# What in the world makes you think you have the right to contact my husband?

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [April 29, 2004, 4:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-in-the-world-makes-you-think-you-have-the-right-to-contact-my-husband/242689 "2004-04-29T16:09:05Z")\
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**Author:** ![Aries28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e36b37/32.png) [@Aries28](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aries28)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2004, 1:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-in-the-world-makes-you-think-you-have-the-right-to-contact-my-husband/242689/61 "2004-04-30T13:00:20Z")

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> [@spooje](#):
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> Does he regulary read your LJ?
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> I have to ask, although I know it will only lead to trouble for me.
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> How would you feel if the situation we reversed?
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> He met some woman. Said woman got too touchy feely and he sent her away. He tells you this. But he has what I can only asume is a sexual dream (I haven’t read your LJ) and then posts it on the internet, somewhere you don’t go to read.
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> How would you feel? Anger, jealousy? Or would you pay no mind to it?

Fair enough.

1. Yes, he reads my LJ every now and again. He doesn’t have a LJ though so any entry I make friends only he can’t read.

2. If the situation were reversed I would think whoever emailed me to tell me about a dream my husband had was a certified loon.

3. Regardless of whether or not I would be upset about a dream isn’t the point…FTR I might be a little miffed but I think I would quickly get over it and tease him unmercifully about it. The rant is directed to the person who felt it their business to email him behind my back and imply I was posting strange stuff that he needed to know about.

I am moving my journal to a complete friends only basis in the immediate future so hopefully I won’t have this situation arise again.

Let this be a lesson to us all that some people are nuts. 😉

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