# What does your partner call you in bed? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [December 12, 2013, 5:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167 "2013-12-12T17:06:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2014, 8:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/41 "2014-01-18T20:24:03Z")
She’s like Helen Keller when the Big O comes. All moans and hand gestures. ---
**Author:** ![Wile\_E](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c37758/32.png) [@Wile\_E](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wile_E)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2014, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/42 "2014-01-18T21:51:46Z")
Please? ---
**Author:** ![Los\_Anconfused](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/aca169/32.png) [@Los\_Anconfused](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Los_Anconfused)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2014, 10:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/43 "2014-01-18T22:39:11Z")
My wife calls my member Sir Lance-a-Lot. ---
**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/44 "2014-01-19T01:16:04Z")
“Doctor”. ---
**Author:** ![Molotok](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecd19e/32.png) [@Molotok](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Molotok)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 1:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/45 "2014-01-19T01:25:46Z")
‘‘My Kangaroo’’. Long story. ---
**Author:** ![Onomatopoeia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/onomatopoeia/32/4145_2.png) [@Onomatopoeia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Onomatopoeia)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/46 "2014-01-19T01:53:58Z")
> [@Grey\_area](#): > > Daddy and baby. > > Which oddly enough are sort of opposites. > > I’m surprised neither of the above has come up yet. Yeah, I get ‘daddy’ sometimes but I don’t care for it. It’s a turn-on for her but makes me uncomfortable. On the other hand, she usually calls me ‘papi’ during “fun time”, which is really the same as ‘daddy’ but, for some reason, I don’t mind it. Then again, she addresses me as ‘papi’ pretty much all the time now, even when around friends and family. The only time she uses my name anymore is when speaking about me to someone else, or when we are in the company of people who don’t know us well. ---
**Author:** ![Sehmket](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a183cd/32.png) [@Sehmket](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sehmket)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 5:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/47 "2014-01-19T05:59:38Z")
My ex and I weirdly avoided referring to each other by any name. Unhealthy Ex, and current folks, we all refer to each other as “Baby,” although I sometimes call current Dude “babe,” and current chick sometimes calls me “babycakes.” “Daddy” seriously bothers me, and if a guy asked me to call him that, I would have to reconsider our situation. ---
**Author:** ![Blackberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecd19e/32.png) [@Blackberry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackberry)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 6:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/48 "2014-01-19T06:28:21Z")
> [@Sehmket](#): > > “Daddy” seriously bothers me, and if a guy asked me to call him that, I would have to reconsider our situation. Yeah, I think that’s really creepy. My psycho ex says it but well he’s psycho. Then yesterday he non-jokingly called me a nigger-lover (not in bed…I’m not boning him) so that was arguably weirder. ---
**Author:** ![Spiderman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiderman/32/230_2.png) [@Spiderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiderman)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 3:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/49 "2014-01-19T15:17:33Z")
I’m surprised that no one has said that name “calling” is done in sign language. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/50 "2014-01-19T17:01:13Z")
> [@Spiderman](#): > > I’m surprised that no one has said that name “calling” is done in sign language. 😉 Post 41 ---
**Author:** ![Spiderman](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spiderman/32/230_2.png) [@Spiderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spiderman)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/51 "2014-01-19T17:17:12Z")
> [@NoClueBoy](#): > > Post 41 Not quite the same. Rosy Palm doesn’t have a mouth, so no moaning. ---
**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2014, 5:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/52 "2014-01-19T17:34:25Z")
> [@Spiderman](#): > > Not quite the same. Rosy Palm doesn’t have a mouth, so no moaning. Ahhh… I wasn’t clear on your meaning. Carry on ::backs slowly out of room, touching nothing:: 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2014, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/53 "2014-01-20T02:31:46Z")
> [@Spiderman](#): > > Not quite the same. Rosy Palm doesn’t have a mouth, so no moaning. Hmm. I wonder what, “I’m coming, I’m coming, OHMYGOD OHMYGOD OHHHH!” would be in sign language. ---
**Author:** ![Mofassah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/85f322/32.png) [@Mofassah](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mofassah)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 7:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/54 "2014-01-22T07:47:33Z")
She call me “Not yet”. ---
**Author:** ![Gagundathar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a183cd/32.png) [@Gagundathar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gagundathar)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/55 "2014-01-22T14:06:53Z")
Master. ---
**Author:** ![Fluke\_Starbucker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3e96dc/32.png) [@Fluke\_Starbucker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fluke_Starbucker)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2014, 3:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/56 "2014-01-22T15:04:01Z")
Flukenator ---
**Author:** ![April\_R](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3da27b/32.png) [@April\_R](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/April_R)\ **Post date:** [January 23, 2014, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/57 "2014-01-23T04:25:56Z")
My husband’s peen is called “The General” He doesn’t call my vag anything, he is just glad to be with her every once in a while. My meds that I am on cause libido issues ☹ ---
**Author:** ![drunkanddirty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a9a28c/32.png) [@drunkanddirty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drunkanddirty)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2014, 5:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/58 "2014-01-24T05:19:58Z")
They all have different names for me. My go-to names for them are “Sugarbritches” or “Squeezybits.” ---
**Author:** ![drewtwo99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d07c76/32.png) [@drewtwo99](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewtwo99)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2014, 5:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/59 "2014-01-24T05:27:06Z")
Baby, pretty much… though we never call it out during sex or anything like that. ---
**Author:** ![Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7cd45c/32.png) [@Elendil\_s\_Heir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Elendil_s_Heir)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2014, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167/60 "2014-01-29T02:13:26Z")
Nothing. There’s no one else there from whom she must distinguish me. [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-does-your-partner-call-you-in-bed/676167.md?page=2)