Here;s whatIMDB says on the subject:
The ending to the film “14 Going On 30 (1988)” is commonly mistaken for an alternate ending to “Big (1988)”. There are no alternate endings to “Big (1988)”. Although the plots to the two films are broadly similar, but the films are not the same.
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Some believe that a home video release of this movie in New Zealand included an alternate ending. The alternate ending allegedly shows young Josh sitting in his classroom at school when he turns around to notice a young female classmate of whom who he recognizes recognizes as Susan- who went back to the fairground machine and wished that she was Josh’s age. Some claim that this version was also seen on Latin American television. However, an extensive search of the internet, viewing of videotapes from New Zealand, and even letters to Tom Hanks and Penny Marshall have provided no evidence of any ending other than The US DVD release of this film which simply shows Josh and Billy walking up their street, and then the credits rolling."
And here is the ending scene from 14 going on 30. Start at about 2:40 to see the girlfriend walk in to the classroom.
The “missing” big scene is clearly from the Disney rip-off. All of the descriptions by people match 14 Going On 30, not Big. Besides, if an alternate ending to Big really existed, it’d be on YouTube by now!