# what gives women the best orgasm? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [December 10, 2003, 1:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054 "2003-12-10T01:09:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![481618](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/4/9f8e36/32.png) [@481618](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/481618)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/1 "2003-12-10T01:09:42Z")
What is the best way to give a woman an orgasm? what feels best to her? etc. ---
**Author:** ![UncleBill](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/d26b3c/32.png) [@UncleBill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UncleBill)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/2 "2003-12-10T01:17:15Z")
Me. ---
**Author:** ![shannablu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8baadc/32.png) [@shannablu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shannablu)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/3 "2003-12-10T01:23:34Z")
For me it is direct stimulation of the clitoris, preferably during penetration. ---
**Author:** ![Silver\_Serpentine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3be4f8/32.png) [@Silver\_Serpentine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Serpentine)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/4 "2003-12-10T01:26:24Z")
Personally, I love being teased to the point, stop, back up, stop, and then all the way. hehe. Those are NICE. ---
**Author:** ![CarlaH1210](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ee59a6/32.png) [@CarlaH1210](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarlaH1210)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/5 "2003-12-10T01:27:02Z")
I agree with **Shannablu**. However, direct stimulation of the clitoris is usually not achieved during penetration, unless you are using an artificial device for either stimulation purposes or penetration purposes. It is a rare event (and lucky find) if the penis is able to penetrate and stimulate the clitoris at the same time. Not impossible, but rare. ---
**Author:** ![An\_Arky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/87869e/32.png) [@An\_Arky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/An_Arky)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/6 "2003-12-10T01:28:55Z")
I’m not sure about orgasm, but cleaning the house is excellent foreplay, and if you scrub the toilet, you are SO getting some! ---
**Author:** ![Q.E.D](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/51bf81/32.png) [@Q.E.D](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Q.E.D)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/7 "2003-12-10T01:29:01Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by UncleBill \* > \*\*Me. \*\* Cite? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![CarlaH1210](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ee59a6/32.png) [@CarlaH1210](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CarlaH1210)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/8 "2003-12-10T01:33:20Z")
How much does it cost to fly someone from Arlington, VA to the Ozarks in Missouri? Because I’ve got a messy house and would love to “give it up” in exchange for a good house cleaning. ---
**Author:** ![An\_Arky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/87869e/32.png) [@An\_Arky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/An_Arky)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 1:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/9 "2003-12-10T01:50:35Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by CarlaH1210 \* > \*\*How much does it cost to fly someone from Arlington, VA to the Ozarks in Missouri? Because I’ve got a messy house and would love to “give it up” in exchange for a good house cleaning. \*\* teehee!😉 ---
**Author:** ![bughunter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aeb1de/32.png) [@bughunter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bughunter)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 2:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/10 "2003-12-10T02:27:23Z")
Read [This Thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=226838). I think it has something to do with that… ---
**Author:** ![KP](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/a9adbd/32.png) [@KP](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KP)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/11 "2003-12-10T02:55:39Z")
> [@](#): > > …,if you scrub the toilet, you are SO getting some! Cite? ---
**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 3:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/12 "2003-12-10T03:42:18Z")
I’m not sure that there is a factual answer to this - every woman would be different… ---
**Author:** ![Skillet38](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8797f3/32.png) [@Skillet38](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skillet38)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 4:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/13 "2003-12-10T04:02:02Z")
Have you tried cocaine ? ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Dog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@Turbo\_Dog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Turbo_Dog)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 4:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/14 "2003-12-10T04:10:06Z")
Depends on the woman, depends on her partner. She’ll let you know if you can’t figure it out on your own and/or you’ll figure it out if you are concerned enough. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/15 "2003-12-10T04:33:50Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by CarlaH1210 \* > \*\*I agree with **Shannablu**. However, direct stimulation of the clitoris is usually not achieved during penetration, unless you are using an artificial device for either stimulation purposes or penetration purposes. It is a rare event (and lucky find) if the penis is able to penetrate and stimulate the clitoris at the same time. Not impossible, but rare. \*\* Um, one could always use one’s hand to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse. Either the woman’s own hand, or her partner’s. ---
**Author:** ![Carlos619](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/6bbea6/32.png) [@Carlos619](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Carlos619)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 4:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/16 "2003-12-10T04:36:22Z")
Tongue f \* \* k i n g ---
**Author:** ![tremorviolet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e47774/32.png) [@tremorviolet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tremorviolet)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/17 "2003-12-10T04:43:12Z")
Three words: **Hitachi Magic Wand** ---
**Author:** ![DreadCthulhu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/db5fbb/32.png) [@DreadCthulhu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DreadCthulhu)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/18 "2003-12-10T05:00:43Z")
Tentacles. Women LOVE the tentacles. ---
**Author:** ![Duckster](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/duckster/32/1244_2.png) [@Duckster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Duckster)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 5:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/19 "2003-12-10T05:01:28Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Khadaji \* > \*\*I’m not sure that there is a factual answer to this - every woman would be different… \*\* Cite? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![xash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/c6cbf5/32.png) [@xash](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xash)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2003, 6:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054/20 "2003-12-10T06:14:13Z")
Moved to IMH O. - **xash** General Questions Moderator [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-gives-women-the-best-orgasm/218054.md?page=2)