# What has a Doper done for you?  A thank you thread

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [January 28, 2004, 6:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450 "2004-01-28T18:50:16Z")\
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**Author:** ![Doomtrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/0ea827/32.png) [@Doomtrain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Doomtrain)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 6:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/21 "2004-01-29T06:14:59Z")

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Hrmm. **Quasimodem** rocks, if only because he provided us with our first Dopefest and introducing us to the wonderful world of Weird European Greeting Cards with Insidey Things That Fall Out. 😃

All the regulars on #straightdope. I hang out there far less than I would like to.

All the participants in Osip’s SDMB League (Fantasy Football). Worthy opponents all, and I’d never worried as much about a battle for last place as I did in that league. Next year: Head to Head!

And a general thanks to everyone else, cause this board kicks ass.

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**Author:** ![brianjedi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3be4f8/32.png) [@brianjedi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/brianjedi)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 6:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/22 "2004-01-29T06:17:49Z")

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> [@MsRobyn](#):
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> Well, the most obvious is **Airman Doors** who fathered my child and married me. 😉
> 
> In second place is **Zappo** who has allowed us to trash his house (twice) giving Dopefests.
> 
> In close third are various MADs and Texas Dopers, past, present, future, and soon-to-be past for general friendship, hand-holding and related services.
> 
> I can’t forget the #straightdope people at all, either. (Thanks to **brianjedi** for the book!)
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> And, of course, all the Dopers who have held my hand, offered encouragement, and made me laugh. [sub]Note to self: Don’t read Pit threads in the library. You sound like a water buffalo giving birth. :D[/sub]
> 
> Robin

You’re welcome, **Robyn**. Glad I could help, from one journalism student to another.

My thank yous (boy, feels like I’m writing liner notes):

**LaurAnge** , who gave me my LJ code.

**insomnia4am** , for buying me that first paid LJ and being so cool.

**Jessity** , for being a good friend.

**Aesiron** , **sheepi83** and the rest of my #straightdope buddies for keeping me entertained.

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**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 9:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/23 "2004-01-29T09:13:21Z")

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**Stoid** fedexed me a large number of _Buffy the Vampire Slayer_ videotapes a couple of years ago so my wife and I could catch up on back episodes and watch the end of the final season as it happened. I’d love to thank her in person.

And I’ll always be grateful to **Larry Mudd** for the reacharound. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Ice\_Wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/dfb087/32.png) [@Ice\_Wolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ice_Wolf)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 9:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/24 "2004-01-29T09:22:35Z")

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I’ve received tons of help from Dopers I’ve come to know over the last three years. Just those who come to mind (and I’m sure I’ll miss someone out):

**TheLoadedDog** and **Goo** (I believe she’s changed her name here, so I’ve heard, but I don’t know the new one yet) hosted me when I gathered up my scraps of courage and visited Sydney and the Central Coast last month. Thanks. **TLD** has been a great friend, helping me through more storms than any guy should ever have to help a Wolf through. Thanks, mate.

**Quasimodem** is a treasure of a friend. His words and voice have kept me going over a recent rough patch. Likewise with **LeeJam**. Thanks, both of you.

Then, my text-only pals who help keep me company in the night: **Flamsterette\_X** , and **Aslan**.

There are others. Hope they realise how much I appreciate them. **Thylacine** , **leechbabe**. The whole crew, really, at the G’Dope Board. There are folk there who have helped me by giving me a damn good chuckle. Lots of times.

I am grateful to have known them all.

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**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 11:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/25 "2004-01-29T11:47:02Z")

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I forgot to mention! How could I forget? (Well, since the car has been sold and all): **AIRMAN DOORS!** He and **MrsRobyn** came down from central PA so that Doors could replace the radiator in my car when it went kablooie, and Dave was outta town. Cool!

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**Author:** ![maleinblack](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e5b9ba/32.png) [@maleinblack](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/maleinblack)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 1:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/26 "2004-01-29T13:36:32Z")

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**calm kiwi** has been a great friend ever since I met her online 4 years ago.She was the one who introduced me to this place in the first place.

She also regularly sends me letters,CD’s,books etc all the way from NZ.(I stay in India).More importantly she is always supportive and helpful and been the perfect friend one could ever wish for.

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**Author:** ![Dragwyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dragwyr/32/2855_2.png) [@Dragwyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragwyr)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/27 "2004-01-29T13:49:20Z")

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**OpalCat** gave me some excellent advice about software for setting up a cam to broadcast to a web page which was very helpful. Thanks, **Opal**

**Seawitch** , back in 2001, started [this thread](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=90595) **giving** away serveral EXCELLENT reference books on magic and sleight of hand. As the lucky first poster in that thread, I was able to get my hands on many great books that I otherwise would never have gotten. Thank you VERY much, **seawitch**! The books have been very useful.

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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 2:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/28 "2004-01-29T14:00:04Z")

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**astro** sent this ALW fan a programme and playbill from the Korean production of “Phantom of the Opera.” I treasure them.

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**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/29 "2004-01-29T14:08:47Z")

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I’ve much enjoyed the Londopes I’ve attended, so thanks guys and gals for the fun!

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**Author:** ![Politzania](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/3ab097/32.png) [@Politzania](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Politzania)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/30 "2004-01-29T14:09:44Z")

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> [@scout1222](#):
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> Wow, that’s awesome!
> 
> **Politzania** , who doesn’t post here much, has sent me a mix CD and a couple of books that she was done with.
> 
> Other than that, I thankfully haven’t been in a pinch yet that required more drastic Doper intervention. 😃

:: blush:: – \* Odd Girl Out\* will be on its way Friday…

**crankyasanoldman** has done the book sharing thing with me, as well as sent lovely holiday & Valentines cards. I got a spiffy airplane postcard from **Rue** too!

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**Author:** ![Lissla\_Lissar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8491ac/32.png) [@Lissla\_Lissar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lissla_Lissar)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 2:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/31 "2004-01-29T14:35:46Z")

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Everyone in **Rue** ’s MMP threads- they kept me cheerful last winter, when I was adjusting to being married, home with a very sick cat, and broke.

**Osgie** , for the very lovely wedding present, and for her promise to visit us this summer, and for turning out not to be a seven foot tall 50ish potbellied biker with three eyes and tatoos all over, even though she said she was.

**Guin** , for being who she is- loyal and loving.

Everyone here for giving me countless hours of fun and LOTR arguments.

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/32 "2004-01-29T15:50:44Z")

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> [@GingerOfTheNorth](#):
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> **Hamadryad** : where to begin. When I moved here and fell into a pit of despair (northern Maryland), Hama kept me sane, she kept me laughing. I owe her so much for that.

You’re going to totally screw up my rep. For this, I hate you with passion unspeakable.

**Jessity** has sent me a couple of cards that she made with her own hands out of construction paper, including one with a drawing of a monkey that looks like he’s picking out a wedgie. These made me laugh, and that is a Good Thing.

I have gotten CDs from a couple of people - **CrankyAsAnOldMan, Sophie, and Chef Troy** come to mind. Troy has sent me a BUNCH of CDs and they’re all fargin’ fabulous.

When my granddaughter came to stay with me for almost a month unexpectedly, **Tequila Mockingbird** and **Sophie** both sent me boxes of fantastic little girl hand-me-downs - extra-fabulous because it was in the fall and she had nothing but summer clothes with her…many of which she was outgrowing. **Sophie** also sent an extra gift which I found absolutely amazing.

**Elenfair** sent me a gift for not being a whiny asshole, which anyone who knows me should find hilarious.

**aenea** gave me stained glass classes. I love working with it! Gotta wait for the weather to warm up before I can get started again, though, because my workshop is in the (freezing cold) garage. She’s an amazing person.

**Billdo** and **Maeglin** have both given me places to sleep in the Big Eek Scary City - saving me literally hundreds of dollars in hotel fees, thereby making it possible for me to go to NYC _at all_.

**manhattan** got me to Chicago. Which looks really funny if you have no frame of reference. And **jarbabyj** gave me a place to sleep and watch really bad TV.

**Gingy** makes me feel good about myself because her stench makes my fragrance seem lovely in comparison.

**Chef Troy** is my best friend that I’ve never met. He’s picked me up at some REALLY low times - before I was medicated, and during, and after. He’s introduced me to some really fantastic blues music. Just…all-around wonderful guy.

Other people have done stuff too…phone calls, emails…I’m afraid of leaving someone out. I hadn’t really tallied up how many people have done things for me, or how much support I’ve had from people on here. I mean, there’s the chocolate-covered espresso beans **Eonwe** gave me, and phone calls from **Tiburon** , and books from **Joey Hemlock** and **CrankyAsAnOldMan** , and long typed talks with **Dynosaur** and **Elenfair** and others…

If I left anyone out, I’m sorry and I suck.

If anyone in this thread tells anyone else I have a heart, I’ll kill them. KEEL THEM!

Back to your regularly scheduled Hamadryad.

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**Author:** ![TroubleAgain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e480ec/32.png) [@TroubleAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TroubleAgain)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/33 "2004-01-29T19:31:32Z")

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**Scotticher** has given me the gift of her friendship. 'Nuff said. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Green\_Cymbeline](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_cymbeline/32/9244_2.png) [@Green\_Cymbeline](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Cymbeline)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/34 "2004-01-29T19:49:19Z")

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**Anita Vacation** drove me to New York City, invited me to her parties and hasbeen an all-around sweet person!

**OpalCat** celebrated New Year’s Eve with me (as well as Anita), been a sweet friend and chats with me at work so I’m not so bored. She also puts up all the Dopefest photos on her site!

And, last but not least, _another certain unnamed Doper_ has done lots of nice stuff for me, but I can’t really talk about it here, if you know what I mean 😃

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**Author:** ![Green\_Cymbeline](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_cymbeline/32/9244_2.png) [@Green\_Cymbeline](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Cymbeline)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/35 "2004-01-29T19:53:49Z")

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Also, there’s **av8rmike** who also is a good friend to me. Fun to hang out with and interesting to talk to. 🙂 And very nice and sweet!

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**Author:** ![jeevwoman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9de053/32.png) [@jeevwoman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jeevwoman)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/36 "2004-01-29T20:01:25Z")

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Well, IRL I know only two dopers and they have both proven to be extraordinary people, so I guess I am 2 for 2:

**Eva Luna** , for introducing me to my husband

and **jeevmon** , the aforementioned spouse, who does remarkable things for me all the time, including last night when he drove me–during _Angel_ no less-to visit a friend whose mom is dying.

Seems like I should meet more of you to see if my record will still stand. Of course, no pressure on all those Chidopers going to dinner on Saturday. 🙂

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**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/37 "2004-01-29T20:12:24Z")

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Okay … reaching into the memory back from June 200 until now. And I’m not counting my mother or my brother, both of whom are dopers, nor the guys I introduced to this board, because then this would be another one of those 2K-word posts.

Right. Rides to and from various places from: Geobabe, John Corrado, pldennison, althea, RTFirefly, Zappo, MsRobyn, Weirddave, Gingy, Quixotic78, catsix, Montfort, Billdo, Hamadryad, Civil Defense … I think that’s it.

Food from (this would be the folks who’ve hosted fests or brought food): RT, Geobabe, Mrs. and Mr. GingeroftheNorth, Billdo, jarbabyj, \*, Jonathan Chance, OpalCat, … I know there are folks I’m forgetting, which is one reason I’m not overly fond of lists with names. Anyhow.

Space from (folks who let me sleep in their place but I didn’t eat them out of house or home): MsRobyn, Pucette, Quixotic78, \*, … I know there’s someone I’m forgetting, but through 40+ months I don’t remember everything.

Intangible support from people too numerous to name _in toto_, so I’ll throw in a name or two not already here because this is about spreading the love: purrplebear, mirrored indigo shadows (nee ssskuggiii), Medea’s Child, Polycarp, andros, Diogenes, Brunetter, Palmyra, \*, mattmcl, andygirl, Mockingbird, Scotticher, Jessity, Drain Bead, hardygrrl, Crunchy Frog, Eutychus, TruePises, Elenfair, NinetyWt, Una Persson, Airman Doors, nocturne, … that list is nowhere near complete, but it’ll have to do for now.

And then there’s **fizzy** , who … well, yeah:)

\*[sub]Given past board history I am not sure if it is yet safe to mention her name.[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Casey1505](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/dc4da7/32.png) [@Casey1505](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Casey1505)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/38 "2004-01-29T20:12:45Z")

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**Tripler** , for planting the idea of stuffed cabbage in my head about a month ago. I finally finished up the batch I made, and it was just as good as the day I made it.

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**Author:** ![Eve](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Eve](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eve)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 8:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/39 "2004-01-29T20:41:21Z")

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> [@MsRobyn](#):
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> Well, the most obvious is **Airman Doors** who fathered my child and married me. ;)Robin

Hey, me too!

Let’s see . . . **E-Sabbath** came all the way out to NJ to fix my computer . . . **Crankyasanoldman** sent me a 1930 magazine on movie stars just 'cause she knew I’d like it . . . **Ukulele Ike** has gifted me with several swell books and tapes . . .

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**Author:** ![plnnr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@plnnr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/plnnr)\
**Post date:** [January 29, 2004, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-has-a-doper-done-for-you-a-thank-you-thread/226450/40 "2004-01-29T20:53:52Z")

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**Ike** was kind enough to send me a Jerry Garcia/Howard Wales tape that I’ve enjoyed quite a bit, a few of you were good enough to participate in a short-lived campaign I started to rejuvenate the fast-dying art of letter writing; and, a few of you have been kind enough to tell me that I look good naked 🆒.

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