# What happened to the thread about the homeless girl thinking of becoming a BDSM slave **URL:** \ **Category:** About This Message Board\ **Created:** [March 19, 2009, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992 "2009-03-19T04:41:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Snow\_Pea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@Snow\_Pea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snow_Pea)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/1 "2009-03-19T04:41:46Z")
I replied to this. Now can’t find it. ---
**Author:** ![Argent\_Towers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e8c25b/32.png) [@Argent\_Towers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Argent_Towers)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/2 "2009-03-19T05:09:16Z")
Wasn’t there a female poster here for a while who was a BDSM slave? I recall there being a very controversial thread started by her, in which she was widely condemned by a lot of people. What was that poster’s name? ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/3 "2009-03-19T05:20:58Z")
You mean **Seeker**? I know he was banned, but he was male, not female. ETA: That refers to the OP. **Argent Towers** , I think you mean that poster, **freekalette**? Or something like that. ---
**Author:** ![Argent\_Towers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e8c25b/32.png) [@Argent\_Towers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Argent_Towers)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/4 "2009-03-19T05:22:16Z")
No, I am talking about someone else. There was definitely someone on this board, who came (can’t remember how long ago, but it feels like at least a year) who was in a “slave” relationship, and she revealed all kinds of details about her life. I remember her being widely criticized for it. I do not remember her being banned, and I’m pretty sure her name wasn’t “seeker.” (ETA - that’s right.) ---
**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/5 "2009-03-19T05:32:00Z")
Moving thread from IMHO to ATMB. ---
**Author:** ![Argent\_Towers](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e8c25b/32.png) [@Argent\_Towers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Argent_Towers)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/6 "2009-03-19T05:33:39Z")
Now I want to know, because it sounds pretty interesting. ---
**Author:** ![AngelSoft](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/angelsoft/32/440_2.png) [@AngelSoft](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AngelSoft)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/7 "2009-03-19T05:36:10Z")
> [@Argent\_Towers](#): > > Now I want to know, because it sounds pretty interesting. Yeah, now it’s more like a cop standing in front of something and saying “Move along, nothing to see”. Well it MUST be something to see if the cop is there and says it’s nothing! ---
**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/8 "2009-03-19T05:37:21Z")
I’m pretty sure the OP does refer to **Seeker** because it would make sense for the thread to be gone if he was banned. And I remember him saying he was homeless and thinking of solving it by being a slave. The only reason I know that **Seeker** is actually a guy is b/c I assumed he was female and he corrected me in the Werewolf game we were playing. ---
**Author:** ![Nametag](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/nametag/32/406_2.png) [@Nametag](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nametag)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 8:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/9 "2009-03-19T08:26:22Z")
> [@Argent\_Towers](#): > > No, I am talking about someone else. There was definitely someone on this board, who came (can’t remember how long ago, but it feels like at least a year) who was in a “slave” relationship, and she revealed all kinds of details about her life. I remember her being widely criticized for it. I do not remember her being banned, and I’m pretty sure her name wasn’t “seeker.” > > (ETA - that’s right.) IIRC, she was mainly criticized for engaging in this lifestyle while raising children. She claimed that the children weren’t exposed to the master/slave dynamic, but the way it permeated the marriage made many posters doubt that this was possible. Specifically, they said the parents were modeling misogynist attitudes and unhealthy/unrealistic expectations. Yes, it was [**freekalette**](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=460770) ---
**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 10:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/10 "2009-03-19T10:55:11Z")
The post **Snow Pea** is asking about was by **Seeker of Truth & Beauty**. It was removed because that’s what we usually (not always) do with threads started by people using sock accounts. ---
**Author:** ![Snow\_Pea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@Snow\_Pea](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Snow_Pea)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/11 "2009-03-19T16:05:27Z")
> [@Marley23](#): > > The post **Snow Pea** is asking about was by **Seeker of Truth & Beauty**. It was removed because that’s what we usually (not always) do with threads started by people using sock accounts. Okay thanks. I thought I was losing my mind, and only imagined the whole thing. 😛 Too bad, too. I put a lot of thought into my reply. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![AuntiePam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@AuntiePam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AuntiePam)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2009, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/12 "2009-03-19T17:27:08Z")
I didn’t see the thread here, but Seeker posted about this on Giraffe’s board too. (He’s not going to do it.) ---
**Author:** ![not\_alice](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/not_alice/32/7283_2.png) [@not\_alice](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/not_alice)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-happened-to-the-thread-about-the-homeless-girl-thinking-of-becoming-a-bdsm-slave/489992/13 "2009-03-20T21:59:27Z")
that thread mentions but does not link to a pit thread. Anyone have a link?