Whether you realize it or not, you’re coming off really condescending.
You said it was my fault I didn’t get a job with health benefits IMMEDIATELY after losing the one I had. My point - which appears to have sailed over your head - is that acquiring a job is not like making a purchase. I have been trying my best for over two months to get a job and I have not been hired. Well, the two-month gap has occurred and we are screwed. You said I didn’t know how the system worked. I do, in fact know how the system works, but the problem is I could not obtain a new job fast enough no matter what I did. We are screwed, but hey, it’s OK because it’s “nobody’s fault” - except, perhaps, for mine for not getting a new job immediately despite my efforts to do so. I am saying no, it is NOT OK that this can be the result of our current system.
And yet you blithely assumed I don’t know how the system works despite years of working for the insurance industry. If you can make assumptions about me, I can make them about you.
Right - so my husband has to live with nearly useless hands and daily pain - but hey, it’s OK because it’s nobody’s fault. My husband has diabetes that requires daily maintenance. It’s f’ing hard to pay for his testing supplies and medications, not to mention regular testing but hey, if we can’t afford it that’s just peachy. I mean, it doesn’t matter if he goes blind or his limbs go numb or whatever, it’s OK because it’s nobody’s fault. Sure, we have access if he’s in a coma but if he’s just debilitated and blind that’s OK because we somehow don’t deserve the same treatment as someone else. We just poor, evil, lazy people who deserve to suffer and live in pain despite the fact we know damn well that the treatments to ease our maladies DO exist.
Or, a little less stridently - someone in chronic pain who can be helped by surgery will get that surgery if insured in the US, will get that surgery (with some wait, possibly) in Europe or Australia, but in the US if someone doesn’t have insurance they will NEVER get that surgery, they will “merely” live in pain every day of their lives, possibly for decades. But hey, it’s OK because it’s nobody’s fault.
Let me tell you something, Sprockets, it IS someone’s fault - collectively, it’s ALL our fault because we COULD provide basic care for all but we don’t.
How is “I’m sorry but you’ll have to wait six months (or a year)” worse than “I’m sorry, you can never have it.”?
Oh, Mr. Condescending again - and when I told you just a few hours ago I am going on yet another job interview! WTF do you THINK I am doing? Despite the fact you seem to think I’m sitting at home going boo-hoo-hoo I am most certainly not! So sorry if my participating in this discussion based on my own experiences causes you distress. Yes, I am angry at people like you who really don’t give a damn about the suffering of others, or who will be condescending when someone comes to a different conclusion than you. This so-called system we have destroys people as often as it saves them. Modern medical care is USELESS if you can’t access the care you need. It is wrong that people suffer daily pain and permanent but preventable damage when we can do something about it.