My parents had their house repossessed in the early 80s. It wasn’t fun. I was around 12 or 13.
My Dad owned his own construction company, and the construction trade tanked in this area at this time. Still, he was doing OK. Until the bank decided he wasn’t, and called in some loans that he had signed for personally. I was a kid, so I don’t know the details, but from what my parents tell me, they had a plan in place to pay for the loans and they had work coming in. But the bank played hardball and insisted they pay up immediately or they were taking their house (along with another house they owned, and some other property. They had to get a lawyer to ensure the bank only grabbed what they could legally grab.)
At the time, the real estate market had also tanked, so my parents took a risk and decided to ride it out. They figured that in a few month’s time, they’d have the money to pay the bank and essentially buy back their house. They had a friend who had done that, and they’d consulted with a lawyer who said it was a good plan.
Except what they hadn’t counted on was that our house was nice. My Dad had planned and built it himself, and it was their dream house. The bank put a bargain basement price tag on it, and sure enough, it sold. I was the one who ran out and got the mail that day, and was “helping” my mother open it. She told me I could open the one from the bank, thinking it was a routine notice or something. Instead, it was a letter telling us we had 30 days to move.
Yes, I’m sure some of this was my Dad’s fault - poor money management and all, and he took some risks. But it was also just plain bad luck. My parents pay their bills and would have pulled out of the hole they were in. (In fact, they did. They’re doing fine now, 20 years later).
I remember the person who bought the house. I remember packing up to move. I have to sit on my hands whenever someone starts a thread about how they’re going to buy foreclosed homes to turn a profit. Sure, they’re good bargains - but to me, it’s too high a price to pay to turn someone out of their home. No matter how bad the parents are, all the kids understand is that they’re being turned out of their house…