the problem.

To the degree that there are reasonable debates to be had on issues, they are, more often than not, had. We’ve had spirited debates about tax policy, the effects of various issues, and to the degree that it is debatable, those usually aren’t huge wastes of time. I may think your ideology is noxious and dangerous, but I’ll put that aside if there’s a real argument on the table, and debate it on its merit.

Y’know what the problem is?

This. This is the problem.

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This is the problem.

As the republican position becomes increasingly unhinged and disjointed from reality, the things republicans need to say become more and more insane, and you end up with posts like the above. Conservatives who feel the need to play stupid games around an activist murdered by neo-nazis. Conservatives who respond to well-documented abuse by saying “fake news”. Conservatives who, to bring up the latest kerfluffle in ATMB, accuse someone who came forward about rape allegations of doing it for political points.

Apart from all of these things being viscerally disgusting and incredibly immoral (seriously, blaming an activist protesting neo-nazis for being in a “politically charged environment” when she gets murdered, that’s pretty fucked up!), they make discussion virtually impossible. How should we have discourse, then, if one side gets to basically make up the facts as they see fit? If they have as much dedication to being honest in debate as their president does, but we also cannot call them liars? If their views are not worthy of debate, but rather of mockery, scorn, and shunning? That’s kind of where we’re at with quite a few people - and the only reason we’re not there with more is because this is the kind of person who bans the guy who posts nothing but racist Trump memes.

Let’s try a slightly different question. What does an intelligent Trump supporter look like? I don’t have an answer for that, to be perfectly honest.